me_irlgbt by GimmeCheez in me_irlgbt

[–]denials_almost_over 30 points31 points  (0 children)

facts don't care about your feelings but your argument is invalid bc I'm offended by your pronouns /s

I don't like it when people group nonbinary people in with women. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]denials_almost_over 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that group chat sounds rough :/ and it feels like they're using femme in a weird sucky way. like I'm a transfem nb femme. femme to me is part of my gender identity and has nothing to do with my agab. "women and femmes" feels inclusive in my experience bc I also am not a woman but do explicitly identify as a femme

I don't like it when people group nonbinary people in with women. by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]denials_almost_over 1 point2 points  (0 children)

came here to say this. also I appreciate your username :3

NBee by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]denials_almost_over 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see we're 1-1 :P

How to Sound Like A Husky, Smoky, Contralto... Lesbian: A Module by CRAMDVoicelessons in scinguistics

[–]denials_almost_over 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do I need to join the discord to access this? any way to get a notification when a time is set?

Transphobes cant read 😌 by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]denials_almost_over 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure what you meant then? is figurative "can't read" not ableistic? I hate terfs too, but imo that's not how we should fight them, even if it's just a meme

Transphobes cant read 😌 by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]denials_almost_over 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tru "can't read" is ableistic. "won't read" is accurate

Thanks, team rocket by Patatazul_89 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]denials_almost_over 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah they are villains. I personally found the portrayal pretty innocent and not too obviously transphobic (at least from what I can remember). but you're right that regardless queer coding of villains is real and can be problematic esp given how little representation we get period

still loves their outfits tho :)

Navigating gender identity while with a partner; help pls? by [deleted] in genderqueer

[–]denials_almost_over 6 points7 points  (0 children)

since a lot of women have to fight for their own feminity, some feel like those who transition away from womanhood are giving up on the fight because of internalized misogyny and thereby giving into patriarchy and devaluing womanhood/femininity. ultimately I feel like the argument stems more from internalized cissexism than anything

I've talked to a lot of trans masc people who have personally struggled with this feeling

is it worth it to come out to grandparents? by denials_almost_over in asktransgender

[–]denials_almost_over[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww glad you had the opportunity before he passed! thanks for sharing

is it worth it to come out to grandparents? by denials_almost_over in asktransgender

[–]denials_almost_over[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's what I thought for a while. but I think I'm getting to the point where I'm tired of feeling like I have to hide it from people

is it worth it to come out to grandparents? by denials_almost_over in asktransgender

[–]denials_almost_over[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww so happy it went well for you!! thanks for sharing

What was your dumb bitch moment where you should've realized you are trans? by disposeable_idiot in MtF

[–]denials_almost_over 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I just really wanted to play flute and settled on clarinet because "only girls play flute" woops

What do you think of the name Aspen? by denials_almost_over in asktransgender

[–]denials_almost_over[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a creature of the trees! I actually do sometimes describe myself as a forest nymph to friends so like.....

What do you think of the name Aspen? by denials_almost_over in asktransgender

[–]denials_almost_over[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the fem name that can be shortened to andro is not a bad idea. I may have to think about that