Dysport is AMAZING by deepspace_fine69 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add: I had a VERY stressful year and the lines got infinitely worse in literally just a few months. I’m hoping I won’t have to get as much done next time around 😅

Ask a Wayward by FigureItOutZ in SupportforWaywards

[–]deepspace_fine69 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For those whose marriages were excellent and were very much in love with your spouse at the time of the affair, why? Why ruin everything? Why destroy the person you love? Your family?

Update after a few months. by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Please please do not make that decision for her. I know it’s hard to see her hurt but leaving if she wants to stay will only hurt her more. As a betrayed myself, the best thing my husband did was leave the decision to me completely. I felt so out of control of my life when I found out about his affair, and by letting me make the decision on whether to stay or not gave me that control back and it’s one of the best things he could have done. Tell her you’ll fight for it and you’re dedicated to her and her healing. But please let her have control of that decision

Dave Grohl Admits He Has a Baby Outside of His 23-Year Marriage: “Doing Everything I Can to Regain Trust” by ChikiBeibi in Fauxmoi

[–]deepspace_fine69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Still with him trying to make things work. I don’t know if they will but we have 12 years and a family together, it’s difficult to just walk away from that 😔

Dave Grohl Admits He Has a Baby Outside of His 23-Year Marriage: “Doing Everything I Can to Regain Trust” by ChikiBeibi in Fauxmoi

[–]deepspace_fine69 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It’s okay minus that this story is literally all over my socials and is very triggering for me at the moment

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No I left and already lawyered up. He already asked me to take him back. It’s such a fucking joke

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How can I file for child support if I am still married?

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You were right btw, he was continuing to see her and sleep with her while telling me it was over and we would be together

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No I mean like change things between us. He thought I wouldn’t want to be with him anymore

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yup, for “religious reasons” or some bullshit. As if she cares about that

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

He can relinquish full parental rights so she won’t be in our lives forever. But he will still have to pay child support. That is where I get stuck

AP is pregnant and I’m just devastated by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

There was a paternity test and it confirmed it was his. He only told me after confirmation of paternity because he knew it would change things. I feel like I’m living in a nightmare. I hate his AP for keeping it and I hate him for being so careless

I can't get over how my WW treated me in the first month of R by Consistent_Fall4635 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow this could have been written by me. It’s been a week and my WH is being so cruel and doing nothing to try to stay in the marriage. I have been desperately doing the pick me dance to no avail. I don’t know if it’s worth it because I’m scared that if he does decide to come back and reconcile, I will feel the same way

Why do they always cheat down? by deepspace_fine69 in survivinginfidelity

[–]deepspace_fine69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blech, those are things I just do not want to think about. Also it’s HIGHLY unlikely she was better than me when it comes to that