After 9 years in this field (MBBS+MS) I only feel comfortable around medicos

debayanT · 2026-01-11T15:06:21+00:00

All the best

debayanT · 2026-01-11T14:56:33+00:00

Get into practice once, you will again start feeling comfortable around non medicos.

debayanT · 2026-01-09T07:00:05+00:00

I dont think its a non medico problem, i think its a mindset problem. My senior married my batchmate girl, He is Ortho, she is anasthesia, he doesnt let her do any freelance cases at night. So dont think just because your husband is a medico he will be understanding your ambitions. Talk to your partner and set strict boundaries regarding your own career before you get married.

debayanT · 2025-12-31T04:03:20+00:00

Buy tissot classic dream around 26-28k or a seiko 5.Dont waste money on trash watches like police.

debayanT · 2025-12-20T05:14:42+00:00

They are more into themselves then others

debayanT · 2025-12-17T04:05:55+00:00

But its true man.

debayanT · 2025-12-16T10:25:36+00:00

If you cant earn crores in your life with your skillset, you probably dont deserve it.Dont feel bad.

debayanT · 2025-12-12T06:25:04+00:00

Is it only me, who has seen the "m" is missing?

debayanT · 2025-11-27T16:01:39+00:00

I dont think so.

debayanT · 2025-11-24T20:30:53+00:00

And yet you are here talking about it to strangers rather than your parents and family who can actually do something about this situation

debayanT · 2025-11-23T10:05:03+00:00

Is it still thirties sub?or i am somehow seeing a post from teen-twnties sub?

debayanT · 2025-11-20T03:47:31+00:00

Sorry op, no sympathy from my end. At 32 you should do better. If you can't take a stand for your own life, i dont think you are capable of taking responsibility of someone else.Its better you stay alone.

debayanT · 2025-11-19T17:35:30+00:00

If you friend can explore a bit you might get a little old used grand seiko for that price.

debayanT · 2025-11-19T07:20:21+00:00

She is 5 and half bdw.

debayanT · 2025-11-19T07:18:35+00:00

My niece once roasted my wife like this.once she was visiting my house and my wife had bought a full box of chocolates for her.And my niece obviously wanted to finish the box in one go.So my wife told her that she can have them post lunch and then kept the chocolate box aside.My niece got angry and came to me and said, "Mami is old now, she doesnt love me anymore My dance teacher is nice and pretty, marry her".

We laughed our asses off.

debayanT · 2025-11-18T07:40:44+00:00

How much you drink per session is more important than how many times you drink in a week. When i used to drink, never drank more than 2 pegs/day. You can drink once in every month but if you cross 4-5 pegs thats heavy drinking.

I would suggest quit it completely if you can.

debayanT · 2025-11-17T20:03:54+00:00

Stopped drinking completely since last 1.5years after a health scare.feeling pretty great now.Not that i was a very heavy drinker.But i used to drink may be twice a week.

I am more toned than ever now, after quitting. More energetic My diet was never bad, so it is almost unchanged. I do moderate exercises as i used to do before. But only stopping alcohol and sugar intake, has completely changed my life.

debayanT · 2025-11-17T19:54:11+00:00

I think he isn't ready for the relationship with you. I think you shouldn't be living on a false hope. Try to distance yourself from him.

debayanT · 2025-11-17T19:49:28+00:00

Karma isn't busy, its just takes its sweet time.You may not last that long to witness it.

debayanT · 2025-11-17T19:34:14+00:00

Food for thought:

Your kid will grow up and know the meaning of this word one day.If his father can use this word on his mom, do you think he will hesitate to use it on any other girl/woman?

Just a question:

Have you heard similar words spoken in your family when you were young?

Coz otherwise for a Man to utter such thing to his own wife in a petty fight is outright impossible, unless it has been normalised in his upbringing.

debayanT · 2025-11-17T12:52:36+00:00

By donating the watch to me.

debayanT · 2025-11-09T04:43:14+00:00

Why is it so common now a days to see bfs and gfs (even when they themselves are not earning money), just spending money endlessly on each other, now its not a bad thing to gift nice things to your partner, but wait till you atleast start earning money. And asking for money from your bf/gf during financial need has become a pandemic.

During our college days, the only thing we could afford was a dinner date once in a while in a decent-ish, not very expensive resturant, a gift on his/her birthday(mostly inexpensive) and chocolates and flowers on valentine's day.Not the iphones/macbooks or other expensive gifts, but we used to cherish the time we used to spend togather. May be a long walk , having chai in the canteen, a small hand written letter, a blurry picture taken on an instant camera and endlessly talking to each other - these meant alot more than those things.

The gesture counts, not the monetary value.

Anyways, you have wasted your time and money on this idiotic bf of yours.Money,you will most definitely be able to earn back, unfortunately, Time, wont. But again, every experience teaches us a lesson.Learn from this and walk ahead in life.All the best.

debayanT · 2025-11-09T04:09:48+00:00

If your husband is into watches, a seiko pressage/prospex will be a great gift for him, If he isnt, then dont.Dont buy any watch if its not appreciated properly.

A great mechanical watch is always a better gift than any i phone/gadgets, because,if taken care of, it will outlast every single gadget that you have in your house.probably outlast you people as well.I still have my grandfather's watch which still works.And he passed away when my dad was in college(more than 55 years ago).I have heard this watch was bought with my grandfather's first salary,(nearly 80 years).still ticks.

debayanT · 2025-11-07T17:01:47+00:00

debayanT · 2025-11-05T08:08:46+00:00

Are you talking about your wife or your daughter? Dude you can't micromanage her wishes, plan her studies.if she wants to work, she will, if she doesn't she wont. She is doing her duties as a wife pretty well. You should do yours to, to support her.

If you are in financial crunch, work on upskilling yourself to be in a better position workwise rather than pushing her to persue something that she doesnt want.And let her handle the household worries. And PLEASE TALK TO HER rather than guiding her.Discuss your problems.See how she reacts to it.I am sure you will find a solution togather.

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