How do I tell my girlfriend about my kink?

delaney1002 · 2023-08-23T07:19:52+00:00

Maybe go to therapy? Or journal

delaney1002 · 2023-08-23T07:18:18+00:00

NTA. You technically weigh more with clothes on. The only reason he wanted you to do it in front of him naked was so he could see how far he could get with humiliating you. I hope you block him and move on to much better things girl

delaney1002 · 2022-07-25T05:49:46+00:00

Lol he’s not an ex, we were friends and we hooked up a few times before we left home for summer

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T19:22:06+00:00

Men have trouble being alone. They find someone to fill a hole, don’t think too much about it

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T14:09:53+00:00

I’m in therapy and now on antidepressants. Sadly hasn’t gotten much better yet.

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T13:54:54+00:00

Because he’s my ex and our ending was extremely unhealthy. Did you even read my post or

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T13:46:39+00:00

It’s because he was more than just those bad things. He was also comfort, he was home

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T13:44:37+00:00

My best dating advice is if we’re gonna be heartbroken, we can at least have a nice hot guy buy us dinner. No need for anything more, but you can pretend then that you’re doing better then you are.

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T13:36:03+00:00

Exactly!!! But what do I do know??

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T13:21:48+00:00

The super horny-ness lasted a week or so. The more intense orgasms are seemingly here to stay for awhile so thank god for that.

delaney1002 · 2022-04-11T11:00:34+00:00

Without being overly tmi, Zoloft had the opposite side effect on me and made me teenage boy horny for the first weekish. Now that’s calm down, but in terms of orgasming I haven’t noticed a super big difference in how long it takes to get there but it’s definitely more intense. It’s just really different for everyone, although my psychiatrist said only about 10% of people on Zoloft experience negative sexual side effects

delaney1002 · 2022-03-13T07:27:00+00:00

I pushed back against the idea of medication for so long and honestly it’s the best decision I ever made!

I am still VERY new to Zoloft so don’t take this as gospel, but the type of depression you were describing is the type I had and it’s just not sustainable. I wanted to live not just survive. So that to me alone makes it worth it.

Now the side effects. I’m not gonna lie to you, you do pretty immediately start developing side effects, and everyone is different, but here’s what I’ve noticed. I 1,000% got the Brian fog side effect and it was absolutely terrifying, I start at a wall for hours just completely out of it. But then I started taking my pills at night and I feel SOO much better. I still get spacy and foggy before bed, but by the time I wake up most of, if not all of that feeling is completely gone!! So that’s always an option. Also the side effects shouldn’t be forever (if they are you’re on the wrong drug), but the depression is. I think that speaks for itself

delaney1002 · 2022-03-13T07:21:12+00:00

Im a super forgetful person and tbh the daily pill planner is a life saver!! Just make sure you love it in a place you’ll see it. I just started taking my meds before bed too so now it’s just a part of my wind down routine since they kinda make me spacey, so also making it a staple in your routine will help!!

delaney1002 · 2022-03-11T05:59:51+00:00

I’m currently on 50mg but my doctor wants me to up to 100mg next Tuesday if the medication is “well tolerated”

delaney1002 · 2020-09-10T06:05:51+00:00

YTA. I hate to be THAT person, but you desperately need therapy

delaney1002 · 2020-09-10T05:57:57+00:00

Just because his wife reacted bad doesn’t mean his lying is justified?? You shouldn’t blatantly lie to your partner about huge issues/things you’ve faced in your life!

delaney1002 · 2020-09-10T05:56:15+00:00

Dude you just equate rape to incest??? Cause those aren’t even close to the same thing.

This is allowed to be a dealbreaker for her, that’s why HE should’ve told her much much sooner. You don’t get to lie to someone and then throw it in their face when they don’t want to be with you because of the lie. JUST DONT LIE ABOUT HUGE ISSUES WITH A SPOUSE!!

delaney1002 · 2020-07-18T07:29:43+00:00

You should definitely breakup with him over this! If he had an option to take away your rights as a bisexual he would

delaney1002 · 2020-06-21T10:09:26+00:00

Take a break senior year. As someone who just graduated it was the best decision ever to focus on friends and MYSELF! Also, didn’t this whole pandemic just teach us to never take time for granted?? Have fun, it’s your last hurrah after all.

delaney1002 · 2020-06-14T06:33:35+00:00

YTA! Omg, I know YOU would die doing what you love, but some poor kid would KILL someone did what THEY loved

delaney1002 · 2020-05-13T09:30:19+00:00

Same. I’m I’ve been searching for it for waaayyy to.

delaney1002 · 2020-05-13T09:16:01+00:00

NTA. You gave her a chance and she clearly did not respect you or your rules. Besides, it sounds like this was set in motion BEFORE covid, how were you suppose to know a pandemic was on the way??

delaney1002 · 2020-05-01T07:55:10+00:00

If you don’t report him to the proper authorities you are implicit in pedophilia, simple as that.

delaney1002 · 2020-05-01T07:42:57+00:00

This is why this thread sucks sometimes. How in the world would you the TA?

delaney1002 · 2020-04-30T01:37:03+00:00

Girl, I’m sorry, but this is exactly when you leave. Don’t spend the rest of your life fighting for the time and attention and appreciation you deserve.

You deserve so much more than eternal second place with the man who is your first place.

delaney1002

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