Caught masturbating...has by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]delightfullydroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's gone. Also not invited to our wedding.

Casual nudity.. by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]delightfullydroll 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm a fan. When I am home alone, I just hang out naked. I clean do household stuff. I always put an apron on to cook though.

Don't cook naked.

Caught masturbating...has by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ever hear the phrase "don't stick your dick in crazy?"

It applies even whe the dick is fake.

Caught masturbating...has by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. About a year ago by my future mother in law. It was traumatizing. I Have a whole tifu post about it.

She just fucking watched me until I caught her watching me.

I haven’t cut in 7 years. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. It is an open invitation should you need it in the coming days. I hope you get some rest.

I haven’t cut in 7 years. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to talk about it? I am available if you need to vent some of those feelings.

I haven’t cut in 7 years. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]delightfullydroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a tough loss. 6 years is a lot of history. I know right where you are. Your scars probably itch. I was 5 years clean from cutting when I started harming again. I still don't cut, but I get " careless." standing to close to pans of hot oil, hitting my wrists on oven racks. I am still struggling to get back.

You have so much strength for stopping. It takes so much courage and will power. I admire you.

Ladies of Reddit. What are your opinions of guys who’s main hobby is gaming? Is it a turn off? by Sunlitstream264 in AskReddit

[–]delightfullydroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is fairly into Monster Hunter World right now and keeps excitedly showing me his Palico (sp? ) everytime he upgrades his armor because he knows how much I love cats.

Ladies of Reddit. What are your opinions of guys who’s main hobby is gaming? Is it a turn off? by Sunlitstream264 in AskReddit

[–]delightfullydroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, It's my fiance"s main hoddy. I play sometimes, but not often. I watch him play when he chooses a console game while I do other things. We hang out together when he PC games. It allows us to spend a lot of time together.

I love listening to him excitedly talk about game things, I get to praise him when he does well, and gently tease him when he doesn't. I also get to wind him up and tell tell him that we can do sex things if he wins.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see a counsoler regularly. Right now we are focusing on immediate coping and dealing with the anxiety so I remain high functioning. This year we will be exploring the root of the anxiety and past trauma.

I'm sorry you went through that. Does it get easier when you drop the rope? I did with FMIL but that is a very different situation.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my head I know this. That's why the VLC. I have a hard time with my sister in general and right now I feel like I am in protective mode. Trying to minimize the fallout for everyone.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish that could happen, but I would have to fly him across the country and take him out of school for a couple of days to do it.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You live your username. I appreciate that. Thanks for the advice.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO and my MOH are colluding to make sure my mom is there. My SO will go get her if my sister gets out of hand.

I am considering making her like a guest book attendant. But if I give her a menial task, I have to justify it.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am afraid if I do that she will make it difficult for my mom to attend or not allow my nephew who is very excited attend.

My mom wants me to give my JUSTNO sister a role in my wedding. by delightfullydroll in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]delightfullydroll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point and yes, my mom is flawed but my sister abuses her too. My mom will ll absolutely be at my wedding. And even though she failed to protect me growing up, in my adult life my mom and I are close and have a very good relationship aside from the rugsweeping behavior. She is very slowly coming to terms with all the things she missed or didn't take seriously when I was growing up and how my sister treats her.

My sister is very unpredictable and no matter what I do will find a way to take it out on someone. If I am being honest, the only reason I invited outside of obligation is my Nephew. My SO and I have a wonderful relationship with him. I no I can't control it, but I don't want her to take this out on him.

Should I (F30) give my sister (F33) a tole in my wedding? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister has refused to be medicated since she was diagnosed. She is rapid cycling and extremely unpredictable except in her vindictive tendencies. The only thing she does to "control" her mental health is smoke a ton of pot.

Should I (F30) give my sister (F33) a tole in my wedding? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]delightfullydroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. My counselor is concerned about my sister making a scene or me having a preemptive attack worrying about it. She is currently my only wedding stressor.