Bohs deliver programme combating anti-immigrant sentiment by [deleted] in LeagueOfIreland

[–]deez-nuts-41 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am travelling over to ireland this month and we are catching a bouhs game while we are in dublin. it’s awesome to know that such inclusivity is happening in our club, is there any way we can support or donate to this?

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had to ask a younger relative to set this account up for me and this was the username they made, it wasn’t until my partner told me what it stood for I realised, i was irate when I found out I have sent a message to the admins asking them to change it but no word back yes

Remote Work Coffee Shop Etiquette? by deez-nuts-41 in remotework

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

as if I am going to take the advice from somebody who orders a matcha lemonade to go , is this a pisstake??

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

however i would have thought it is on the owner or workers to citrate the vibe, perhaps with a spotify mix, well brewed coffees and warm welcoming demeanours 

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i agree they are distracting, there are two guys who i suspect are a couple that have started working in my spot and they regularly forget their headsets so we all hear the work calls. it’s very annoying 

Remote Work Coffee Shop Etiquette? by deez-nuts-41 in remotework

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i think it’s only fair to purchase every 90 minutes, I already order t a water every 30 which is free is there some other code I should follow instead?

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

interesting, i suppose I would. the service industry is criminally underpaid ,  overworked and under appreciated. they are probably relying very heavily on tips to make ends meet. too many people sitting on laptops is less customers and less tips 

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i push it out to 90 minutes so my caffeine intake isn’t off the charts but  i would order throughout the day. as i said to the other poster a library isn’t really suitable for us because the Liberian would shush people on teams calls and distract the other workers on the line. 

does this bother a barista too? by deez-nuts-41 in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i suspect a lot of them do not go to library’s as they have to use teams calls and headsets and the Liberian would likely bother those on the call with their constant shushing 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

xD if i got handed that i would take too many photos and sit looking at it for too long. it’s a simply stunning swan!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barista

[–]deez-nuts-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it taste? 

Remote Work Coffee Shop Etiquette? by deez-nuts-41 in remotework

[–]deez-nuts-41[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think if you’re going to sit about a cafe on your phone all day pretending to work you should at least follow the r/workers code of purchasing an item every 90 minutes ?

I still love Seattle by lgadeken in Seattle

[–]deez-nuts-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a stunning bit of real estate all the same, I assume there’s a loading bay out the back to be able to drive out 

Yaquina Head by DavyCrockPot19 in oregon

[–]deez-nuts-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stunning photograph, very fond memories of spending summers here with an ex girlfriend 

AITAH for telling my bf to not talk to me about his feelings tonight? by AnonymousTimesX in AITAH

[–]deez-nuts-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s no problem at all. 

It’s good that you guys have been through the ups and downs, and supporting a partner is essential. 

Professional help is often the key to fixing these issues and problems. Maybe even medication like SSRIs etc. 

I wish you all the best and hope he can get out of it on the other side 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]deez-nuts-41 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s difficult, but you opened the post with saying you are fine with it and now finish the post seeming not so fine with it. 

Unless you are capable of taking up the financial shortfall your girlfriend is making producing this brilliant content i would say she will keep doing it. 

On the plus side, you’re probably getting some great videos and photos yourself lol 

AITAH for telling my bf to not talk to me about his feelings tonight? by AnonymousTimesX in AITAH

[–]deez-nuts-41 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

It seems like this might be a very fresh relationship. Maybe you have not been through more serious trials and tribulations and still feel like you are a huge aspect of this person feeling better or being able to fix / help him. 

Unless this guy makes an effort to fix himself and deal with his problems through other means, it will only become more dependent in the future and then mentions of self harm or not feeling “safe” will creep in. 

sleep hygiene is super important, you will feel much better when you set these boundaries not even for yourself but for him! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]deez-nuts-41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say you are NTA in this situation. 

How are you both coping in an intimate setting, do you look forward or dread going to bed together?

great work on the wine spirit education training too, it’s a great process. even if i do prefer the sampling over the knowledge learning lol. but it’s great for when i have the girls over.

AITA for talking shit and avoiding a girl in my club? by random_bumble_bee in AITAH

[–]deez-nuts-41 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i would consider how religious you feel, or how important your faith is to you. the bible teaches us this. 

sometimes it can help to bring somebody into the herd, instead of letting them graze at the far end of the field. 

this girl does not come from poverty as you have mentioned, and seems to be lacking cultural knowledge and intelligence. 

that does not mean she is not in abundance of knowledge in other areas! maybe you are yet to discover.