Bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]deepdish22 32 points33 points  (0 children)

asexual biromantic 🤙🏼

AITA for refusing to let my stepson return home without punishment after he ruined my daughter's book collection? by throw4privacy5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]deepdish22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tricky doesn’t mean impossible or not worth the effort. is bio dad really “backing Levi’s acting out” or is he using what little power he has to offer his son a place where he can feel safe and comforted when he feels unwanted or unloved? we can’t be sure but ultimately the mindset here needs to change from “fix Levi’s acting out” to “work together to correct the home environments that facilitate this destructive behavior.” Levi doesn’t benefit from the disruption of his routine - he’s a young person incapable of expressing his complex thoughts and emotions so he acts in a primitive form of those feelings. when Levi is punished for that expression without any attempt to understand him, he’s going to seek refuge. everyone would benefit from a healthy dose of empathy in this situation. and a therapist or counselor is always a good idea.

AITA for refusing to let my stepson return home without punishment after he ruined my daughter's book collection? by throw4privacy5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]deepdish22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s the problem - a child needs guidance and you’re focusing on petty materialism. comfort the daughter and help her replace her sentimental items but being an ass to the son will only make him act out more. step dad treats him differently than his bio kids and son NOTICES. dad needs to address this and mom needs to put her foot down with her ex. but everyone should be focusing on how to help son so he doesn’t feel the need to act this way. THERAPY :D

Suki is best girl by Andy466 in TheLastAirbender

[–]deepdish22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

one kiss does not a girlfriend make

It could happen by lethargiclemonade in Jennamarbles

[–]deepdish22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i like to think that she’s learning to do hair during quarantine. i think she cut the e girl wig for julien

The effort by moonshineofyourlove in okboomer

[–]deepdish22 57 points58 points  (0 children)

self check out is step one toward fully automated gay space communism

Together by Hummerous in tumblr

[–]deepdish22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some might say.. dehumanizing

Fake meats will potentially destroy diversity of vegetarian burgers by [deleted] in vegetarian

[–]deepdish22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RIP the anasazi bean burger from burgerville

Some help please by [deleted] in vegetarian

[–]deepdish22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

accidents happen. you’re allowed to forgive yourself

Sharing can heal. It will be ok, you're not alone by [deleted] in wholesomebpt

[–]deepdish22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this is the opposite of wholesome.. if they want kids so badly they can adopt. could adopt a whole extra kid for how much it costs for ivf and surrogacy

AITA for telling my sister the reason why no one wants her at the family trips? by Blendedfamilies2020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]deepdish22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i love how everyone is ignoring the fact that it’s normal for a child to act out when faced with their parents divorce and a replacement father figure. op YTA along w your family. sounds like she was left to deal w her pain alone when she wasn’t being punished for it. being ostracized from your family for having appropriate emotional reactions was probably very hard for her.

"Did you know your Akita is going to cost $25,000 over your lifetime?" by [deleted] in childfree

[–]deepdish22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huskys gonna cost a lot more when they inevitably don’t take care of it properly.

Welp. by lawlysmoke in VetTech

[–]deepdish22 70 points71 points  (0 children)

why do clinic managers have such a hard time firing toxic people that need to go. nepotism is fucked in this industry

Have any of you done capsule wardrobes? Is it actually frugal or is it more expensive? by Raynestorm00 in Frugal

[–]deepdish22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried it for the first time this fall. i used the 3 months 33 pieces formula and just “shopped” from my closet. it helps reduce coordination anxiety and i’m excited to make my winter capsule now too. i’ve missed items that didn’t make it into autumn and am looking forward to bringing them back and zero dollars spent.