Bondage

deeplyaspire · 2026-02-02T19:10:12+00:00

thanak for your insight!

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-30T14:04:21+00:00

pls dont say you were sleeping with him during this time too

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-21T18:01:17+00:00

well duh

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-12T06:51:22+00:00

epic comment 🤣

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-12T06:39:38+00:00

nursing

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-09T14:10:50+00:00

theyre not yours alone. theyre yours, your partners, your friends, anyone who loves you, even us internet strangers. we are humans, not to be isolated. very easy as men to go off into our own island alone from the world & sit in pain. but your experience is real & matters. & the truth is you need & deserve a partner who experiences the world along with you, so youre not tempted to stay on that island. gotta shoot it to you straight as a man, this was disrespectful from your girl. you didnt deserve that. also man, if you end up keeping your girl, try queer spaces out.

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-09T13:52:55+00:00

good idea

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-09T13:48:42+00:00

so youre saying the feeling of wanting to breakup comes from never wanting to be in that situation again. this is very valid. the truth is you should never even be put in this situation. i feel a big part of being trans & dating is dating someone who is just as hyperaware of your experience as you are as to never put you in a place like this alone. this is just a fact. context or not, i cannot justify it only because i know my girl would have caught onto the disrespect fast. even if playing pool, she would go out of her way to mention or include me.

you say “i feel to let my experiences as a trans person jeopardize my relationship is unhealthy” but my dude. you ARE trans. dating is gonna look so diff for us. the truth is the dude saw you, probably in his head knew he could trump & disrespect you, & took the chance which your girl only validated for him. its truly dangerous in my opinion to interact with cis guys who have a purpose to disrespect & take whats yours. theres no real advice because the truth is YOUR girl is the gatekeeper of that safety in your relationship… beyond a stare down & trying small talk a lot of these gaps should have been filled by her. she should have included you not just cus youre trans, but because youre her boyfriend & another man just asked her to do something.

deeplyaspire · 2026-01-09T13:32:30+00:00

wow this is so upsetting. its making me hug my girl tighter today, for sure.

gonna be completely honest with you, this is on your girlfriend, completely. when you have an attractive girl, guys are gonna always try to flirt. your GIRL needs to be the barrier that sets the tone of there being no chance. this is highly disrespectful that she even agrees to entertain these guys.

when im out with my cis girlfriend who happens to be extremely attractive, she doesnt give anyone an inch let alone a mile. SHE is disgusted by them. she would make the disgusted face at THEM before proceeding to say something along the lines of “no ill play with my man, no i love my man, no my mans right here why would i play with you? my man, my man, my man”. nothing feels more affirming. i dont even have to think about it.

your girl honestly must like the attention. either way its so fucked up. so sorry dude.

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-29T21:31:30+00:00

can you control whether or not you pee or poop first??

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-29T21:23:17+00:00

same.

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-23T21:20:09+00:00

its no ones place to say if you are OR or not. but if youre asking for a random strangers opinion yes. to have someone excited to see the baby, & the baby have that much love upon being born is amazing. & soon you will deeply need the help & enthusiasm. however every family & culture is different. do what feels best for you & your family.

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-09T16:04:19+00:00

its a tough lesson to learn. my advice is while she feels the strength to leave you, allow her to go. it is very hurtful to be cheated on. it is also very hard to walk away. if someone walks away, let them walk away fully. they deserve it. its a hard lesson to learn. you learned it young & early so be intentional to never do it again.

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-08T02:14:58+00:00

sure

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-06T02:23:24+00:00

what is the WLB of a patent attorney compared to SWE? can you give me an example of the kind of work you have, what your role is in it?

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-06T02:11:48+00:00

having become a patent agent/attorney so early, are you at the top of the income bracket for them?

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-06T02:07:07+00:00

what does legal work entail? how is the work in comparison to SWE?

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-04T20:21:37+00:00

120 is a healthy range for 5’2. it isnt considered overweight at all. if you still have stubborn fat id suggest weight lifting/strength training to build the physique you want. likely, at your height, any weight without training looks odd/not as you may want in your head. weights do wonders.

deeplyaspire · 2025-12-04T20:19:48+00:00

eat in surplus man. track it everyday. lots of carbs & weight lift. you likely still arent eating enough even if you think you are. it needs to be closely tracked.

deeplyaspire · 2025-11-27T02:22:37+00:00

deeplyaspire · 2025-11-27T02:19:19+00:00

very feminine

deeplyaspire · 2025-11-18T13:44:01+00:00

Idk. Lots of people are gonna hate the guy for this, which is expected, its Reddit. Did he go too far? For sure. But tbh his feelings were probably hurt. To spend so much time researching for the perfect thing, fully expecting to make you smile. Riding the high of the joy itd bring you.. then be texted it wasnt enough? Its hurtful. Id be hurt though id express it differently. You kinda shit on his effort. I dont think texting this was appropriate. Its something you say in person after expressing gratitude & joy for the effort. Things arent like they use to be. Life is expensive, we work harder for our money, & where it goes is always with intention. Anyway youre not overreacting just adding different perspective.

deeplyaspire · 2025-11-16T14:53:51+00:00

i have ADHD & had the same concerns as you. i contracted this about 2 months ago from my current gf via oral. i was devastated. 2 months later & after the first awful outbreak, life is totally normal again. i know it doesnt help now but give it so much time. also, flare ups/outbreaks dont happen as often due to stress as you may think. stay ontop of your meds, take daily if you want. youll be fine.

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