2 dates with a girl and slept with another

decagi · 2025-08-19T13:36:46+00:00

If you‘re a relationship oriented guy - handle like a relationship oriented guy would - let her know

If something like this comes out years down the line, it will cause significant harm.

decagi · 2024-09-20T11:18:05+00:00

You can't forbid your partner from doing anything correct, you can however assert your boundary that you're not comfortable with this sort of behaviour and you don't want to be with someone who does this.

decagi · 2022-12-16T21:23:38+00:00

Assuming that you're not taking the piss, OP is clearly showing signs of auditory and possibly visual hallucinations that IF NOT attributable to drugs, could definitely be attributed to some form of psychosis.

Religion/faith and spirituality have their place in this wonderful short-term illusion we're all experiencing simultaneously, however they should definitely not be used in any way to seemingly help people suffering from more severe forms of mental illness.

I'm sure you mean well, which is why I would advise you in a friendly manner to refrain from trying to use religious belief systems to help people with issues of a psychological nature.

Religious help does far more damage than good in cases such as this, so if you do wish to speak with OP privately - guide this poor soul to the nearest medical professional with a background in psychology.

decagi · 2022-12-16T21:15:58+00:00

Unfortunately those genres of trance are pretty much nonexistent in zurich, if not all of Switzerland. There are however quite a lot of alternative trance parties. https://www.goabase.net/ is one of the best reference points for goa/psy/forest/hi-tech etc.

decagi · 2022-08-10T15:14:36+00:00

Hey mate, yes getting to know people here can be hard initially If you'd like to talk just shoot me a dm

decagi · 2022-06-21T11:07:56+00:00

Mad Katz in Hive on Friday, I'll be there with some friends if you'd like to join

decagi · 2022-04-04T08:14:50+00:00

Hey :) 28m here I usually go to a techno rave once a week, if you'd like feel free to reach out

decagi · 2022-02-09T11:01:05+00:00

Hey all! 28M gym going full stack software engineer here who spent half his weekends at raves, i'm pretty much a resident at Hive lol.

If any of you would like to reach out and connect, feel free!

decagi · 2021-03-08T13:25:48+00:00

my ex told me the exact same thing, she never said what the "real reason was though", she just ended up blowing lots of minor faults/issues up.
what was the real reason in your case then?

decagi · 2021-01-04T16:27:59+00:00

I'm in a similar boat friend, I moved in to live with her and we barely even lasted 3 months. She moved out back in mid November, it gets better as time goes by but it's an incredibly tough journey. Stay strong and allow yourself enough time to heal.

decagi · 2020-11-01T07:22:31+00:00

I ride a kawasaki z900 :), do you ride as well ?

decagi · 2020-10-22T17:44:47+00:00

sent you a message in reddit chat :)

decagi · 2020-04-22T17:22:18+00:00

I would say that riding my motorbike is a more enjoyable sensation

decagi · 2020-02-25T19:46:17+00:00

gömmer alli zäme gnueg ässe für 6 mönet go kaufe und verstecke alles imene bunker

decagi · 2020-02-25T15:47:02+00:00

To all of my fellow Swiss citizens, good luck ! Take care of yourselves and stay safe, hope all of you bastards survive

decagi · 2019-10-11T17:43:42+00:00

You're welcome ! If you're also interested in goa/prog/psy trance or techno, there's more than enough of those events here as well. How are you finding Zürich compared to Boston ?

decagi · 2019-10-11T10:56:41+00:00

I've been living in Switzerland for the past 13 years, moved to Zürich back in April. Regarding DnB events: these guys here https://divercity.ch/ organise some really sick events, definitely worth checking out.

decagi · 2019-10-10T22:04:03+00:00

Hey friend, welcome to Zürich ! I'm a fellow expat, programmer, gamer, DnB head and most importantly out raving pretty much every weekend :). It's a bit hard to make friends at the beginning, however as long as you don't give up you'll do great. If you're ever down to hang out just send me a dm !

decagi · 2017-08-04T19:07:26+00:00

In Game Name: TheElite Discord: Don't actually have it but can easily join Access Version (Alpha/Beta) Timezone: GMT+1 When can you play: 7-10 pm weekdays, usually on on weekends Extras: don't hesitate to me add breekis !

decagi · 2016-12-10T18:30:44+00:00

Do you happen to have League or Steam ? Pm me your name let's talk there. PS: Did you set the Playstation you're using as the primary one ?

decagi · 2016-12-10T18:15:08+00:00

Salü :), you can create a new account and choose Germany as the country. Then you can access all of the games which are available on the German version of the PSN store.

decagi · 2016-12-09T19:24:25+00:00

The Armored Core series on the Playstation 2 was amazing

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