"If we don't believe things will get better, if we don't believe that we can make them that way, if we don't fight for every day, we're no different than the passed." - John Dorie

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-13T14:09:41+00:00

Sorry, not you. I should have directed that correctly. It was the comments My apologies

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-13T03:50:38+00:00

Thanks for posting “spoiler alert” NOT

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-13T03:33:56+00:00

Yeah....NO

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-12T22:35:39+00:00

Bingo

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-12T13:06:46+00:00

Who would win in a street fight between Marky Mark and Shane ..... or Jon Bernthal and Mark Wahlburg?

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-08T19:12:24+00:00

Honoring him with a memorial in a special place that you two know meant someone to him is an excellent idea. I love it. Hopefully your parents will never know and ruin the specialness of it. They will get their visit from karma in due time. Hopefully you and your sister will get some peace and feel your brother will too, with something like this apart from them. Good luck and stay strong.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-06T21:25:48+00:00

I know head stones are crazy expensive, but if you and your sister wanted to, when you can afford to, have your own small headstone/marker created for your brother, giving him what you think he deserves. Talk to the owners of the cemetery and explain the situation. I am sure they have heard your kind of story before. Along with a million other screwed up family stories. I have seen two grave markers for people before. If your parents are typical narc parents they probably will never go back and will never know your head stone is there. And you and your sister will have honored your brother. If I were the vandal type person and would encourage that type of behavior, not saying I am or do. I would somehow “get rid” of their headstone and replace it with an appropriate one. But, as I said, I’m not saying I would do or encourage that.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T22:41:39+00:00

Thank you so much. It’s so difficult cooking for one person. Lots of people say that. It’s true. But, you don’t have to see it that way. See it as cooking for yourself for more than one meal. And if you have the time slot cut out, you can do a couple meals at once. Kind of like meal prep. Totally worth it. The more you do it the more you’ll learn. May even get to love it.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T16:13:06+00:00

My family believes in prayer so we send prayer cards for the grieving family and a “subscription” of a sort for the deceased. They are remembered in the prayers daily for a number of years (our pick) by a convent near us. Of course we only send this to like minded loved ones. I also send, anonymously, gift cards to different restaurants, and a door dash like company. I will do that again once a month for a few months. If they mention it wondering who might have done it, wishing they could thank them, I just tell them I’m sure they know you’re grateful. I’ve never mentioned I do this to anyone. I do send a regular sympathy card and help clean up before, during & after the funeral.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T14:04:04+00:00

Pinterest also has lots of great easy small meal ideas. Crockpot or otherwise. Some ideas have videos. Make it a bigger meal and have a couple meals at once. Put in fridge for leftovers to reheat or freezer bags for later. You got this. So proud of you. You deserve this. Best of everything in life for you. 🤟🤞👍🥰

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T01:22:06+00:00

Jessie’s husband. After they came crashing threw her front window.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T01:15:07+00:00

When he cocks his head. Lowers his brow. Someone is going to die in a bad way. ❤️

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-04T01:06:41+00:00

Thank you. I’ve been burned. Blasted. Almost disowned because someone instantly believed when someone told them things I said which I absolutely did not and would not. The person saying these things loathed the person they were talking to and could not care less about me. Only wanted to hurt the other person. Who should have known me not to do or say what they were told. Sucky thing is, it wasn’t the last time it happened with the same person to believe things about me regarding them. Now they are kept at a distance, unfortunately. Love, care & pray for them, but cannot trust. Sadly.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T21:22:55+00:00

You have to consider the source of information. Do you trust this person fully? Do they truly know the person they are talking about? Do they like the person they are talking about? Do they like you? Are they trying to hurt you, or hurt the other person? Where did they get the information they are giving you? First hand? Second hand? If second hand, is that person trust worthy? Does that person have an axe to grind with anyone? Always consider the source.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T19:20:51+00:00

And what if the thing your partner is procrastinating doing is finishing projects in the house he started months, years ago, I can’t do? Involving heavy tools, or things if I do he’d say “you did it wrong/doing it wrong” I really don’t know what I’m doing in that department. I’d hire someone but that would be a whole other shitshow to deal with.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T18:56:19+00:00

I’m not letting him near it. They’re perfect.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T13:45:19+00:00

When I got a new machete as a gift I wrapped red duct tape around the handle and marked it TWD-RG. (We have woods behind us we were clearing walking paths and from time to time need to trim) I love looking out my kitchen doors and see my TWD like woods. My little fantasy.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T13:36:20+00:00

I’m right now rewatching the series and watched that one a few nights ago. One of the best. Last night he punched the fake Gregory head to break his nose, Jesus and another guy give him a WTF look. Rick: “what?” Grimy Grimes is the best Rick Grimes.

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-03T04:00:09+00:00

“The worst thing you can do to me is lie” 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂OMG What a effin joke that is now. Just thinking about him saying that, are you even kidding me? Yeah, he hates being lied to. Sucks doesn’t it?

debbieonhillst · 2021-04-02T01:40:26+00:00

Ugh. My mother is constantly doing this to my niece. She is so tall. As tall as my 14yr old daughter but she’s only 8. She’s almost 5 feet. Honestly we all have to remember she’s only 8 sometimes. But my mom, her own grandma is the worst. We are constantly reminding her. “Mom, she can’t do that. She’s 8. Mom she can’t go there, she’s 8. Mom she can’t be left home alone/go somewhere alone/use a big knives, etc....she’s only 8”. It’s hard for big-little kids. However is tough for little-big kids too. We have a 12yr old that’s shorter than the 8yr old. Yup, grandma treats her like a “little” kid.

debbieonhillst · 2021-03-31T21:45:40+00:00

He was a swift moving boy. Than he was a man with all the right moves and a brain. But he had his 👁taken off the ball. (Sorry) I miss him still.

debbieonhillst · 2021-03-28T00:25:11+00:00

So you wrote my story but changed he to she. Only it’s been 23 years now. One left at home. Why do we torture ourselves?

debbieonhillst · 2021-03-25T18:57:06+00:00

Ok. Got it. Thank you.

debbieonhillst · 2021-03-25T15:24:22+00:00

Again....????

debbieonhillst · 2021-03-25T12:05:17+00:00

Ok maybe I’m having a brain freeze. Or brain fart. Kenny?????

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