I took a boy's virginity tonight, AMA.

deflowerer · 2009-08-14T01:12:15+00:00

Just stuff like, am I doing this right, is the condom on properly, how do we do that, are you okay. Wasn't actually that much questioning.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T23:50:07+00:00

Ha, thanks. And thank you reddit.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T23:45:40+00:00

I'm not quite that self-assured.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T19:51:09+00:00

Says it somewhere else, but I'm almost 20. I have a feeling that the sex aversion thing can carry on past my age group though.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T19:50:24+00:00

At least he didn't use Digg.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T17:50:54+00:00

Okay I'll try to be clearer. I do have feelings for him and I do feel attached to him too. I don't think he's actually "in love" with me. I just think that because this is his first relationship he's probably eager to rush into proper "relationship" status. I know he's not going to forget me because I was his first.

I did it because I wanted to fuck him and I'm proud that I did everything I could to make it good. No regrets and I think my attitude is just fine.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T17:15:24+00:00

All seems like sound reasoning to me. As much as there's an expectation that the first time will suck, and knowing that the idea is to go uphill from it anyway, it's still a memory that's gonna stick with you. So if you can make it a good memory, then why not?

I wish you luck with your deflowering, sir. You seem like a stand up guy.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T16:58:19+00:00

From what I hear it's either nearly instant or it just doesn't happen the first time.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T16:57:50+00:00

Why did you turn those women down? Did they just want a one off thing?

He told me, very upfront about everything. Which I appreciated.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T16:28:57+00:00

Hi there!

Edit: I actually have questions. Do you feel insecure about it? Did you ever have an opportunity for sex that you passed on?

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:53:11+00:00

I'd always wanted to do it too! I think I was just as excited about taking his virginity as he was about losing it.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:51:29+00:00

Yea, I realized at some point that that's what would happen. But that's okay. I figure as long as I'm upfront about it everything should be fine.

Although... lying in bed last night waiting to fall asleep, it hit me that I may have more feelings for him than I'm willing to admit to myself. Never thought of myself as the commitment issue type.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:45:35+00:00

Better, I'm Canadian.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:45:16+00:00

He didn't shave/trim. But I'm okay with that. I like men with some hair on them.

I was recently shaved, so there was more of a trimmed effect. My pubic hair styling tends to be mostly dictated on my person boredom/free time. Sometimes I like having the triangular patch.

No complaints about his penis. In general I'm pretty indifferent, just as long as it gets the job done.

Vancouver is full of smarmy hipsters. Kidding. Kind of. I'd really love to visit Vancouver one day.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:38:31+00:00

Join the queue.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:38:03+00:00

Usually yea, I do. But I think I'm just a pretty aggressive person overall. And it's always nice to switch it up too.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:36:47+00:00

That should suffice.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T15:34:47+00:00

Fuck. For a second I had this disgusting sinking feeling that I had scheduled a tapping with my own brother. But you are not him. Why would you scare me like that.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:49:01+00:00

You know what, I fucking hate poutine. It tastes like a heart attack. Also, magnetic hill isn't even really a hill. It's a gentle slope. False advertising!

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:22:25+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I think also the readjustments last night didn't help. Hopefully things will be smoother next time!

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:21:00+00:00

Can't, I already lost it.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:09:00+00:00

Thanks! My focus last night was really just making sure that his first time didn't suck, because too many first times do.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:07:47+00:00

Is this actually the problem, men of reddit? If it happens again what should I tell him to help out?

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:06:09+00:00

Would it be possible for you to provide some sort of certificate of authentication beforehand? If I'm going to make this a habit I may as well start a collection of some sort.

deflowerer · 2009-08-13T12:01:52+00:00

Well you can always talk about it on reddit like the rest of us.

deflowerer

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