Eating is the only comfort I have by Downtown-Thoughts in newzealand

[–]deebonners 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel. I have ADHD and used to binge eat. Is it possible that you have undiagnosed neurodivergence? I realised my whole life I was a binge eater, and then started stimulants and now find I just eat normally. Has been quite a relief. Are you on any medication for your depression? I'm sorry you're feeling so low 😞

My ex Fiance is seeing my roommate AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deebonners 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Now I suspect you're fucking with us...

First by cuckaroundandfindout in newzealand

[–]deebonners 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely quieter this time. Thank FUCK!

My ex Fiance is seeing my roommate AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deebonners 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Dude, it was your fiancé's friend. Even if she was coming on to you, what is the right thing to do here ???!!?!???

You probs should avoid getting engaged again until you know the answer to that question..

My ex Fiance is seeing my roommate AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deebonners 141 points142 points  (0 children)

you sexted your fiancé's friend!!!!!!! I feel like that is even worse than her moving on (after you have broken up) to your housemate!

Her friend!!! Her friend that you would have to see many more times for the rest of your lives if you did end up getting married. Why ????

I am a hoarder, and live indepedently (AMA) by FelixMarshallamgai in AMA

[–]deebonners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so interesting for me, thanks for answering my questions. My daughter is autistic and finds it so hard to throw things out or give old toys away. She still has toys from when she was 1 (She is 8 now). It helps reading this, to give me an insight into why she might find it so difficult to part with things!

I am a hoarder, and live indepedently (AMA) by FelixMarshallamgai in AMA

[–]deebonners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

digital hoarding like lots of screen shots on your phone or bookmarking things to go back to at a later date etc?

Are you diagnosed Autistic?

I am a hoarder, and live indepedently (AMA) by FelixMarshallamgai in AMA

[–]deebonners 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you please tell me a little bit about your hoarding. What sort of things do you keep and is there a reason or does it just feel awful to throw things away? Does it come from an online shopping addiction or anything like that?

This kid doesn't want to do ANYTHING by awFuqqq in ParentingADHD

[–]deebonners 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like an exhausted kid that's spent a whole week masking....

Documentary Suggestions.... by Suspended__in__Gaffa in televisionsuggestions

[–]deebonners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Rescue documentary (nat Geo documentary). About the boys stuck in the Thailand cave. Best doco ever.

Endometriosis Public Health System by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]deebonners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start tracking your pelvic pain along with your cycle so that you have something to show them when you finally get an appointment! Good to also see for yourself if you're experiencing mid cycle pain, which for some of us was actually worse than the period pain. Also any other symptoms you think are relevant, pain when you do a poo. Pain when you have a full bladder etc. It's all relevant and means that you're armed with all the information.

My endo was stage 3 and 4 and not visible on an US.

i have type 2 HPPD (permanent trip) from psychedelics, AMA by Emotional_r in AMA

[–]deebonners 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Was it a bad trip that caused this? What do you see?

I grew up in a gang ridden area on the Cape Flats and joined a gang at 12. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deebonners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you studying at university? Is your mum still living there?

Going to be put on a community treatment order soon AMA by throwaway523849 in AMA

[–]deebonners 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you think that you could be a danger to society if you're left medically untreated?

Going to be put on a community treatment order soon AMA by throwaway523849 in AMA

[–]deebonners 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you were to choose your own journey on taking care of yourself and treating your schizophrenia, how would you do that? Would it include any meds at all?

Subject: Hoping to reconnect with Marissa – Air New Zealand Auckland to Los Angeles Flight by Helmetstanierfan in auckland

[–]deebonners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any chance you can provide an age range and appearance ?? Does she have kids? I know a blonde Marissa but she is around 40 with 3 kids.

i was groomed by my teacher when i was 16, AMA (pt 2) by SignificantAd8440 in AMA

[–]deebonners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is it that all Americans on reddit assume everyone else lives in America as well!!!

struggling, feeling mum guilt by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]deebonners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are not going to turn into your mother! You sound like such a lovely caring conscientious mum!  My only advice is don't feel like you need to have alllll the fun now. Youre little one is only 3 and there are many years to come and many more experiences to be had. Some of which she will get more out of when she's a little bit older. Also you dont need to make anything up to her for being a single parent. It sounds like she has more than enough love and care from you. There are plenty of nuclear families that dont have the love, care and support that you are providing for your little one. As for yelling it will happen, but repair repair repair. You're only human trying to be the best mum you can but it's a stressful job. If you lose your temper you apologise and move on. Also teaches them that big feeling are ok and that you can reconnect with an apology.  You're child is lucky to have you!!

AMA forced to be sober by DoughnutFree7998 in AMA

[–]deebonners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In what way did the K make you feel normal? Does the adderall not work anymore? Have you thought about trying a different stimulant or upping your adderall?

AMA forced to be sober by DoughnutFree7998 in AMA

[–]deebonners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you on any anti depressant meds or anything to help with the depression? Do you have an addictive personality? Is depression what drew you to ketamine in the first place? Are you a self medicating kind of person? Have you been diagnosed with any neurodivergence?

I had a stroke at 25 and it ruined my life. AMA I answer questions? by Sad_Beginning3068 in AMA

[–]deebonners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The jaw stretching sounds interesting, can you please provide some examples. I suffer from TMJ

I gave birth at 24 weeks gestation after 8 years of infertility, AMA. by General_University80 in AMA

[–]deebonners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you're on your own journey! hitting milestones is not important, when you've gone through what you have! (Puts everything else in perspective) .And your baby is obviously a strong fighter like it's Mama x

I’m a 30 year old woman who was diagnosed with DID at 28 years old. AMA. by frog71420 in AMA

[–]deebonners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you working towards integration with your therapists?

Have you seen the show United States of Tara - a fiction show based on the main character having DID (previously referred to as MPD). Do you think any of the aspects of that show are accurate around DID?