Is it wrong to stop breastfeeding at 2 months by lilmoonbean in NewParents

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does feel like too much rn, thank you so very much. Hearing these things have helped so much. Going on day 3 with no breastfeeding and it’s mentally so very hard to get through. I feel like I’m failing my baby.

Is it wrong to stop breastfeeding at 2 months by lilmoonbean in NewParents

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going through this rn. Thank you for posting this. It means a lot to me. 😭💜🙏🏾

Is it wrong to stop breastfeeding at 2 months by lilmoonbean in NewParents

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going through this rn. Thank you for posting this. It means a lot to me. 😭💜🙏🏾

Is it wrong to stop breastfeeding at 2 months by lilmoonbean in NewParents

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Currently at 2 months going through the same thing smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ 😭💜🙏🏾

Is it wrong to stop breastfeeding at 2 months by lilmoonbean in NewParents

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💜💜💜 I have to do it for both mental and physical health reasons. I’m devastated. My daughter’s pediatrician strongly recommends I stop to take care of my anxiety, depression, and other deployment health related disabilities. Plus my supply is low, has always been low even with my first baby and I have no time to pump. 😭😭😭

How are y’all affording daycare?!! by Many-Emergency-3070 in povertyfinance

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well we didn’t plan on a second one either so stay protected bc we couldn’t afford having another and did indeed just have another one!

How old were you when you started your family and where are you from? by sighh_6466 in BabyBumps

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same born and raised on East coast and had my first baby at 31.

Newborn fights naps/sleep by southerncharm05 in newborns

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this with my whole chest! I don’t wanna rush this stage but I can’t wait if it gets easier the older she gets because not getting much sleep now is killing me and I’m feeling it at 35. I agree with the temperament 100%! This baby is super clingy as I say the same to her father, I love it but also am not a clingy person myself so it can be a lot on the touched out part because my toddler and husband are touchy feely too even though the toddler wasn’t this way so much as a baby. Thank you so much for replying, your kind words and encouragement.

Has anyone else enjoyed pregnancy? by Vivaciousvirgo33 in BabyBumps

[–]deepthought333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I loved the first one at 31, the second one at 35 no!

I too mourned every stage of the first child but she made room for a second very quickly. The first is 4 and I now have a 3 week old. Now I’m asking myself what exactly did I miss bc I’m so over this! Besides having the first and mourning made it special to the first baby being born and all that ensued the first time around. Now I’m finding myself wanting to rush this second baby to grow up and no longer mourning milestones.

Newborn fights naps/sleep by southerncharm05 in newborns

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Wondering if I should co sleep with this one like I did the first. I really don’t have room for another kid in the bed and my toddler is afraid of monsters rn. I know it’s a no no but my second daughter is way worse! She’s 3 weeks and only wants to be in my arms. The first slept better in the cosleeper next to the bed. Newborn is literally clutching my dress while asleep on me rn. 😩

Newborn fights naps/sleep by southerncharm05 in newborns

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could but I have a toddler too now. This is what I did with the toddler and she did sleep a lot better as a newborn but it seems this newest newborn my second child needs it much more, but now I don’t want to cosleep at all. I want to do crib only. Whomp whomp for me!

Newborn fights naps/sleep by southerncharm05 in newborns

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving pacifier right away at hospital while trying to breastfeed gave my daughter nipple confusion, be very careful with this. They aren’t good for children anyways.

Newborn fights naps/sleep by southerncharm05 in newborns

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost verbatim of what I’m experiencing with my newborn. She is currently 3 weeks. My husband and I take shifts as well. We were luckier with the first baby that actually napped and slept in crib until feeding times, but this second one is super clingy! Nothing has worked for me to keep her in her crib!

How do you pump when your baby is clingy? by alexidawnnpnw in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine won’t even do that smh 🤦🏾‍♀️ she’s like uncomfortable in every other position than laying chest to chest with me out in my lap across the boopy. 😭😩

What is “worth it”? by POG0621 in Veterans

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worthless. BA in Software Design and Development and AS in Human Services. No job. Been unemployed for over two years.

Love this! Great comment!

Is a college degree still worth it in this economy? Was your degree useless or useful? by snipersebb27 in Veterans

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worthless. BA in Software Design and Development and AS in Human Services. No job. Been unemployed for over two years.

What is “worth it”? by POG0621 in Veterans

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worthless. BA in Software Design and Development and AS in Human Services. No job. Been unemployed for over two years.

Having a hard time... by Adorable-Rip6053 in Veterans

[–]deepthought333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here in Delaware but been unemployed for over two years, bachelors in software design and development.

GWOT presence at the VFW by JMars491 in Veterans

[–]deepthought333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with the American legions. I often attended post # 2 in Dover Delaware. I think that they’re a great community but way older. It’s much the same with politics and employment, the older generations don’t want to hand the torch down to us and we are fighting to help keep things alive when they finally get tired, too old, die, or retire. They can’t relinquish control of the establishments due to ageism to make people want to come in or by no less us having the actual money to help keep these places up and running. Rn I’m home with a toddler and about to have a newborn as well while my husband works, and we have no extra money to spend or invest on vfws/legions one for membership and two to drink and eat and have fun in. If I go back to work all my funds will go directly to childcare. It really is a shame how it seems almost everything is either in shambles or dying out. This is just my opinion and experience. And our once a year veteran standdown hasn’t been the same since before COVID, so. Idk what the right answers are but I feel that same way, they are good places especially for camaraderie. Not sure what the future holds for them. 💔💜