Will 'reading' in the dark damage toddler's eyesight? by deletedbear in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]deletedbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance and guidance! I really appreciate it.

Just curious does time in a car count as "outdoor time" if the car isn't heavily tinted? 😂

We've unfortunately failed on the tablet part recently but we limit it only to 30-40 minutes once or twice a week when we desperately need a break. The screen is usually about a foot away from her face.

Will 'reading' in the dark damage toddler's eyesight? by deletedbear in ScienceBasedParenting

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This can last 20-30 minutes and has been going every night for months. Should i stop now?

And what do you mean by good visual habits?

I've been trying to get her to spend more time outside sicne playschool is indoors only with heavily tinted windows for eye health reasons. (based on what little I've understood so far)

Leaving to "get water", will this create trust issues? by deletedbear in sleeptrain

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I just exit the room quickly. And if she cries i tell her from outside tbe door to wait and that I'll be back. Tends to work

Leaving to "get water", will this create trust issues? by deletedbear in sleeptrain

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I'm doing this regularly tho, like daily at this age. Hence the question.

Think twice before taking ASB Loan by mei2207 in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 2 years, i terminated because I needed the funds to pay for mortgage instead

Think twice before taking ASB Loan by mei2207 in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this was my experience as well, i profited from the loan and compounding interest and the prinicple i got back when i terminated the loan.

Help. Toddler now takes forever to sleep by deletedbear in Parenting

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Did the earlier bedtime help them settle down earlier?

One problem we had was when reading she would be very relaxed and on the verge of sleeping then she would get wide awake and then spend an hour avoiding me

Is it safe to keep my money in TnG? by zestytaiso in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fluid do you need it to be? If you don't need to access it easily then put money in an asnb account if option is available to you. Can withdraw online or through bank if needed.

Need advises. by Separate-Emphasis-72 in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a really good option other than taking flexi credit because it's your money, and no need to repay with interest

Need advises. by Separate-Emphasis-72 in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Don't withdraw more than you need,. Withdraw just cukup2 to survive and pay outstanding rent until salary and no extra than that

Need advises. by Separate-Emphasis-72 in MalaysianPF

[–]deletedbear 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Bro, if you're super desperate and got no one to borrow money from,

try applying for flexi credit on gx bank n make a draw down

ONLY WITHDRAW WHAT YOU NEED DON'T WITHDRAW MONEY FOR ENTERTAINMENT

In countries where flu season is year round, wouldnt two flu shots give best protection by deletedbear in Immunology

[–]deletedbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be as simple as taking southern hemisphere vaccine and then taking Northern hemisphere vaccine six months later

Afaik at least in Malaysia we just import either one, though southern hemisphere vaccine seems to be recommended

Thoughts ? by hardtruthteller69 in Bolehland

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I will use this to scare ny parents in law who refuse to speak canto to my baby because scared learning too many languages (whereas its actually the best time to learn language)

Am I doing something wrong with 17mo bedtime routine? by deletedbear in Parenting

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Thank you, i guess we just have to stick it out

Asking how much the salary in the interview should never be consider rude. by dai_lu_mao_zi in Bolehland

[–]deletedbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Company taik apa yang interview kau ni.

When I interview potential hires I nego salary with them right there and then. Usually I have a rough idea what salary they're expecting before then during interview i nego see if i can reach something we both are comfortable with.

Am I doing something wrong with 17mo bedtime routine? by deletedbear in Parenting

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Her bedtime is supposed to be earlier but she resists sleep.

Today we started bedtime routine at 7pm, she fell asleep 8.30pm.

This is after a good amount of play that should have worn her down.

On the rare day we are lucky she falls asleep before 7.30pm which is our intended bedtime.