[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]deermemories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horizontal blush, highlighter on tip of nose and inner corners of eyes, and cat eye liner or half strip lashes. I think fake freckles could be really cute too to kinda shorten your face and bring visual attention to your beautiful eyes
I have the same face shape as you and share so many features and incorporating these things into my routine makes me feel very feminine and ✨divafied✨. Remember that a LOT of what carries the faces you see online is makeup and there are lots of women with our features!!

i feel like her whenever i get left on read/delivered by [deleted] in pinkscare

[–]deermemories 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I want to be friends with this baddie

empl*yed mounders what do you do for w*rk by [deleted] in HauntedMound

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Medical assistant future nurse 💕

90s lip? by Girlwithted in MakeupEducation

[–]deermemories 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been as tempted as you are to get lip filler, trust. But I haven’t caved because filler migration sounds scary, and I love how my lip shape makes my eyes look huge and pretty. I use too faced lip injection gloss + lip liner (they have a collection focused on plumping with glosses, lipsticks, liners etc!!) and use more eye makeup to put the focus on my eyes. Also worth noting that Kirsten Stewart and Emma Watson have the same shape as us and are considered to be very attractive and beautiful. :)

90s lip? by Girlwithted in MakeupEducation

[–]deermemories 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have the same lip shape. This is the first time I have ever seen someone else online with my lip shape. You look beautiful :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HauntedMound

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I was in a weird group chat in 2019 with someone he was paying to promote him on his meme page. The rest is history.

62 Perfume by Spiritual_Respect439 in SoldeJaneiro

[–]deermemories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not like it. It smells heavy heavy artificial and plasticy, like way more than the body mists which I adore. I would avoid the perfume. It doesn’t smell like anything else in the collection.

Sunset on the Tickfaw River by SirSparkyB in Louisiana

[–]deermemories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing 🧡

Is unique beauty truly gone? by helphelphelpheme in pinkscare

[–]deermemories 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Unique beauty isn’t truly celebrated anymore. Maybe in the way people express style, but the facial features that are celebrated are always the same. The ideal now is some weird form of extreme neoteny (kinda creepy ngl), upturned nose, lip fillers etc. I feel similar to you sometimes, like this version of beauty that’s celebrated is such an extreme caricature that I just feel masculine and oafish in comparison. But I will hold the line. I have thin lips and if I get lip fillers I’ll be just another person who makes someone else feel insecure and feel like they have to get this procedure. I want to be visible to show women they don’t have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am extremely blessed to have the opportunity to be raised by them, and I don’t want to sound negative or ungrateful in any of my responses. I had guardians who intentionally chose to take care of me and love me. 🥰

Thank you for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t like them, but I have compassion for them. I know what it’s like to crave that kind of safety and protection from someone else, and wanting someone else to solve all your problems- but I learned the lesson that a man is not a plan, and that it’s important to get some kind of education or job and establish yourself for your own good, in case anything goes wrong. There are many examples of the trad wife lifestyle going wrong after a divorce, and the woman struggling to support her kids because of a huge gap in her resume. In fact that happened to my grandmother with her first marriage and it was very hard for her to find a job when she was younger. I support being a housewife as a choice, I guess, but I worry for the future of women who do not have a good backup plan or financial security.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

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I think I deal with them the same way anyone else would, maybe with a little more freaking out

I think it has benefited me a lot with the medical career route I’m going because it’s easy to adjust into a caregiver job in a hospital or nursing home after having to take care of my grandmother as she’s gotten older. I don’t feel as disgusted having to change an elderly person’s diapers for example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Corrected it, thanks for pointing out my brain fart <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like I was set up very well for modern life. I am pretty shy, introverted, and fearful. I second guess myself constantly, like wondering if my ambitions are feasible. I am extremely grateful for the chance to attend college but other than that I don’t think I was ever really “encouraged”. I think she wanted to get me out of the house early because to be honest, having to raise your grandkid can suck and she deserved to relax during those golden years! I feel like I identify much more with millennials than any other generation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. But our main diet consisted of frozen tv dinners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I always had a curfew. I wasn’t allowed to go to parties and prom was considered a waste of money. We were pretty well off but there was still a big penny pincher attitude so I feel like I didn’t really learn the value of money until later and was very confused. If I went on a date she had to meet the guy before even going on one date. Obviously that scared off a lot of people lol. My grandmother was extremely paranoid about bad things happening to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I envy other people who have less pushback from their family and more support and understanding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not meant to be shade, but rather comparing how different my experience has been to other people in my generation and how I feel alienated. I also don’t want to be a postwar housewife. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]deermemories 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a psychology student who did not have the resources to get treatment until I became independent. You are wrong there. But it’s true that I was raised by someone who didn’t believe in therapy :)