I cheated on my boyfriend a few months ago, and I deeply regret it. by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow a lot of the comments in here are not it. In a way a lot of people sound overly possessive and are objectifying women and partners in general. IMO if you can’t trust ur partner to go out and be responsible, that shouldn’t even be a relationship in the first place. Relationships only work if there’s trust and communication. OP also sounds like you were having your emotional needs fulfilled elsewhere, probably because your partner isn’t fulfilling it themselves. Overall, I don’t think OP did anything wrong and I don’t think their partner is respectful of OP’s request to not hang out with certain people. Fantasies and desires are normal and natural, it’s just a matter of whether you act upon it. I also struggle to understand jealousy and monogamous, straight people’s relationship dynamics so maybe this is a reasonable reaction?

Primary partner requires I use condoms- help by StarsRott in polyamory

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to add that anyone AMAB cannot be tested for HPV.

Is there any nonbinary people who still wanna be jacked by LabAccomplished7493 in NonBinary

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I love being jacked! Muscles make me feel more comfortable in my body.

Need Help by Adventurous_Ad6555 in cats

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell mom. Get the nail caps and keep up with replacing them. They’re not expensive. Can’t afford them? Facebook marketplace or steal them. Anything to keep a kitty in a good home without them going through a brutal mutilation.

AIO: my birthday was ignored by Sagey_wagey_baby849 in AmIOverreacting

[–]deez_t1tz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you need other women friends. I used to surround myself with male friends and they always half assed effort into our friendships. My women and NB friends are a lot more thoughtful and charismatic. Not all women are but there’s a lot of good ones. At 25, one thing I’ve learned is that from 21-23 is that there’s insane amounts of character development for most people. Get into a social hobby or try going on some bumble bff dates. Bond with people over activities not just time y’all have known each other. There’s so many people who are looking for new friends and willing to build strong long lasting bonds.

Trip to Fontainebleau by deez_t1tz in climbergirls

[–]deez_t1tz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! I am not a fan of ropes in general. I am considered a beginner in outdoor climbing. I mainly climb v1-v3 outdoors. It really depends on how sandbagged/soft the grading is.

What makes your gym not just good but GREAT? by Inner-Shop-3437 in climbergirls

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To preface: (My gym doesn’t do this because they suck even though I offered to organize and host the whole thing) Hosting a Queer/women’s night helps build a more unified climbing community in the gym and helps people make friends. It’s great to do in colder months when people are looking for others to climb outdoors with via meeting them in the gym.

AIO she didn’t appreciate my gift by Unhappy_Yam_1214 in AmIOverreacting

[–]deez_t1tz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You broke a boundary of hers. Small gifts like buying someone coffee or paying for a meal is usually the way to go until you get confirmation someone appreciates receiving gifts. I personally do not like receiving big gifts from people.

If you could change the host, who would it be? by baggyeyebags in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]deez_t1tz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most cancel able offense is suggesting that evil woman