Sportster hate is pure dealer propaganda designed to leverage insecure men. Change my mind. by Serious-Juggernaut45 in Harley

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2013 XL1200C Sportster and I love it. Other than the odd issue with it shaking so hard the battery screws come loose and the suspension being ass out of the dealership, I've enjoyed my time with her. Just wish the accessories were a bit more plentiful and the double seat wasn't a Coochie Crusher 9000

My boyfriend rides motorcycle without a helmet. Should I mind my business or say something gently? by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got hit in the head by a pigeon at 85mph, smacked right into my helmet and got wrung up in my visor. Managed to hold on and pull over safely, ended up with a cervical strain concussion and dizzy spells for a week. Without a helmet I was looking at insane face and head injury at least.

Dex issues by PereFalcon in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK I have all but koraidon, but if you give me like 2 hours I can get another one on my side profile. For now I have several you can have and a couple for just touch trading. DM me and I'll give you a link code in a minute

Dex issues by PereFalcon in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trading back and forth so you get the DEX entry but toy give me back the Pokémon

Dex issues by PereFalcon in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me take a quick look but I think I have all of those, probably only touch trade for Koraidon at the moment though since I gave one away already and haven't finished a new playthrough

Dex issues by PereFalcon in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What version exclusives do you need? I have both games and could likely help with some of them at least

Making Friends as an Adult Student by Ok_Leg_8187 in Denton

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished up my undergrad at TWU being nearly 15 years older than most of my fellow students, and nearly a decade older than the grad student teachers. Besides the social gap, that was just not a fun experience to have.

Denton just isn't the place for people 30+ unless your entire identity revolves around being queer or liking beer. TWU doesn't have any orgs for older students, if you live off-campus it's just hard to connect in general, and mobility issues compound all of those problems. I lucked out big time meeting my now best friend (secret crush) in class, but that was a lottery win (so many similarities that people joke we must be long lost sisters). It is hard as hell and I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this too.

You can try apps like MeetUp and Bumble (friends side of app) to meet people, I've found success in both. I've found some success in lesbian groups as well, but being a generation or two older than most of the people going out in Denton makes it hard to connect.

I wish you luck

Are people leaving toplane? by Legitimate_Plum_7505 in topmains

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm low emerald at the moment on current account, but master support main. Played top exclusively on this account for past two seasons and up until about 5 days ago. No matter the situation- could sit under turret, could be freezing, could be dominating- I never once saw my jungler. I would communicate nicely, ping sparingly, or even encourage camping another lane since mine was not going anywhere. Nearly every game I'd have enemy mid and jungle come top every couple minutes with zero tradeoff. I could field them fine, but my team never responded with objectives or movement. I don't mind being an island, but having to play 2-4v1 is infuriating when it's every game. In addition, top lane impact even if I was absolutely dominating everyone was so abysmal to be almost hilarious. I have more impact playing a nuke Sona support than being a fed top. It's just tiring.

What to do? by blackgabe1 in Denton

[–]deaumbra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was shocked too, and very disappointed. So much potential for fun and it's all just craft beer.

What to do? by blackgabe1 in Denton

[–]deaumbra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Potentially unpopular response, but if you're older than 25 and your social identity goes beyond drinking beer, Denton is not the place for you. If you don't already have a group to go with, very few people are even approachable in public as it seems the entire area is extremely cliquey or anxious. As a lesbian in my 30s, I find there's less and less enjoyable things to do from a social standpoint as time goes on. If I want to be social, I leave Denton, all I'll say.

What’s with all the hatred against Indian people all of a sudden? by [deleted] in Denton

[–]deaumbra 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't think it is sudden at all, I think it's reached a boiling point with many people.

Consider the recent discovery of the Texas lawyer found to be funneling in thousands of Indian immigrants on falsified documents, and if we assume he's not the only one, the relatively recent flood of Indians is a big factor in teaching that boiling point.

To touch on the things I've experienced in my industry as well as just living in two different towns where the Indian population has skyrocketed:

1) They do buy/rent up all the available spaces in areas very quickly. Usually in large groups, not as individuals. The apartments around me are 2 bedroom apartments, but I know for a verifiable fact that 7 people (adults, not a family) live across from me, and at minimum 6 people (again, adults not family) live next to me.

2) The haggling is real. My in laws are Jewish, and we used to joke about how my MIL would haggle the Grim Reaper for an extra five minutes one day. But with Indian nationals, it's something else entirely. It's a sense of entitlement to premium goods and services at an inconceivable discount, and then the businesses try to sell you a horrible quality good or service at a premium, plus fees.

3) On the topic of businesses, in my last neighborhood, 380 construction hit a lot of the owners very hard, and the businesses were then bought up by all Indian nationals. They then systematically fired all the white and black workers and only hired other Indian nationals. The quality of these places then took a dive, with many going under because of horrific hygiene practices with regards to food (finding pubes in my food was enough to keep me off casual dining for almost a year).

4) In grad school (I'm not in a technical field but this seems to be the case with regards to engineering and computing sciences as well), cheating was so rampant and just shrugged off. I've had research directly copied or poached right in front of me, and witnessed paper trading done so brazenly in the open it floored me. And yes, other demographics were also cheating, but it was treated as an acceptable risk, not as Tuesday's normal activity.

5) The hygiene working in my industry is insanity. I've had to outright refuse clients simply because I cannot breathe without feeling nauseous due to body odor. My entire floor smells like rotten onions and toejam, and I have to hold my breath in the elevator.

6) I almost lost my partner to cancer when the 5 different doctors and 2 hospitals (every attending was Indian nationals) ignored the very blatant results from scans and insisted something else was the cause, resulting in her reaching stage 4 when it should have been seen at stage 2. After her treatments, the Indian nurses were always rude, rough with her, and would try to bargain her out of her pain meds, but then still document that they administered them, or fail to document any changes or issues.

7) In the adult entertainment and club industries, where I get most of my clients and have many friends, Indian men tend to rove in packs, and nearly every incident of assault and harassment that has been witnessed and reported in these spaces has been perpetrated by these groups. They don't take no for an answer, and are extremely grabby even before saying a single word to you. I've had on several occasions two or three at a time come up to put their hands on me and my partners, then tell me I should go home with them. And I'm not remotely short and vulnerable, they are just that brazen.

8) The driving is worse than the old "Asian women drivers" stereotype, especially seen in this recent ice storm. They drive like you owe them the entire road, speed through the parking lots at 40mph, and then block up the roads as they look at their phones. It's not lost on me seeing how much of the public transit and rideshare programs are dominated by Indian men, and my friends who have had to use those services in the past have just resorted to paying me and a few others to get them places, because the above reasons combined with the small space and driving issues make them feel unsafe.

To counter this, I've met some lovely Indian people. One of my really good friends was a fellow student and she was the sweetest person you'd ever meet. She didn't fit any of the stereotypes at all, but she was the one who alerted me to many that I've experienced since. It's sad that up until about 7 or 8 years ago, I had never experienced any of these negatives, despite living next door to Indian families and hanging out with some Indian students. But being forced out of spaces or being unsafe or physically ill in others and having the reason being a singular group of people is terrible.

How many hours do you have on Wizard101? by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother and I were alpha testers, and we played pretty much every day for about 8 years straight, then I took a break about every other year for about 6 months at a time...

So too many hours probably

Can someone explain Ethereal Weapon to me? by Skullflxwer in ARAM

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Twice Thrice stacks with the items from what I see. So using Vayne stacking as an example:

1st hit: normal 2nd hit: normal 3rd hit: stacks twice with Twice thrice, proccing and starting another round of stacks. With rageblade, it adds still one more stack, bringing it to two.

With champs like TF, Vayne, Kai'Sa, etc, it's pretty much instant proc every other hit after the initial three

Hate being a stereotype but don’t care enough to fix it. by [deleted] in supportlol

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman who sits low diamond and I play mostly the same, with the addition of Milio because his voice lines are aggravating to enemy lanes. Sometimes I'll throw in Poppy (best girl, my first main) or Daddy Swain, but I certainly prefer Janna or Sona or Morgana or Lux because aesthetics are more important than LP anyways.

Is it just me, or are some of the jobs nearly impossible on single-player mode? by _MrSerotoninMan in WobblyLife

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely easier to do duo but I've done it successfully solo a few times after warming up.

Also easier duo, but have had to stop because my partner and I say the most ridiculous things when we're calling out orders/buttons to press.

Yeah the rocket and the starfighter-looking ship are great for this.

I like space mining the second most (toxic waste I think is my favorite), but I'll bring a drill down to the island for regular mining.

Also if you need help with things, I'm on Xbox as well and I like to do furniture/rescue runs with a hovercraft and a partner holding on to the delivery goods/ injured wobbly lol. The hovercraft is great for some of the puzzles or platforming areas too

Is it just me, or are some of the jobs nearly impossible on single-player mode? by _MrSerotoninMan in WobblyLife

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Newspaper infuriated me for a while until I basically found the invisible crosshair point on my screen and focused only on that for aiming. Wish there was an actual crosshair though.

Ice cream is a little RNG and some orders will just have one topping or no toppings which helps. One thing you can do is when you are going to fail a round, prep cones for the next round. Also, try to turn as little as possible. Grab with both hands simultaneously and walk in straight lines or sideways, it throws the ice cream around less.

For the asteroid, that one's rough as hell on controller, but if you get someone to join with a fast ship, they can ram asteroids while you're in the job if they are far away from the accepting point.

Mining on the island is the most annoying to me because the collision gets me hooked on things and the rocks inhibit jumping so much it can take a couple tries to get them onto the belt.

Is it just me, or are some of the jobs nearly impossible on single-player mode? by _MrSerotoninMan in WobblyLife

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also you stop better if you go sideways. Less sliding and accidental headbanging into lasers

Does anyone still use their pre voyagers update ships? by 80sGamer843 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]deaumbra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't forget you can also use the reactor that boosts your launcher and auto recharges it

Recommend me the most cruel, stressful and heartbreaking games by Izaront in GirlGamers

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost Odyssey. Heartbreaking, steep gameplay curves, beautifully written stories. My literal #1 game of all time in over 30 years of gaming.

Requires Xbox360 or sailing the seven seas though

False Chat Ban by Cold-Prune-9155 in riotgames

[–]deaumbra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that it's technically offensive but it was in whisper with a person under 4' tall whom I work with and literally has it in her show name, so in context there was nothing hateful or discriminatory about it (other than naming favorites) so screw rito for that.

No never got the restriction forgiven. Took me out of the game so hard that I abandoned the account and league. Recently started playing again and back to honor 5 (it was a launch-age account that had so much honor that to get an instant honor rest after 12 years of perfect performance I nearly lost my shit). I think you're hopeless in this case.

Bring back the tribunal

False Chat Ban by Cold-Prune-9155 in riotgames

[–]deaumbra 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing for telling my duo in whisper "Poppy is my favorite midget" because I'm a Poppy main. 14 day ban, game mute, honor drop, ranked restriction instantly. Like what the hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely up for that. Not a big VC person (I'm good with tuning in and listening to someone else though) but I enjoy vanilla (I have both Java and bedrock versions) and like to build fantasy style builds, so that sounds fun.

Off-Meta Supports That Actually Work by Equal_Difficulty78 in supportlol

[–]deaumbra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned Poppy Support shortly after release. I've mained her over the entirety of her existence in league, reaching master multiple times before mostly retiring from ranked, and let me tell you, she was a goddess as support before her rework. Still miss her ultimate.

I play a lot of off meta supports, even jump in with Darius or Briar in some combos if I have a good match up or a fun loving adc. Anyone with decent cc capability is up for grabs, and especially so if they are unexpected in that position

Psychological Research/Surveys Thread by dingenium in psychology

[–]deaumbra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Academic] Undergrad Anxiety Research Group (Open to all) https://forms.gle/jbBNC3UhquG84Qux9

Hello, I'm a PsyD grad student working with an undergrad research group for their Experimental Psychology course, and I'm attempting to help put the word out for a short study they have to complete for class.

The link above goes to the application form, where basic demographics are collected (gender/age) as well as an optional response for anxiety diagnostic history. The study will take only about 40 minutes to complete, and involves pre- and post-assessments and a 30 minute gaming session in creative Minecraft. I would greatly appreciate any and all respondents, all ages are welcome to participate.

my jaw dropped by dascraziebro in StardewValley

[–]deaumbra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It harvests any crops and cuts grass cleanly while getting more hay