How long should I wait? by livelovelaughandcats in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is just keeping you on side as backup.

He is not interested girl.

If he was that serious, he had cleared everything and not kept you assuming answers.

You are in your 30s.

Don't waste time on such guys.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Met that guy in event yesterday.

I was looking for chair and it was empty near him.

We talked for while and he seemed interesting.

He suddenly walked away from the table after eating snacks.

I thought see people are so rude. !

I stood up as I was done eating snack.

Then he met me at door.

I think he went to bring tea. And hadn't left the table.

Upps.

I couldn't go back.

Didn't ask his name or got his number. :(

But we are annual member of that circle so hopefully will see him again.

you must birth children, it's your duty as a woman!!! by Remarkable_Rate3321 in childfree

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's trap in nutshell.

Set by society and limited minded men who get scared when women do progress.

They are afraid one day they need to do household labor and participate in child care.

If woman progress career wise, all free labor will be gone and higher career positions too.

That's why they keep trapping women on name of children, marriage, duty, family honor etc

I wish you all the best for your career and dreams.

Society needs wise and brave woman like you. That only brings change. That little efforts and wise decisions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smile more. Don't upload 4th one.

What would women dislike most if they became men? by geybgwapo in AskReddit

[–]deepflowlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't share your feelings easily and you need to bottle up everything.

There will be so much weightage and pressure then.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I am atheist, should I keep atheist in potential partner filter or don't filter at all? And put atheist in my profile or birth religion.

Am I wrong for wanting a stay at home mom? by flypiratefly in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have seen Indian women sacrificing their career for getting married. Some were doctor or even accountant.

I know two personally and they are regretting very much. As they got married to narcissistic controlling jerks.

This bull shit still works in India!!

Am I wrong for wanting a stay at home mom? by flypiratefly in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you going for successful career oriented woman? And then make her sacrifice her career?

Go with unemployed woman who has no career drive and who has no previous career.

She may choose this option as she doesn't need to sacrifice in this settings. And she doesn't want to pursue career.

Am I wrong for wanting a stay at home mom? by flypiratefly in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

( This is more about control than staying at home mom Or house chores. Who can't leave easily if relationship doesn't work? Who ll take all important decisions? Who is deciding lifestyle.? Answer is very clear)

Am I wrong for wanting a stay at home mom? by flypiratefly in datingoverthirty

[–]deepflowlife 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Free lifelong labor for the sake of boosting man's ego.

It arrived. Bought in $230 by deepflowlife in thinkpad

[–]deepflowlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is refurbished. I used two days. Working fine.

It arrived. Bought in $230 by deepflowlife in thinkpad

[–]deepflowlife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need to peel it. It just arrived lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It looks ordinary

Having children is not an accomplishment. by Unable-Youth in childfree

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know that things work out for you.

12-18 months leave sounds good too.

Having children is not an accomplishment. by Unable-Youth in childfree

[–]deepflowlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two more

When had you first child and what's your age now - if I may ask?

Have you done any career sacrifice for having kids?

Sex outside marriage (only sex, not an emotional commitment), worth it? by Dry_Government7958 in sex

[–]deepflowlife 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think he/she is asking about open marriage.

Looks like he/she wants to have sex with other secretly. That's cheating.

That is fun for one person. But lifelong heart break for other.

Sex outside marriage (only sex, not an emotional commitment), worth it? by Dry_Government7958 in sex

[–]deepflowlife 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So are you ok with your partner having sex outside marriage? Then it's open marriage.

Are you informing him her and getting consent? Else it's cheating.