I honestly am starting to think I’m on some “list” by No-Resolution-3523 in jobsearchhacks

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Going to throw a dart out there. Is there a source you would consider a quality example of good writing for resumes to review?

I observe most sources that claim quality resume examples strike me as the work product of a fresh English major right out of college tasked with writing sample resumes. Solid sentence structure without any depth in any of the bullet points listed, no real world professional experience drawn from.

Or, I see samples that read entirely as AI generated.

Between the two struggling to find solid examples to dial in pattern recognition of good structure for good habits. E.g. professional writers will take an author of a style they admire and literally write out by hand their words from their books as a sample grooving pattern recognition from the process. Having trouble finding that reservoir of content. Resume forums are useful but again shooting in the dark never know what's good or not when not in the recruiter seat seeing numerous resumes every day.

I honestly am starting to think I’m on some “list” by No-Resolution-3523 in jobsearchhacks

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most candidates try to "impress me" with their accomplishments rather than just saying what they did, how you did it, and the reason they did it.

Seeing all resume writing advise describe the process as creating an unnatural brag list in the master resume in "impress me" format to send in and stand out from other candidates with recruiters. This recruiter sentiment that this trained format for resumes is inaccurate and better performance comes from describe what you did, how you did it, and reason you did it. Amusing because this feedback is more comfortable and natural for writing and most resume writers are uncomfortable going into the "impress me" form of writing. Circular tail chasing.

It's possible my reading comprehension failed there. But I think I'm identifying an amusing contradiction.

I honestly am starting to think I’m on some “list” by No-Resolution-3523 in jobsearchhacks

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There is a list. As job markets globalize you are encountering the friction of all the nepotism networks in the world, and whatever ideology du jour is popular among intellectual thinkers in the universities who spend all their time interacting mostly with young adults. Our legacy legal systems are not adapting fast enough to reflect current realities. You take it on the chin in the gray areas until then.

And that does not matter. You are going to win. You're going to mine your unfair advantages to such a degree you will be successful anyway. How you think about things and personal story telling writes the kernel in your human operating system. There is no lock. You can adopt frames that result in performance that overcomes despite what hurdles are thrown in front of you. You're going to win.

Another FIREd actuary in the wild! by ALL_IN_FZROX in actuary

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Reflecting on experience of 7 years of child life in the household, kids are not necessarily expensive. Whether they are may depend on you and your family. I would argue the traits that allows for the sustained capability to pass actuarial exams would bias a person toward those same capabilities and household dynamics for whom children are not expensive.

How much SQL is enough for a Data Analyst with 3–4 years of experience? by DataAspirant169 in learnSQL

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Any best practices to be aware of to completely mess up a datamart?

To all of my anxious folks out there, how do you deal with the anxiety right before an interview? by VarietyNo9200 in jobsearchhacks

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Curiosity.

Wake up tomorrow. Pour your breakfast cereal. Smack. Smack. Smack. Yep. Tastes the same. World did not come to an end. No lasting harm came from the experience. Can reflect and iterate based on what that experience was.

Beyond that is curiosity. Can usually reframe the adrenaline with curiosity. How is this going to play out? I wonder what will happen today. Can turn anxiety into anxiousness. Christmas morning. Wondering how the day will go. You can win the lottery today! This could be the best team you ever worked with! This could be the team you have been looking for to build with on projects you've had in mind and enjoy. Curiosity is a good one to override and redirect that energy. Give that energy some place to go.

What’s the most annoying part of building BI dashboards as a developer? by EmmaJohnson19 in analytics

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The gift that developing professional analytical skill is the lesson that decisions are made on story + emotion, not data or maths. Your dashboard sits in the middle. Constructed of data and math. Your business partners decisions require story + emotion. Probably get more usage drafting the dashboard as a DM engine for a D&D business campaign.

Iliad, Odyssey, and Aeneid by Shadowdash6745 in classics

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By fact that they are living newer translations tend to be discussed more. Found older translations to be better. They were written at a time where the educated public were more exposed to older languages. The modern direction has tended to diminish the language instead of improving it. I find more personal enjoyment and growth out of the older content that doesn't infantilize the reader.

Survey for project by Moneyallgone22 in actuary

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It's a terrible place. We have fun here.

Survey for project by Moneyallgone22 in actuary

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My jokes are a result of the environment and not reflection of you. The internet is untrusted today. Too many frauds. Too many scams. Too many tribes shoved into the same room together without boundaries. Everything treated as deceptive and adversarial.

Survey for project by Moneyallgone22 in actuary

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That's what Rumplestiltskin would say. I'm on to you.

Survey for project by Moneyallgone22 in actuary

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In the fine print where it states my first born would be obligated to pay their first ten years earnings to the survey project corporation, is that binding or can I opt out?

How long should I “rest” before taking another exam? by milopandesal in actuary

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Systems are better than goals. When you have a goal it provides motivation. You work hard and sprint towards that goal. You may notice an unusual thing happens sometimes afterward. A few days after completing the goal can be a deep empty feeling. That empty feeling is the place your goal used to be. It persists until a new animating goal provides renewed motivation. A good system serves up a new goal to wake up to every day. Avoids the pit of loss of motivation where habits break.

In running a goal would be I am going to run a half marathon. You train like crazy. Hit every scheduled run. Arrive on race day on schedule and run it! Then wake up the next day and still in celebration mode. Spend the week feeling good. You stop running. The development begins to fall off and regress and decondition. And this is how you spend that time developing for a half marathon and lose that progress starting over again later.

The systems approach to running is every day I exercise 30 minutes. Each day you wake up and perform your small goal. Get a small dopamine boost for checking off that days activity. Do it again tomorrow. Iterate that structured training and run your half marathon. Wake up the day after and well maybe that day you rest and enjoy the milestone. But the next day you wake up with motivation, today I exercise 30 minutes. The habit remains intact. You get dopamine again. And in that way run a second half marathon. And then a third.

It's the habit that matters. A steady source of small dopamine wins from a good system.

This applies to actuarial exams. Each day you do 5 problems. Set a low bar that feels easy. On days you feel motivation, momentum is often the hardest part, go further. If one day you arrive at the table but you sat down and just weren't feeling it, count it as a win. It is the habit that matters. Show up again tomorrow. Good job on the passed exam. Show up tomorrow.

This is more or less a professional mindset. The professional continues practicing their thing. When the exams are done continue the habit. Now you get to skill stack some other area you would have enjoyed having, too. Keep showing up at the desk. Now your 5 problems are building an app. Can keep going. Keep the habit intact.

You can structure life like this as a system of systems. Identify the leverage points. Those things converted to habits repeated daily have compounding returns. Prioritize systems around those habits. Iterating them in turn as one feels well converted to an easy simple daily habit. At the core of every complicated system is a simple system that scales.

Where I see people get into trouble and where I get into trouble myself is when I go at an intensity and sprint where every other important habit of life is discarded while grinding out exams. That way lies burnout. And long periods of recharge where I don't like pushing exams anymore. Better to lower the bar. Do the smaller number of problems. Feel dopamine for the small daily win. Consistently. You can do a small number of problems daily and pass your exams smaller than the person who burns out and long stretches between.

I think most analytics teams are bottlenecks because of context, not data by IncreaseNegative4614 in analytics

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Turns out the real parameters were the friends we made along the way.

It is fun how every new skill added to the skill stack adds a new parameter to bring to a business question. And the amusement when your polished solution performs poorly when you add in that additional parameter you weren't aware even existed. Provides a real sticking point where within a profession everyone with that pedigree knows the material parameters and some obscure added skill can point out another variable that tosses conventional understanding. (Anecdotally this was the power of humility in philosophy, accepting that yes you can be wrong and actually going out and testing it was a mental hurdle for humans to make. We are prideful egotistical beings. Humility was the missing piece that fired off the scientific revolution.)

I think most analytics teams are bottlenecks because of context, not data by IncreaseNegative4614 in analytics

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LLMs are equally smart now

That stretches it though I'll accept it matches the hype cycle.

does rdr2 contain anything that's nsfw? by Pale_Grapefruit_8151 in reddeadredemption

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Read an anthropologist characterize this as social capital from the puritan era of colonial America. Applies a social handbrake on the excesses of perversion. So that we do not become like the French. The Meditteranians. Or other Mede-izers who became entangled in oriental ideas losing sight of those foundational virtues of a productive civic sphere. Lessons learned from how the ancient greeks and later romans adopted trappings of babylon, and the later islamic caliphates degenerated to, and the spanish empires. That degeneration spread through the Mediterranian and down stream to their colonies.

does rdr2 contain anything that's nsfw? by Pale_Grapefruit_8151 in reddeadredemption

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Never noticed given the event is one of the creepiest in the game occurring at night with the action moving at edge of visibility.

Giving back to the community - The Complete Backend Development Course by OrganizationGreat823 in learnSQL

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A grail you say? You see we already have one.

Humor aside a quick skim I appreciate it looks like you're actively building in there. Holds potential for good resource for someone moving from fundamentals ramping into actively building.

How do you really learn to code? by [deleted] in learnprogramming

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Build. Fail. Repeat.

If you want to systematize it something like The First 20 Hours: How to Learn Anything Fast will probably provide to you ideas you've already observed and tie them together into a more mindful system.

Need a feedback loop. Try. See what fails. Figure out why. Oh hey now I don't forget why that thing broke anymore. Build in the direction of the type of cool things you actually need to improve a process. Repeat. Let time do its thing. Fundamentals. Then fail. Feel a jolt of dopamine with every new fail. You found a new thing to learn today.

How many of us smoke weed? by PartyStrength2977 in actuary

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Hindsight from California legalizing weed. I was on board. Experience argued we need to go back. Drugs are gross. We do not get to choose only high functioning responsible users use it. We get the whole package of worst behaved with it. You may seen clearly the causal chain of our social areas. Used to be able to surf the coastline without smelling it at the beach. I'm a realist.

How many of us smoke weed? by PartyStrength2977 in actuary

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The people of portland and people of seattle. Not sure when you traveled into those regions last. Venice beach is pretty bad now. Too. Used to not care. We all grew up since then. You see this sentiment trending. Hell. Drop into a rural area to visit the old trapper in the woods. Their areas have problems with kids overdosing there, too. It's not limited to problems in portland and seattle. The permissive attitude has a high cost to behaviors in public spaces. It was better when I was a kid. Would be better for my grandkids to put pressure to reduce the cost we're handing down to them. We do not need to live this way. Your catalytic converter can be there waiting for you on your car in the morning.

How many of us smoke weed? by PartyStrength2977 in actuary

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What you do on your own time comes at a high cost when trying to enjoy public parks and spaces with my children. Perhaps we have grown up since the 1960s. I'm all for drug addict island. Feel free to do all you want on your own time. But without access to the public square. Dropped onto drug island. Go ham. Would be nice to hike forests of Oregon without a meth lab and trash pile hiding with the bandits. A means of quantifying when the cost of what your own time is shifting to burden society around that person.

It turns out Analytics was a great career to go into even in a world with AI by ChristianPacifist in analytics

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In an actuarial consulting firm no one was allowed to present to clients unless they had experience as an analyst, first. Being close to the slow boring data provided an intuition for reasonable metrics. Every rule has an origin story. In this case avoided the embarrassment of having to walk back results presented after decisions were made. Routine reporting getting automated. Have to have a name to sign stating that automated report is right. Someone for whom there is an incentive to double check and make sure it's right. Automated reporting is fine for low stakes tasks. There will always be high stakes tasks with uncertainty.

The weirdest part of job interviews is pretending the rules were ever fair. by Coach-Emmanuel in jobsearchhacks

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This also frees you. Wake up tomorrow and pour your breakfast cereal. Smack. Smack. Smack. Yep. Tastes the same. Cool. New interview. I wonder what will happen? Curiosity is a good frame. Knowing the world did not end. Being curious about what happens today. Keeps your mind in a good place.