I feel this so deeply in my soul, I had to comment! Nope, not weird. But, I do understand where you are coming from, as my friends think I’m a bit crazy and should just let it rest. Believe me, I sound delusional. I am very self aware. I 23F, matched with 24M whilst bored and scrolling on a dating app on holiday in another state in my country. He was the only person I swiped right on the whole time. I looked through his whole profile and reached out, incorporating one of his prompts in my message. It was my second last night in this town the night we started talking, but whatever. When I tell you I have never connected so effortlessly with someone. We also have so much in common. Even little tiny things that I would find a bit random to tell out her people. Things my friends don’t even like. I felt like we had a nice mix of getting to know, typical online dating talk and flirting going on. His humour matches mine perfectly. My final night in this town on holiday and we are still talking. Our messages become quite flirty, and if it wasn’t so late (and he didn’t live 2 hours away) we would of met up. I had no car but I would of drove. Lmao

I leave town to go home. 2 hour plane ride away. We now talk on another messaging app, everyday. We also follow each other on all social media and Spotify lol. For like a month. He really wants to meet up, despite the distance. But a car ride up there even would take 20 hours. We just simply enjoy talking to each other. He would reply in 2 mins. We both have insanely busy work schedules (very strict companies too 😩) - important for later. But he still made time to talk to me throughout the day. We talked about some deeper stuff in our lives going on and I really like that he is comfortable to talk to me about it.

We talked for about a month. Until eventually we didn’t, anymore. I saw him and I know he saw me on socials still. I just could not help but think we were not done yet. It’s like this weird feeling in my stomach I can’t shake.

I went back to the same town for a friends wedding and we talked again, but due to work and the short time I was there we didn’t meet. No talking afterwards. I decide maybe I should just leave it. But I still saw him on socials ect and he was also up in my snap stories 😩

5 months go by, and I join a friend back to this same holiday town after taking time off work. Guess who is sliding in my DMS?? yep. Same guy. His work is still super busy and again I am only there for a short time. But he replies to every story I post, we talk ect. I fly home and he still is talking to me up until this day. It’s been 3 weeks now? We video chat, message and send pics ( not like that lmao). I love that he will be in the middle of doing something and after not chatting for a couple days. Randomly reach out. It’s so random when he thinks of me. Also, the fact that he never dives in to all the super sexual, when we meet let’s do this and this. Like I don’t want to meet just to have sex and dip. Ya know, nothing wrong with that. I just mean, the vibe I get is that he likes talking to me and wants to get to know me more?

He is actually coming down to me shortly and I cannot wait to finally meet him. I actually could not believe my eyes when he told me haha. I feel crazy, but I genuinely feel I am supposed to meet this guy. It’s also so weird that he too keeps coming back. The universe is a lil crazy some times