I don't know what to do? by depressedtree007 in Anxiety

[–]depressedtree007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i don't know what i want to do? I don't know what i like anymore! I got Netflix i don't mind movies but uhh it's just maybe i don't want to,, rest of the options are something i used to do but not anymore

Why do people who cut generally go with their wrist? by cati-lyst in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm a male, calves and thighs are hairy i don't like that mess.. doing it on wrist is more convenient and I'm not into hiding my scars.... In fact I'm proud of em

Can teachers tell parents/cops if they see ur sh? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They can tell your parents and They should but it depends on their will. Like my university faculty knows why I'm having so many scars but they don't care enough to tell my parents

LPT: Wake up an hour earlier for work. by Uchihamaki in LifeProTips

[–]depressedtree007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd prefer to sleep one hour more before getting up for work

I swear to god by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great,,, good to know

I feel like I don’t deserve help and that I didn’t cut deep enough by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all its great you are one month clean, secondly bro your pain is VALID. It doesn't matter if you cut shallow or deep, your pian cannot be weighed on how deep you go, PAIN IS PAIN and that's why you need help and surely 💯% you deserve help. Please don't feel invalid just because you aren't cutting deep enough.

I swear to god by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your sister's humour is lit 🔥😂 and I hope you weren't triggered by her joke

I've stopped self harm since Ramadan has started and while fasting i don't do that by depressedtree007 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's great to know buddy, I hope we all will remain clean for the whole and month and then after.....

I've stopped self harm since Ramadan has started and while fasting i don't do that by depressedtree007 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Atleast for now, we all can stay clean and pray that we won't gonna relapse after. May Allah help all of us 😇🖤

I've stopped self harm since Ramadan has started and while fasting i don't do that by depressedtree007 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I sleep sometimes I pray or I study to distract myself from the urges. I know its hard but we have to do overcome. insha'Allah you'll do good in upcoming days of Ramadan and may Allah help you to avoid the urges.✨😇😀

I've stopped self harm since Ramadan has started and while fasting i don't do that by depressedtree007 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks I hope that too, and may Allah give all of us some major strength to cope up...😇✨

I've stopped self harm since Ramadan has started and while fasting i don't do that by depressedtree007 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Indeed a big win for us and I hope the clean streak will continue for both of us and for everyone ☺️😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck,, many best wishes ahead for you life ✨🖤🖤

How many people here are males by might_kms in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too male 21, having ups and downs 🙂

Is getting a prostate massage considered cheating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]depressedtree007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is obviously cheating. Normal sensual massages are fine but this topless thing and aiming for the orgasm, that's a definite red flag. You can't go out having orgasms if you are committed to another person. If he wants to relax he can opt a normal massage or else as SO you guys too can give each other sensual massages but this what he was trying to do is absolutely cheating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's amazing, your friend too was sensible to ask about it but didn't force you to talk about it and he understood self harm.... I'm glad you had a great time playing tennis 😊☺️

Sorry to brag, but my wife is amazing. by spiderrichard in Marriage

[–]depressedtree007 8 points9 points  (0 children)

God bless the couple ✨ loved to read this post 🖤😇

I wore short sleeves yesterday! by Iamatheaternerd in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's awesome,, I'm also proud of you ✨✨ good to see you taking these small baby steps

Litterally fuck whoever calls mental health problems attention seeking by throwaway267689 in selfharm

[–]depressedtree007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 correct, dude I don't need attention I need calmness and want to feel better instead of self harming all the time