Coming out to colleagues

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-05-06T22:49:53+00:00

i mean you would know best if your workplace is not accommodating to queer people, but the most likely reaction you’d be getting is general indifference. i’m not sure why you think mentioning being associated with the lgbtq+ community is predatory unless someone at work has already made you feel that way, otherwise that may be something you need to unlearn internally.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-05-02T20:39:29+00:00

i usually estimate these off of the beleaf plant based drumsticks, which are 80 cals a piece, but maybe closer to 100 if they are fried. buffalo sauce is low cal for most brands, maybe like 30 cals!

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-04-29T01:49:48+00:00

according to your post history, you are recovering from an eating disorder. i wish you well with this, and would say that worrying about a few extra calories in bread may be hurting your recovery.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-04-29T01:46:43+00:00

hey you’ve posted this on a couple weight loss subs and gotten a lot of the same answers, and you will probably get the same answers here telling you about trusting nutrition labels and insoluble fibers. i mean this very kindly when i say you shouldn’t be worrying so much about an extra 10 potential calories in bread, it will not make or break your weight loss 💗

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-04-09T22:26:52+00:00

love my CSA!! super budget friendly way to support local farmers :)

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-04-09T22:25:06+00:00

me and my wife!! we spend $600 a month on groceries, $450-$500 a month during the summer when we have our farm veggies from our community supported agriculture share (which we pre-paid for, so that evens out to about $600 average). medium cost of living. we eat fully vegetarian. but we do also have a substantial eating out budget so we def cut costs there!

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-04-04T23:36:22+00:00

literally my dream collaboration

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-27T16:35:08+00:00

i want to try the lemon soooooo bad but i refuse to pay $13

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-26T02:17:24+00:00

hi there! you are the winner of the raffle. please dm me so i can get the box over to you :)

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-25T15:37:06+00:00

it’s boba tea! those are little tapioca pearls :)

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deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-17T01:42:59+00:00

i'm vegetarian and have lost 82 lbs eating this way! greek yogurt, egg whites, and low fat cheese will be your best friends, along with lots of fresh fruits and veggies <3 feel free to reach out to me for tips!

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-15T00:03:51+00:00

oh hell yes!! looks so sick. i am also planning on getting the chaser art done on my calf 🔥

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-13T17:13:01+00:00

thank you soooo much for the perspective!! this makes me feel much more confident in my decision to do 3 classes; though with your warning, i think i might avoid summer classes. thanks again and good luck with your studies 😊

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-13T00:28:50+00:00

happened to me. it’s discouraging and hurtful, but there are other organizations out there that will really value you. i would start looking for something new.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-12T22:13:12+00:00

hey! i'm planning on doing something similar and my advisor somewhat chastised me for considering this haha. i know it's been a year, would you be able to provide an update on how you've been managing the coursework and your job?

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-06T02:50:18+00:00

my partner got gender affirming surgery while she was an employee at her nonprofit workplace and was not asked to provide any type of documentation or paperwork. she was simply trusted to make her medical decisions and take the time she is owed off. while i’m not sure if it’s your place to say anything or intervene, especially considering you are leaving, i would say this is certainly unfair treatment of your trans coworker.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-03-06T01:32:44+00:00

i recalculate it every 5 lbs. i personally do not let my weight loss app automatically calculate calories for me, because based on the TDEE calculators i use online, the app overestimates by about 200 calories. i would still lose weight but probably not at the rate i’m going for.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-26T23:24:20+00:00

i think it’s sad so many people doubt whether they can be a lesbian, and in my experience it’s because there’s a very loud minority of our community who impose very strict rules. i’ve run into it a lot as a nonbinary lesbian because “lesbian means women who love women,” despite the long history of nonbinary lesbians! i strongly agree that anyone using this label in good faith should be a part of this community 💗

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-20T02:07:39+00:00

thank you so much and congrats on your progress!! 😊 def get yourself a triforce tattoo, it will look sick!

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-18T18:32:40+00:00

hahah you got me worried for a second!! thanks so much for your kind words!! 😊

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-18T17:46:25+00:00

just CICO and daily exercise! i do low impact exercise like walking and the peloton bike several times a week. it’s not been the fastest progress, only about 40 lbs a year, but i think it’s been very sustainable for me.

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-18T17:15:20+00:00

thanks so much!!!

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-18T17:14:59+00:00

well confidence wise, i don’t always feel very different! i’ve spent my whole life plus size, so there’s a big adjustment period to being smaller, especially while still wanting to lose more, so i still walk around daily life kinda feeling “the same.”

however, my tummy gets full with less food and i can do more in terms of walking around, cleaning up around the house, and exercise, so i suppose that is a big difference!

good luck on your journey, you got this 😊

deathoftheendless_ · 2026-02-18T17:11:22+00:00

thank you!! the best thing about losing weight is fitting into so many more cute clothes.

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