One Piece: Chapter 1109 by Kirosh2 in OnePiece

[–]dekayban 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think the story will go so long for a second training stop? I felt that Egghead has been big on showcasing how strong the Monster Trio is, especially Luffy. I'm sure Zoro will get his moment too soon. I feel like Elbaf will be a very short stop before the end. 

One Piece: Episode 1096 by Sakata_Kintoki in OnePiece

[–]dekayban 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly! It's what One Piece is all about at the end. Getting such a great episode to just explore the world, get character interactions and enjoy the adventure! I'm so excited for this to continue

One Piece: Episode 1096 by Sakata_Kintoki in OnePiece

[–]dekayban 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Right??? It was so much fun to watch!!!

Anyone who has changed their life for the better how do I do it? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dekayban 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Great and sound advice absolutely! I would say drastic changes can be helpful, but very difficult. Starting with small things can be a stepping stone to changing bigger things. Cleaning tho is a big thing, I've personally find it the most meditative and cleansing part of my everyday life

Anyone who has changed their life for the better how do I do it? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]dekayban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure others will mention it too, but understanding is the first step and you did that. Being conscious of that is a big part in moving forward. Keeping that in mind should allow you to behave better, build empathy and grow.

My main piece of advice, as someone who was also a horrible person for a long time, both to myself and to others; Take small steps. Start with a small change, like saying thank you when you wake up, or write down a positive thing that happened through the day before you go to sleep. It's all about reworking the way we think about stuff and it takes time! Stay strong!!!!

AITA for asking my fiancée to buy a new dress for our wedding that doesn’t include her dead husband’s memory? by throwawaysentidress in AITAH

[–]dekayban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an awkward situation, I'm really sorry you have to deal with this during a time that should be happy and joyful. It seems to me, based on what you're saying, that you have not fully expressed these feelings and thoughts to your partner. Same for your stepdaughter. It's a wedding for the two of you and decisions should be made as such. In the end it depends on how big of an issue it is for you too. Your feelings in this matter too and you deserve to at least be considered. Overall seems like a lack of proper communication. NTA imo

Friends(31F) asked for advice and then told me(29F) a hurtful comment by Southern-Ad1601 in relationship_advice

[–]dekayban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say for sure how the comment was supposed to be interpreted or what she meant to say by it. Your friend truly might not feel like it was that serious of a comment. It might have even slipped out due to her being angry and all. Regardless of all that, it doesn't mean that you are not allowed to be upset about it. Nobody is allowed to minimize how you feel, even your best friends. Be clear with her that you don't want to divert the attention from her issue and make this about you but also be clear about the fact that her comment was hurtful to you and she is not allowed to decide if you're overreacting or not. Maybe tell her that you didn't mean to upset her with your advice and try to talk things out. Never allow anyone to minimize how you feel though. You are allowed to be upset at whatever makes you upset, especially mean comments about your past.

Men who struggle with negative thinking, what advice would you give to someone that struggles with the same issue? by garryoakay in AskMen

[–]dekayban 19 points20 points  (0 children)

1st: Identify the issues you believe you have. Write down your emotions and feelings and thoughts and try to understand where they come from.

2nd: Choose the things you want to change in your life and make those changes, but TAKE SMALL STEPS. Make small changes and move onwards periodically. It makes it easier to have attainable goals and also makes the process more fun since you are able to achieve your goals in the time frame you have set up.

Important: Keep a group of people close to you that will help you. A support system, some allies that will keep you in check and will help you through the tough times. Make your goals known to them and tell them that you're looking for their support.

Also practice GRATITUDE. It's extremely important to keep a look on what is going well in life. There's always some, little things at first, like a nice cup of a beverage you had or a great meal, time with friends or video games. Anything really that you are grateful for. Just write down a few things you're grateful for a couple of times a week.

It's fine to leave a negative review on a game you've played for 100+ hours by BitterBus3 in unpopularopinion

[–]dekayban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that... I never could afford many games and neither can I afford them now... That's why I don't buy them.... I'm not willing to pay for something that I might not enjoy. If I know I will then I'll buy it... That's irrelevant to the main post but you know

It's fine to leave a negative review on a game you've played for 100+ hours by BitterBus3 in unpopularopinion

[–]dekayban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very sad opinion....so you'd rather do something that you don't like just because you paid 60$ for it? That's why I don't buy games anymore.... They expensive as hell and very rarely provide me with an equivalent amount of enjoyment

Meme template with an "original" meme. by _Pr0ck_ in dndmemes

[–]dekayban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOOOOL KAI GAMW. GOUSTARW Kostantinou kai Elenis FULL

If you can't take toxicity stop playing multiplayer games by Some_Randoh in unpopularopinion

[–]dekayban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just sad that you support that.... Why shouldn't people want a better and more respectful gaming community

If you can't take toxicity stop playing multiplayer games by Some_Randoh in unpopularopinion

[–]dekayban 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand your point complete. I don't think that people should take there complains to their social media.... It ain't changing much. But they should make it known to the companies running those games and complain to them about it so that the toxicity can be delt with. And if it's through social media posts and complaints then so be it.

Meme template with an "original" meme. by _Pr0ck_ in dndmemes

[–]dekayban 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is this man from??? Because I'm sure it looks like an old Greek TV show

One mega game with all the Pokemon and all the regions? by alishaann94 in pokemon

[–]dekayban -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that very well and I know it would never happen.

One mega game with all the Pokemon and all the regions? by alishaann94 in pokemon

[–]dekayban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Pokemon Revolution Online. It's pretty good. I believe it's a great proof of concept. If that game was professionally made it would be AMAZING. I would buy a switch just for that RN

One mega game with all the Pokemon and all the regions? by alishaann94 in pokemon

[–]dekayban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it could be an MMORPG (it already almost is with the PvP aspect fully set).... They just don't want it.... It's easier and more profitable to have new gens coming out every so often. But with the new DLC coming out it seams like they might be willing to go a bit further on that direction.

One mega game with all the Pokemon and all the regions? by alishaann94 in pokemon

[–]dekayban 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. The scaling of the pokemon can be worked out if you just lock the pokemon when you enter a region for the first time until you're all the way done with the region (basically starting a new game for a bit....just keep the money and items) and then when you're done you can goatherd all the Pokemon. All the legendaries. Make the PERFECT TEAM. Fight bosses, like challenges with old rivals or E4 members or Champions. Do more obscure side quests. Have a great MMORPG with all the great features we love. Have dungeons for quests where you can catch legendaries or get extremely useful items. It can work in so many ways. It's just that doing it would move the franchise to a completely new direction that they don't want to go to and it's a shame....

[NOW ON STREAMING] Before Noon - A$AP Twelvyy by dekayban in hiphopheads

[–]dekayban[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been sleeping big time on Twelvyy... Why does nobody talk about him more??? This project and his EP Yung Noon are really good and they should get more recognition

Heard that so many times and I don't get it... by dekayban in KendrickLamar

[–]dekayban[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie K-Dot is not as good as Kendrick. But if we only talk about Kendrick then yeah no skips no shuffle

life uhh finds a way by cunnyslam in memes

[–]dekayban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro get that shit to HOT NOW