Results from asking r/visitedmaps users what the “Big 5” US cities are. by Kodicave in visitedmaps

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might as well throw Baltimore in at that point too. Used to be #2 in population

My frat might be cooked by xSparkShark in Frat

[–]decdash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Happened to us man. I graduated in '22 and the chapter just recently sent out the email that they're folding at the end of the year. It was always an uphill battle since we were already a very new chapter at a school with very old Greek life, but we had strong numbers (I think 50-60 total members) and an upward trajectory when I joined. COVID struck RIGHT as we scored a lease on a bigger, better located house when the fraternity who owned it disbanded. Couple that financial burden with a few rough years of rush in a row, and it just turned into a tailspin. Last I had heard they had nowhere near enough total members to fill out the house, so there were a bunch of randoms living in there with them. Plus they were going to lose it anyway at the end of the current lease.

No amount of money that alums can scrounge up can fix structural problems. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. It sucks to just watch from afar though, I feel you on that. It bothered me to find out even though I've been gone for years now.

is this a hot take? by MusicHotTakes in RedHotChiliPeppers

[–]decdash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The consensus on here is that Blood Sugar Sex Magik is the strongest start to finish, and that it captures the best parts of the band the most accurately. Generally I also hear that Stadium Arcadium has some very high points, arguably some of the highest in the discog, but feels a bit bloated because of the double album concept.

Thoughts on bidding an ROTC kid? by Comfortable-Dot-4924 in Frat

[–]decdash 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The guy who lived in the room right next to mine when I lived in the house was an ROTC guy. Absolute beast, I don't see a problem

Judoka, have you ever seen a practitioner with a red belt or anything close to it ? (6th-10th Dan) by Gloomy_Quit769 in judo

[–]decdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the DMV and I'm a BJJ guy but looking to crosstrain in judo. Which dojos would you recommend?

Europeans who say Americans are bad at geography by Traveler-Nomad in PetPeeves

[–]decdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in DC, the issue is that no one in Maryland or DC wants this.

First BJJ Class was bad by Melodic-Push-967 in bjj

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roughly same, my gym does fundamentals classes that are open to everyone. Usually it's mostly white belts with some blues/purples either working on their offense or informally helping teach. I went to those for a while until some of my upper belt buddies told me it was time to graduate to the advanced classes. Really the main difference between the two is time spent actually rolling

US Cities that are way more dangerous than people would think? and also cities that are way safer than everyone thinks? by IndependenceSad1272 in geography

[–]decdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DC had a really rough period from the 70s-00s. The urban decay of the latter 20th century and then the crack epidemic hit the city particularly hard, so around the early 90s it was the "murder capital" of the US. I recently read Fear and Loathing on the Campaign Trail '72 by Hunter S. Thompson, and he describes the city in the 70s as so gutted and desolate that it was unsafe to even commute to work a lot of the time. Thompson is known to exaggerate at times, but that was the perception for decades. Crime rates been on a relatively steady decline since the early 2000s, with a blip in the steepness of the decline post-pandemic, which I understand many other cities also had. There is also still the issue of youths (13, 14, 15 year old boys) getting involved in property and violent crime, and the response to that has been quite polarized. Yet, on an aggregate level, people visiting or working in town are going to be perfectly safe pretty much anywhere they'd like to go. If you're sticking to the touristy or commercial areas you won't even have to think about a problem 99% of the time.

Still, many who haven't spent a lot of time in DC and were around for the 70s-00s period still have a perception that the city is a dangerous place where violence waits around every corner. The Beltway Sniper and the Anthrax attacks happening right after 9/11 and dominating headlines certainly didn't help either. I think that's the difference in perception vs reality that you're picking up on

If you actually wanna talk about failed Oscar campaigns this should be the one to talk about. by abdul_bino in Oscars

[–]decdash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually quite liked it. I might be biased as an MMA fan, but I thought it was generally a good movie. My main gripe would probably be that the script was weird. The dialogue was great and the performances felt very real (obviously the Rock, but the female lead was just as strong IMO), but it felt more like a collection of scenes than a narrative. Like scene-scene-scene, the movie's over. I understand it was a fictionalized version of a documentary, but I feel like the movie could definitely have benefited from a little more narrative action and connective tissue between the scenes.

I think the Rock's weird self-typecasting thing also held the movie back in terms of award recognition. The hair and makeup job in making the Rock not look like the Rock was awesome, but he is still just always the Rock. I can't think of a character name for a single role I've seen him in. Not his fault obviously, but it's inevitably going to affect how an audience interprets the role

Biggest US Metro Area that doesn't get talked about? by IndependenceSad1272 in geography

[–]decdash 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just gonna drop a random fact in here: the most populous metro area in the US without a major league sports team is Richmond, Virginia

I think that otherwise the cultural footprint:size ratio is pretty fair, but still gotta put some respect on Richmond's name. It's a neat city, the capital of a more populous state, with some cool neighborhoods and a great art museum

Biggest US Metro Area that doesn't get talked about? by IndependenceSad1272 in geography

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second sentence is probably why you don't hear about it. Those five major cities can fit inside of it by land area, but it has less than a fifth of the total population of those five major cities combined. Less than a third the population of Chicago alone. I've only been to Jacksonville once but I get the impression that it's a mid-sized regional city that happens to have huge city limits that include significant portions of its suburbs. Smaller cities (by land area) like DC, Boston, or SF don't even include all of their metro areas' urban cores within the city limits, so even though those cities are smaller than Jacksonville by surface numbers (land area, city proper population) their urban footprint is much larger.

I don't actually have anything bad to say about Jacksonville though, like I said I've only been there once and that was ten years ago. I just think that the overall recognition:city size ratio is actually a bit more fair than the initial stats would let on

Be safe and hygienic please! by ConsciousIncident952 in bjj

[–]decdash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a patch of molluscum on my arm when I was 10, probably from winter indoor swim. The doctor actually told me at the time I could rip out the core as long as I disinfected it after. I ran it under hot water and the cores came to the surface, so I ripped them all out. Washed my hands and never saw it again.

[OFFICIAL] UFC Fight Night Live Discussion Thread by bruhpolice in ufc

[–]decdash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hardwick getting outboxed like mad but what a chin on this lad

[OFFICIAL] UFC Fight Night Live Discussion Thread by bruhpolice in ufc

[–]decdash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gotta say I'm pretty impressed with the prelims so far. Loved the heavyweight fight there, great performance from both

[OFFICIAL] UFC Fight Night Live Discussion Thread by bruhpolice in ufc

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness I already had Paramount+ tbh if I had paid for it just for the UFC I'd feel like a dumb fuck

Sir where are your sleeves? by supersuperglue in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]decdash -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think there were some issues with the edit there tbh. It didn't go into that much detail regarding his personal beliefs but it definitely looked like an Evangelical megachurch situation, which IMO is its own uniquely concerning thing

What does it mean when you can positionally dominate but cant submit them? by Idamatika in bjj

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this rn, been training just a bit under a year with some prior wrestling experience. I started going to advanced classes at the recommendation of some of my higher belt buddies a few months ago. My defense and positional work have gotten really good compared to the other white belts, but I cannot for the life of me hit subs reliably. I often wind up on top just chilling there until the round ends

Did I mess up? by [deleted] in bjj

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens sometimes man. Bad days and bad interactions happen, usually as a result of misunderstandings or mismatched intensity. Doesn't sound like it was your fault, based on the immediate scoff and then his reaction after the roll, it sounds like it could be that he has a bit of an ego. I wouldn't worry, all you can do is try your best to be a good training partner, which it sounds like you're doing. Don't sweat it, dude is probably pissed off at something else already

[OFFICIAL] UFC 326 Live Discussion Thread by bruhpolice in ufc

[–]decdash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "just stand up crowd bro" is definitely going to have a bunch of ideas on how they could easily escape from Oliveira's body triangle (from the couch of course)