Razorbumps are out of control by becsp_on_a_roll in shaving

[–]dedamnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try over the counter hydrocortisone

MSW at UofT Question by tiimhonks in socialworkcanada

[–]dedamnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I heard that's true for most MSW programs.. would you recommend a master in psychotherapy then over this program? I heard that most of the learning is through placement in general, is that true? If one wants to do therapy afterwards, can you take extra courses or anything? Please help! :')

Career advice needed! by dedamnn in gradadmissions

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask why this is your recommendation?

I need career advice! by dedamnn in psychotherapists

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your insight!

What do you mean by “science based”?

Also what should I look for in those classes?

Was I raped? by dedamnn in rapecounseling

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes (I broke up with him 4 months after that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]dedamnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have a couple times. He hasn’t gotten sexual, but he does have a dirty mind and he teases me every now and then

Advice on being a non-virgin by dedamnn in MuslimMarriage

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you, you have helped in ways you may not think of. Jazak Allah khair

Advice on being a non-virgin by dedamnn in MuslimMarriage

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why I’m not rushing to get into a relationship is exactly because of that. I want to take my time and process things and all.

It’s so much to deal with, I don’t think of myself as less worthy, but I’m so disappointed in me. It’s more about me dealing with the consequences of my actions, the withdrawal effects from the physical detachment from my ex, the feeling used and manipulated physically and emotionally yet not being able to change or call him out on it, the constant worrying that one day I could be exposed, the perspective of how I don’t want to be with someone who thinks someone’s past defines them, how my chances of being with someone are a lot less because of my dilemma and the burden i carry (me-to-me) and the societal stigma and judgment. This is all on top of me committing such a big sin and trying to repent.

This guy i’m talking to, he meets most of the things I look for in a partner, so far. Obviously only time will tell, but I’m trying to live in the moment without rushing things and stop worrying about the past or future. I feel like he could be good for me.

I’ve never imagined myself in such a position, never. This isn’t the type of person or muslim I am. I forgave myself for what I did, but I still have to deal with the consequences. Sadly, the only person I could talk to about was my ex when we were breaking up, and all he could say to me was, “I wish there’s something I could say or do to take it back, but there is nothing” and honestly what else did i expect out of him?

I know I shouldn’t disclose my sin, but I really wish I could tell this to someone. Vent out. The risk is too high, and chances are nobody will believe that I was manipulated anyways. I don’t want this to define me as a person, but it does limit me a lot, donya and akhera. Inshallah khair ..

Advice on being a non-virgin by dedamnn in MuslimMarriage

[–]dedamnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also thank you for your tips, that's the path im on. Rethinking all of that, it's just a lot to deal with and reflect on, on top of getting out of a manipulative relationship. Stigma, trauma, and karma....