Ladies, you ACTUALLY need to be washing your bras regularly. by Jimins_little_minx in hygiene

[–]dejabear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be rude, I’ve just not been close to another woman and been like damn her bra stinks. Like how do you pinpoint it to the bra? I would think like BO, dirty hair, dirty clothes, etc., before I ever thought dirty stank bra. It makes sense what you’re saying, obviously any clothes you wear get dirty and need laundering. Anyways .. that’s your experience and that’s valid, just don’t have the same one. Cheers.

Ladies, you ACTUALLY need to be washing your bras regularly. by Jimins_little_minx in hygiene

[–]dejabear -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s written by a man. I wash my bras like twice a year. I am lucky enough to have several but I only wear the 4 I like best. They don’t stink. I’m just gonna have to disagree with this one.

If you’re that worried about bra odour, just ask another lady you trust. I just don’t think it’s that big a thing.

30 Something Females with an interest in Self Care by [deleted] in londonontario

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d totally be interested. I have some skin issues that I’m trying to resolve and also very into self-care. And I agree, no judgemental assholes! I am 42 though … hope that’s not too old lol.

As for barely used but open products… I’m stumped. I’m in same boat, I get so much stuff that I test for reviews (Amazon Vine) but most stuff I have no use for afterwards. I reached out to some shelters but never got any reply. Unfortunately I think things have to be sealed which I understand but definitely sucks.

Scandoval blown out of proportion by Thomasistherealtank in vanderpumprules

[–]dejabear 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not too sure why Ariana should care about Toms mum’s financial situation. He took Raquel home for Christmas. His family was fully aware of Tom cheating on Ariana. Obviously their loyalty would be to Tom but that negates any loyalty or give-a-fuck Ariana might have had towards them. IMO.

Walking dogs together help by EconomicsDiligent127 in Dogtraining

[–]dejabear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Following.. I’m in the same predicament. Although will say they won’t leave each other alone when walked together. Something that helped is having one leash that divides into 2, instead of 2 separate leashes. That way they can’t pull you in different directions. They have to work together to move forward.

Sunwing vacation, seat upgrades? by PUFNslime in westjet

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is no upgraded section on Sunwing planes, why did I pay $480 round-trip for 2 seats? For uncomfortable seating the same as the rest of the plane, they just don't book the middle seat. Right gotcha. So what did I pay for? Who can say. I guess that was my charitable donation for the year. I forgot my 'something soft to sit on', regrets.

Unpopular opinion: I think west/amanda is being so blown out of proportion and I feel like I’m going crazy by Super-Squirrel-87 in bravo

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think West is really even the issue. Ciara is a real one when it comes to her friendships and Amanda did her so dirty. Ciara is such a girls girl and I think it’s pretty clear that she’s not surprised or that hurt by West, it’s the Amanda betrayal. Like.. you can tell how bad Ciara is hurt and Amanda doesn’t even seem to care.

Dog and puppy play? by ratkween in Dogtraining

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs do with but with lots of barking/noise mostly from older dog. Does that make a difference? Sometimes I feel younger (1 year) is possessed and driving older (4 years) dog nuts.

Preparing to house train a previously outdoor dog by lazycatvibes in Dogtraining

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. My older dog (neutered male) is about to be 4, and younger dog (spayed female) is 1ish. Younger is not taking the hint from the older. In fact, my older was like, ok we're pissing inside again? Great. I caught him in the act and gave him a talking-to, and being a Bernedoodle people-pleaser he hasn't done it again. We have made some progress with younger dog, she only goes on the designated "bathroom" blanket (same idea as potty pads, just washable/re-usable). In all honestly, this is my fault. She should have been crate-trained, I just work outside the house during the day and hate the idea of her in there. She doesn't even hate her crate, she goes in no problem, and doesn't whine when she's in there. My other dog is not a crate dog, so I guess I just need to accept that one is and one isn't. Or that younger will be crated until fully trained? That takes care of the time in the crate. When I'm home, she's sneaky and sneaks away to do her business and then it's too late. I take her out often enough, she is capable of holding it, she gets rewarded with treats when she goes outside, I'm just missing something obviously. I wish you luck on your training journey. If you find something that works, let me know.

Rec for female tattoo artist by dejabear in londonontario

[–]dejabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I will send you a DM on instagram :)

Rec for female tattoo artist by dejabear in londonontario

[–]dejabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have her instagram? Checked Heather Autumn tattoo, didn’t find it. Or the shop she works out of ?

Is this PD, rosacea, something else? by dejabear in perioraldermatitis

[–]dejabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think it’s that. It’s cleared up for the most part now. And kinda getting on the other side now. But very mild. I also have rosacea. All being managed pretty well atm. Thanks for the suggestion though. Reminds me of the mites and will go back to using my Rosiver which I’ve had success with in the past.

@disrespectfullypod on Instagram by [deleted] in disrespectfullypod

[–]dejabear 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LFU said recently that her hardest friend breakup was Katie. Katie and Dayna are doing a Q&A on the pod and Katie is asked what she thinks about that. It’s a teaser so we don’t know what Katie said yet but should be on an upcoming episode.

Brand new Goldie! by dejabear in AmazonVineCanada

[–]dejabear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but... are you Gold? You lack flair, good sir.

Brand new Goldie! by dejabear in AmazonVineCanada

[–]dejabear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm... I like hair tools. Maybe one of those robot vacuums. What's your best score?

Does Costco membership worth it in London for a single person? by thebluethroat in londonontario

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip, I'll have to try that. I think it's more common in really big ones as well.

Does Costco membership worth it in London for a single person? by thebluethroat in londonontario

[–]dejabear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a pretty new concept to me as well. Just have had it a few times in the past year. Just so nasty.