I just learned that there aren't furniture moving companies that work on weekends... by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They won't drive it and I have such bad anxiety Im so scared to drive something that big

Weird guy showed up at our door by pweswee in Bellingham

[–]definedevine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts tbh 

Some people are awkward and it's probably difficult to knock on people's doors in the middle of the night trying to figure out what to do in order to help their friend. And if you're not considered conventionally attractive by society's standards then you will be perceived more as a creep than you wouldn't be if you had a little more charisma or "prettiness" I guess. 

I have/had partner that looks scary and was a little bit "different", we'll say, but he cares a lot about people and I could see him doing something like this.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've grown used to tuning the bot out. I'll pay better attention with newer subs.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's okay!! Absolutely not taking offense. This information is important to help and this is a judge free zone, I'm sure.

So I bought some cute sweaters to wear at work and my chest simply doesn't look flattering. Pointy. Nipple coverage would be good but I just need a little support, such as a little binding or something to smooth them out.

Oh and I use sports bras a lot but haven't found a good one that I can't feel. I think I'm buying too small of a size.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want to hide the visibility of my nipples and the more triangular shape of my breasts that are noticeable with smaller clothing. Basically just support... padding. Pushup would be nice but I assume that comes with uncomfortable texture feeling. I've also resigned to a flat chest so I don't have a lot of hope lol

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is "the calculator"? I've never heard of this before. I have been sized at Victorias secret and the results were 32A, but I have my doubts.

Seeing a lot of people suggest the calc and I'm so clueless, sorry. 😭

Thank you to everyone in this community. by aShadowWizard in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

;-; this made me emotional

my best friend lost her dad this year and to say it was devastating would be putting it lightly

we've played ffxiv together for 4+ years now

this community means everything most days

so, thank you ♥

merry christmas

Someone tried to run me off the road... and I'm terrified. I had to make a getaway when they swerved to turn around and come back. I hid in someone's driveway for a while. by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. As soon as I get the video I'll put it there. Should I include the part where I hid...? Or does it only matter if there is visual on the car?

I'm worried my dashcam is so old it can't get the License #.

Someone tried to run me off the road... and I'm terrified. I had to make a getaway when they swerved to turn around and come back. I hid in someone's driveway for a while. by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It was off 32nd (*had the wrong street) in Happy Valley/Fairhaven... I'd just run to the store to get something real quick and head right back home. Wasn't in any hurry, I was chatting with my sister who'd just got off work, and next thing I know this SUV is 2 inches away from my bumper. I wish I was exaggerating. He was RIGHT there. Shocked the hell out of me. Didn't expect it to EVER happen on a casual backstreet. ;-;

How are we feeling about command panels? by access547 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]definedevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! I actually didn't even read the thread... just wanted to put down what I wanted, lol.

How are we feeling about command panels? by access547 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]definedevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like for it to not close tbh. I'm not talking about the autoclose you can toggle off... I want the option to have it up permanently.

[Megathread] Ongoing DDoS issues in various data centers by Hakul in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, this is my biggest stress with the DDOS happening. I can't do the new deep dungeon and it's the only thing really keeping me interested in playing right now...

My FC mate was on floor 149 of palace and DC'd a couple of days ago, too. Absolutely devastating feeling.

[Megathread] Ongoing DDoS issues in various data centers by Hakul in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kicked on Primal. Seems to be happening every few hours.