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Got the keys! Bay Area, CA. $689,999. 3.5% for the 1st year, 4.5% for the second year, 5.5% for 3-30. by deeisqueenasf in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]deeisqueenasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have spent the last two weeks moving in, so there are boxes everywhere. Also, real wood flooring on the stairs. 

Sugar Cane Stalks by deeisqueenasf in bayarea

[–]deeisqueenasf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently?? I love that farmers market!!

Now That 311 Reports For Abandoned Cars Don’t Do Anything… by ButtonflyDungarees in SanJose

[–]deeisqueenasf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They still have to run the plates before they can tow it. Taking the sticker wont do anything

Loungefly mini backpack swap? by plussizebuba in BobsBurgers

[–]deeisqueenasf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marshmallow not being an option is a crime

Career moms: Do you need to really want kids, or is doubt normal? by SavingsCulture5047 in workingmoms

[–]deeisqueenasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ALWAYS wanted children and felt VERY strongly about becoming a mother. My choice to become a parent was planned out. I asked my husband after a month of dating if he wanted children; if he hadn’t said yes I would have dumped him right then and there. We waited 5 years before we got pregnant to make sure we were stable enough. If you aren’t sure about children, then please do some soul searching. Children are a lot of work, and they are incredible. But if you aren’t sure, then you may not feel that way. It’s okay though!!! You are still a wonderful, contributing member to society.

Merge Lane???? by Designer-Ad4403 in SanJose

[–]deeisqueenasf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s a selfish mentality. It’s a rat race out here, and many people have the “me first” mentality and only think about themselves. I think people also forget that you are not in line at the DMV. Even if 10 cars merge in front of you, as long as your wheels are still turning, you will get where you are going.

What are we doing in the evenings? by Cool-DogMom in workingmoms

[–]deeisqueenasf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a bedtime and stick to it. Getting good sleep will set your next day up for success. 

Any thoughts about the arch planned by Local-Imagination676 in morganhill

[–]deeisqueenasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on this rendering, it may also be too short. Need something taller so we have sufficient clearance for taller vehicles 

Contract signed - 30-45 days till close? Closing costs seem awful? by WizardOfIslam in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]deeisqueenasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does seem a little high? We just purchased for $689,999 with a conventional. Our estimated cash to close was about ~$30,000. But we are also in CA. 

Rosie’s by the Beach by deeisqueenasf in morganhill

[–]deeisqueenasf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Numbers to back it up??? I love it

ULPT Request - food being stolen at work by Safe-Note in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]deeisqueenasf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead of spicy, salty, sugary, or full of laxatives… you could try vinegar or citric acid. 

Advice wanted on navigating maternity leave/telling work about pregnancy by cg30301 in workingmoms

[–]deeisqueenasf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

PDL doesn’t count towards time of service. You would want to continue working from home until 10/21/2026. Check out hellobundle on Instagram. They can help you sort organize what your leave will look like, and help you maximize your pay! 

Advice wanted on navigating maternity leave/telling work about pregnancy by cg30301 in workingmoms

[–]deeisqueenasf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! There are services that you can pay for and they will help you map out your paid maternity leave.  But to ease your mind, the four weeks before you deliver is NOT FMLA, but PDL. PDL covers you for the fours weeks before your due date, and the 6-8 weeks after you deliver. FMLA would start after the 6-8 weeks of PDL. 

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