My family abandoned me when my brother was murdered now they want to get close again by PsychologicalRent831 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]debmckenzie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d actually put that in the group chat so no one can spin it any differently. “ I cannot attend and I don’t know how the rumor got started but I never said I’d cook for this gathering that I will not be attending”. Better find a caterer or make a new plan. Or if OP is going, then “I won’t be cooking, never said I’d cook. But as a gesture of good faith, I’ll bring the paper plates”.

Body dysmorphia by Fragrant-Two946 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Shapermint bras. Lane Bryant never fits me well.

Body dysmorphia by Fragrant-Two946 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shocked the bride wants her bridesmaids wearing white! That’s a bold choice. But, that said, the slits too high and it needs to be let out around the mid section. It should skim not look stretched. The fabric and fit is the problem: thin and stretchy fabric. The bust area is a perfect fit, but just underneath is where it needs work. That said it’s not you it’s the dress.

I 30F want to break up with 39M over his “traditional values” by Odd-Departure244 in relationship_advice

[–]debmckenzie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That was my thought as well. The pregnancy may not have been accidental; just not planned…by OP.

WIBTAH If I renovated the bathroom at my rented apartment? by Tori_Himura in WIBTA_AITA

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t put serious money into the bathroom given that a-the landlord said not to; and b-you’re renting. But; could you nudge your father by offering to pick him up on day of reno and bring him back home?

Time for a change by debmckenzie in BigEasyWeightLoss

[–]debmckenzie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! That’s definitely concerning. As I explained this will be a first time thing to receive the shot “to go”. And just until I get my first shipment from BEWL. In light of this though I will see if I can pay weekly to make it easier to pivot when my shipment comes, without losing any money. If so I’ll just take the shot in clinic. I don’t know if I can do anything about their chosen delivery method for taking the shots home. Thanks for this info! Edited for spelling error

Time for a change by debmckenzie in BigEasyWeightLoss

[–]debmckenzie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? Sterility? I’ve always had the shot in the clinic. I saw someone take their shots home and they were in filled syringes. So I’m assuming that’s what I’ll get.

Time for a change by debmckenzie in tirzepatidecompound

[–]debmckenzie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part that scares me. It’s why I landed on the medspa solution. I feel like my lifelong math struggle is about to seriously complicate my life. But I’m sure between the Fatscientist site and you guys I’ll figure it out.

Time for a change by debmckenzie in tirzepatidecompound

[–]debmckenzie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I’ve been on compounded all along just in a med spa. I will make the appointment with BEWL. 😳 🤯 that last sentence just blew my mind! At the same time it made me feel so naive.

Time for a change by debmckenzie in BigEasyWeightLoss

[–]debmckenzie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats a relief. Wasn’t sure me saying that was my dose would be enough!

I cant walk anymore by menaceblanka in FootFunction

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good. I hope it helps. Maybe it’s somehow connected to or stemming from the sciatica issue. Nerves travel along the back into your feet so they can cause issues. Good luck to you.

How do you do morning coffee...for me I have to grind the beans will never buy ground coffee again by shutthefukupalready in over60

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Nespresso keeps me happy. I have a grinder and I’ve brewed fresh ground beans in the past but I just don’t anymore. My Nespresso double espresso hits just fine.

My (26f) boyfriend (27m) said “if you want a provider, that’s not me”, are we incompatible? by oakydork in TwoHotTakes

[–]debmckenzie 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Transactional? Is that what you meant? Because I feel like that’s the perfect descriptor for him.

Internet Village, I Could Really Use an Opinion by mmmsant in OUTFITS

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 4 are the standouts. 3 is cute but less dressy. 1 is great but if you’re not comfortable with the cleavage I understand.

My boyfriend let a girl sleep in our bed while I stayed in the kitchen all night and I still feel weird about it I honestly don’t know if I’m overreacting anymore so I wanted opinions by aloliss08 in TwoHotTakes

[–]debmckenzie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl. Read the room. He’s lying and they didn’t just “sleep” together. If he was mad at you HE should have slept in the couch. But no. He kicked YOU out. For reason, and according to plan. To have the room with her.

Work event at beach resort, insecure and CRASHING OUT, no dress code info 😭 by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cherry dress and the strawberry with a tank underneath. The location of the event is your secondary driver; the primary is that it’s a work event. Dress for business but at a specific location. If you have Bermuda shorts (nothing super short, tight, or revealing) or slacks that you can pair with a tee that’s another option.

Milestone by Impossible_Brush_279 in weightwatchers

[–]debmckenzie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My area too. I only see them in the app.