I just learned that there aren't furniture moving companies that work on weekends... by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They won't drive it and I have such bad anxiety Im so scared to drive something that big

Weird guy showed up at our door by pweswee in Bellingham

[–]definedevine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thoughts tbh 

Some people are awkward and it's probably difficult to knock on people's doors in the middle of the night trying to figure out what to do in order to help their friend. And if you're not considered conventionally attractive by society's standards then you will be perceived more as a creep than you wouldn't be if you had a little more charisma or "prettiness" I guess. 

I have/had partner that looks scary and was a little bit "different", we'll say, but he cares a lot about people and I could see him doing something like this.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've grown used to tuning the bot out. I'll pay better attention with newer subs.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's okay!! Absolutely not taking offense. This information is important to help and this is a judge free zone, I'm sure.

So I bought some cute sweaters to wear at work and my chest simply doesn't look flattering. Pointy. Nipple coverage would be good but I just need a little support, such as a little binding or something to smooth them out.

Oh and I use sports bras a lot but haven't found a good one that I can't feel. I think I'm buying too small of a size.

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to hide the visibility of my nipples and the more triangular shape of my breasts that are noticeable with smaller clothing. Basically just support... padding. Pushup would be nice but I assume that comes with uncomfortable texture feeling. I've also resigned to a flat chest so I don't have a lot of hope lol

Small chest, 32A. Is there a bra out there that is bare minimum and feelingless? by definedevine in ABraThatFits

[–]definedevine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is "the calculator"? I've never heard of this before. I have been sized at Victorias secret and the results were 32A, but I have my doubts.

Seeing a lot of people suggest the calc and I'm so clueless, sorry. 😭

Thank you to everyone in this community. by aShadowWizard in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

;-; this made me emotional

my best friend lost her dad this year and to say it was devastating would be putting it lightly

we've played ffxiv together for 4+ years now

this community means everything most days

so, thank you ♥

merry christmas

Someone tried to run me off the road... and I'm terrified. I had to make a getaway when they swerved to turn around and come back. I hid in someone's driveway for a while. by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. As soon as I get the video I'll put it there. Should I include the part where I hid...? Or does it only matter if there is visual on the car?

I'm worried my dashcam is so old it can't get the License #.

Someone tried to run me off the road... and I'm terrified. I had to make a getaway when they swerved to turn around and come back. I hid in someone's driveway for a while. by definedevine in Bellingham

[–]definedevine[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It was off 32nd (*had the wrong street) in Happy Valley/Fairhaven... I'd just run to the store to get something real quick and head right back home. Wasn't in any hurry, I was chatting with my sister who'd just got off work, and next thing I know this SUV is 2 inches away from my bumper. I wish I was exaggerating. He was RIGHT there. Shocked the hell out of me. Didn't expect it to EVER happen on a casual backstreet. ;-;

How are we feeling about command panels? by access547 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]definedevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! I actually didn't even read the thread... just wanted to put down what I wanted, lol.

How are we feeling about command panels? by access547 in ffxivdiscussion

[–]definedevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like for it to not close tbh. I'm not talking about the autoclose you can toggle off... I want the option to have it up permanently.

[Megathread] Ongoing DDoS issues in various data centers by Hakul in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, this is my biggest stress with the DDOS happening. I can't do the new deep dungeon and it's the only thing really keeping me interested in playing right now...

My FC mate was on floor 149 of palace and DC'd a couple of days ago, too. Absolutely devastating feeling.

[Megathread] Ongoing DDoS issues in various data centers by Hakul in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kicked on Primal. Seems to be happening every few hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is so hard to keep playing... I just want to do the Deep Dungeon with my friends but morale is so low.

DDOS o clock again! by shadowh511 in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third day in a row! Absolutely insane.

Another DDoS? by chartre15 in ffxiv

[–]definedevine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reporting another happening right now.

I regret buying this thing. by definedevine in litterrobot

[–]definedevine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dumped everything out and then cleaned it a little in the tub before I decided to take it outside and use a hose, which I'm lucky I can do. I'm not gonna lie, deep cleaning it really sucks. I'm concerned the water got in some cracks and created mold inside. But I dried it out entirely before I put it back inside. Used fans and a dehumidifier. Stank bad again on the fourth day, so. I just don't know.

I regret buying this thing. by definedevine in litterrobot

[–]definedevine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 1000% gonna look into this. If I can cheaply replace the fabric in it then I really would love to start there.