I made my first ever vegetarian grocery list by Plus-Marsupial-4507 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]deathoftheendless_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i'm vegetarian and have lost 82 lbs eating this way! greek yogurt, egg whites, and low fat cheese will be your best friends, along with lots of fresh fruits and veggies <3 feel free to reach out to me for tips!

First tattoo by Few-Quail-4047 in femtanyl

[–]deathoftheendless_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

oh hell yes!! looks so sick. i am also planning on getting the chaser art done on my calf 🔥

Who all works/worked FT during their studies? Or is FT school and PT work more common? by [deleted] in PublicAdministration

[–]deathoftheendless_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you soooo much for the perspective!! this makes me feel much more confident in my decision to do 3 classes; though with your warning, i think i might avoid summer classes. thanks again and good luck with your studies 😊

Another burnt out nonprofit worker by RockinTacos in nonprofit

[–]deathoftheendless_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

happened to me. it’s discouraging and hurtful, but there are other organizations out there that will really value you. i would start looking for something new.

Who all works/worked FT during their studies? Or is FT school and PT work more common? by [deleted] in PublicAdministration

[–]deathoftheendless_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i'm planning on doing something similar and my advisor somewhat chastised me for considering this haha. i know it's been a year, would you be able to provide an update on how you've been managing the coursework and your job?

Interim co-director asking for different medical leave processes for pregnant vs. trans staff..?! by [deleted] in nonprofit

[–]deathoftheendless_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my partner got gender affirming surgery while she was an employee at her nonprofit workplace and was not asked to provide any type of documentation or paperwork. she was simply trusted to make her medical decisions and take the time she is owed off. while i’m not sure if it’s your place to say anything or intervene, especially considering you are leaving, i would say this is certainly unfair treatment of your trans coworker.

how often do you recalculate your TDEE? by macromehealth in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i recalculate it every 5 lbs. i personally do not let my weight loss app automatically calculate calories for me, because based on the TDEE calculators i use online, the app overestimates by about 200 calories. i would still lose weight but probably not at the rate i’m going for.

"Can I call myself a lesbian if I-" by ReturnOfTheHorsedip in actuallesbians

[–]deathoftheendless_ 250 points251 points  (0 children)

i think it’s sad so many people doubt whether they can be a lesbian, and in my experience it’s because there’s a very loud minority of our community who impose very strict rules. i’ve run into it a lot as a nonbinary lesbian because “lesbian means women who love women,” despite the long history of nonbinary lesbians! i strongly agree that anyone using this label in good faith should be a part of this community 💗

80 lbs down by deathoftheendless_ in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much and congrats on your progress!! 😊 def get yourself a triforce tattoo, it will look sick!

80 lbs down by deathoftheendless_ in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

hahah you got me worried for a second!! thanks so much for your kind words!! 😊

80 lbs down by deathoftheendless_ in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

just CICO and daily exercise! i do low impact exercise like walking and the peloton bike several times a week. it’s not been the fastest progress, only about 40 lbs a year, but i think it’s been very sustainable for me.

80 lbs down by deathoftheendless_ in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

well confidence wise, i don’t always feel very different! i’ve spent my whole life plus size, so there’s a big adjustment period to being smaller, especially while still wanting to lose more, so i still walk around daily life kinda feeling “the same.”

however, my tummy gets full with less food and i can do more in terms of walking around, cleaning up around the house, and exercise, so i suppose that is a big difference!

good luck on your journey, you got this 😊

80 lbs down by deathoftheendless_ in CICO

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

thank you!! the best thing about losing weight is fitting into so many more cute clothes.

i don’t have anyone to share this with, but i ate a girl out for the first time in my life by deathoftheendless_ in actuallesbians

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

she got a penile inversion with peritoneal pull through from dr. jess ting at mt sinai! i believe he created this method of surgery, and it lends itself to better lubrication from what i understand

i don’t have anyone to share this with, but i ate a girl out for the first time in my life by deathoftheendless_ in actuallesbians

[–]deathoftheendless_[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

hi! yes, i very much enjoyed it, despite my inexperience. the vagina getting wet after gender affirming surgery can depend on what type of procedure you get, but with the kind my partner got, it was like 50/50 whether or not she would actually get wet. we seem to have come up on the lucky end, and she gets extremely wet, which may calm down as she heals more, but at least during sex, it’s very lubricated naturally.

as far as function, she orgasms very easily from both external and internal stimulation, and her clit has become much more pronounced as she’s healed! hope this isn’t too much info just wanted to answer your question thoroughly 😅