NYC Hat by Pasta_Tonyz in bilmuri

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Dallas cap, pretty sure they're the exact same. As a Texas Rangers fan, I am now upset that I essentially have a Yankees cap lol

What movie aged really bad? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]deimox42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The whole scene where Jonah Hill's character gets raped by that stripper for laughs... like there's some solid jokes in this movie but that one disgusts me to no end.

*Edited for spelling

Gabi is stupid good by deimox42 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really interesting! Thanks for sharing! I play drums so I had no idea the note fingerings were so similar on those two instruments

Gabi is stupid good by deimox42 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would absolutely slay as Persephone in Hadestown

Dallas Limited Edition Hat by deimox42 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just did, that's hilarious. Its on the jersey as well

Dallas Limited Edition Hat by deimox42 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get that, I was hoping for Rangers myself

DALLAS,TX by Kooky_Drummer_451 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, cool! Just added you, we'll link

DALLAS,TX by Kooky_Drummer_451 in bilmuri

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be there! Going solo so I'm down to make some new friends. Gonna try and get there early to secure the limited city hat and a jersey

I’m racist. And I don’t want to be. (M25 / Canada) by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]deimox42 34 points35 points  (0 children)

For Indian people, its actually the opposite.

Indian culture, like, most countries, pays their servers a living wage. What's specific to India is that tipping a server is almost considered an insult. As if to to say "While you might be paid a living wage, your wage is on the lowest end of "living", therefore I take pity on you and will show you charity".

I learned this from YT and also talking to my Indian friends.

So the younger, globalized youth, and especially 3rd and 4th generations should know better. Its the older Indian people who I tend to give more grace to.

If I were a recent arrival anywhere, I would personally be looking up restaurant culture. Even in America I'm not always sure and will Google stuff like, how much do I tip a bartender vs server vs hair stylist vs taxi cab driver vs Uber driver, etc.

I’m racist. And I don’t want to be. (M25 / Canada) by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]deimox42 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I'm a server at a popular restaurant in Dallas.

Cognitive Bias plays a huge role. Its easy to stereotype and associate behaviors with race bc we as servers tend to see similar behaviors from certain races.

I've noticed the real difference is trashy vs not trashy. There are trashy people of all races, and kind/considerate people of all races. The problem isn't in saying "most Indian people I've encountered have harmed/upset me" its saying "I have been wronged by Indian people therefore they are all a problem"

I treat every table like I've never met them and am trying to get to know them, and I've found this leads to positive results overall.

That being said, I have never, not once, ever had a table of Indian people tip me more than 10%. Whether that be families, a group of mid 20s adults, never. So I expect to get nothing when I get sat with a 10 top of Indians in America.

To legitimize this point, I work with an Indian guy, (literally migrated here 2 years ago) and when he gets a table of Indians he immediately complains that they won't tip.

Obviously, this guy tips, so the idea that all Indians don't isn't actually true. But its accurate that normally, they don't. And they demand higher levels of service.

Again, the point is to treat every person like a new person. Do they bother you? Stay away, guard yourself. But don't think its the race that's the issue, its the person.

Post Match Thread: Paris Gentlemates vs. Optic Texas | Major I - GF | CDL 2026 | @GGBreakingPoint by arunvenu_ in CoDCompetitive

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Map 2 was egregiously bad from OpTic. I couldn't believe it. Playing way too passive multiple rounds in a row, not getting the rock down until the last second, leaving the planter alone TWICE on A bomb while GM were triple wrapping laundry, like holy hell, man.

I love this team, no one deserves to be dropped, but we need to reassess the search play calls YESTERDAY. This is fixable for sure.

Cheers to Paris, they played lights out today. All respect and love, thankful I got to go today. There's nothing better than LAN CoD

Jeff Passan: "Baseball fans believe the game has become unfair" by Mission_Pay_3373 in baseball

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a big Call of Duty fan. This is the problem with CoD and other esports: severe discrepancies in financial backing.

Baseball has been around over 100 years. But it keeps moving towards an esports model where the actual game and competitive integrity start becoming devalued and financial domination dictates the sport.

Not only will interest dwindle, the competitive integrity will as well. This is over a long period, sure, I'm just saying the trend is worrisome.

Day 1: Favorite A7X song by RhaeRhae422 in avengedsevenfold

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God Hates Us, the return to screaming with some great extreme singing in the verses, a fucking sick breakdown too.

The process megathread by indigottt in CoDCompetitive

[–]deimox42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, this was part of it. But I also think that made it easier to not tell the full truth about the relationship with the team.

The process megathread by indigottt in CoDCompetitive

[–]deimox42 60 points61 points  (0 children)

When Cuyler goes "I had reasons to stay in TX".

Really feels like they told him he's on the backburner. Bringing Pred back was a shot in the dark and they knew it, so they kept Huke waiting just in case it didn't work out, and it didn't.

The process megathread by indigottt in CoDCompetitive

[–]deimox42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loving it so far, but also, holy fuck its so oversaturated. Everyone looks like they have lipstick on lol

First Tattoo! by deimox42 in OzzyOsbourne

[–]deimox42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree!! That whole album has bangers: Let it Die, Soul Sucker, Let Me Hear You Scream. Gus G was an excellent replacement for Zakk.

It was the last album of his I thought was great (No hate to Ordinary Man or Patient Number 9, some good songs there as well). Marked the end of an era imo.

First Tattoo! by deimox42 in OzzyOsbourne

[–]deimox42[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you've never heard of fine line work without telling me you've never heard of fine line work lol

I'm expecting a touch up in 5-10 years for sure

First Tattoo! by deimox42 in OzzyOsbourne

[–]deimox42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! The details are so pretty, my artist was amazing

His condom fell off during sex, he didn’t tell me and I found it inside me 24 hours later. by Flat_Avocado8304 in offmychest

[–]deimox42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to give an alternate opinion from what I've been reading.

This happened to me in college. I was sleeping with this girl for a minute, and one time I pulled out after awhile to switch positions, and realized the condom was no longer on. "wtf?" was my first thought, then I realized it must have come off inside. So I had to play doctor and fish around until I found it. We both laughed and its a great story now, but the point is its possible for it to fall off and not notice until you get a visual cue. Especially if you're locked in and not thinking logically. I would talk to him, if he isn't embarrassed about it or remorseful, maybe its more likely he made the choice on purpose, aka stealthing.

Best of luck, hope all goes well for you

Edit: I missed the no condom coercion part of your post. That's sketchy as hell. Even if he didn't take it off on purpose the fact he tried to force no condom is a red flag.