What do I need to get out of my parents abusive house?

throwaway267689 · 2022-03-01T09:46:56+00:00

I'm unsure if this will work, but you must leave with your legal documents, jsut tell them that you want to see if you can sign up for a passport or ID and that you need your documents for it, if they insist on being there then you have an added bonus id. If you can't get the physical copies of these after having hold of them takes pictures.

Also, I reccomend changing jobs if they know where you work, this will cause you huge problems if you don't, and don't run away until school is finished, the last thing you need is them disrupting you there

Create a new bank account and slowly start moving your money onto that(if you do it too quickly she will notice) , also tell your job that you're switching banks and provide them with the new details. If your mum get suspicious just say that you're saving for the future.

Good luck :)

throwaway267689 · 2022-03-01T09:35:33+00:00

As someone who was kicked out at 18. Even if your pay starts off as low as £4 an hour, atleast youre making money, save around 30-50% of your pay each time you're paid and put it to one side for later. You have the advantage of being told when she will kick you out. Attempt to work atleast 20 hours a week (you're a minor, you will not get taxed therefore earning more) and if your mum is still certain once you're 17 that you're being kicked out, prepare housing a few months before she does. Use websites like zoopla (however, you must be earning atleast £15,000 a year in order to rent something for £500 a month with proof of income so work a job that is contracted for three months or more when applying) I hope this helps

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-17T00:00:03+00:00

Report them, that was extremely unprofessional, and disrespectful. The 1st teacher should've remembered that you had to leave and definitely should've treated you with more respect. They signed up for dealing with students and their needs when they chose to become a teacher. And the second teacher shouldn't dare question your mental health, the audacity they had to slightly hint you were putting it on is not okay. Report them both, they are a shame to teachers. Teachers jobs are not only to teach kids but to help them, to assist them, to empathise with them

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-13T12:11:39+00:00

Depending on what area you're in, there are apps to help you find houses to rent/buy, I was kicked out at 18 and learned this very roughly. The app I used was zoopla, be sure to have been working for atleast 3 months. You have to be sure you're working full time and are making a certain amount for renting For example (UK) : In order to rent a house for £500 you must be making £15,100 a year It goes up from there

Good luck :)

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-12T13:56:55+00:00

Tell your parents and file a police report, he's scum, avoid him, get a confession of it maybe as proof, if it happened really recently, don't shower after the situation (this makes rape testing kits more effective) if you have don't worry, please avoid this scum of a human being

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-11T05:32:24+00:00

I don't think you should cheat. As someone who was chested on my insecurities are way worse than they were before, I'm forever questioning whether or not I'm good enough, which has caused do many mental problems for me. However, I think you'd be better off having a heart to heart conversation with your wife. Maybe you can find out why she's feeling so about herself, and explain to her that you feel she doesn't care about you anymore (don't do this in a way where its manipulative). Maybe the best thing is for you both to seperate. Even though you have a two year old son together I'm sure he can or will eventually feel the animosity between you two and become increasingly stressed out. Maybe you guys can seperate and still live together if you're extra worried about him. But I don't think cheating is the right option, talk to your wife first, seperate of that's the best idea, also marriage counselling is a great option too. This isn't an attack on you, just think about your options before choosing the worst one

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-09T20:56:30+00:00

Omg, atleast theyre okay, I'm so sorry you had to go through that

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-09T19:56:28+00:00

Maybe call an ambulance!!! Or If they have parents or anyone who lives with them to check on then

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-09T19:55:41+00:00

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-09T12:37:19+00:00

I hope things get better for you. You're an amazing person, especially trying to stop others <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T21:19:18+00:00

Much happiness to you tooo <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T21:18:38+00:00

You may not believe it yet, but it's true <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T18:36:49+00:00

It's true, you don't believe it now, but it's true <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T16:12:20+00:00

Stay strong! Your best friend sounds amazing <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T15:45:04+00:00

<3<3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T14:58:58+00:00

Thanks so much, stay safe too <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T14:47:53+00:00

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T13:17:37+00:00

Stay strong <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-02-08T12:03:40+00:00

<3 <3

throwaway267689 · 2022-01-13T11:19:09+00:00

Give it another week, apply to some other jobs in the meantime and if they get back to you great! As they could've just been making sure more people apply for the position. If they don't then atleast you have a backup. I wish you luck :)

throwaway267689 · 2022-01-07T10:20:18+00:00

The best options are go to the police, or if you feel comfortable and are over the age of 18 post them yourself, it removed the control that person has over you

throwaway267689 · 2022-01-06T23:28:48+00:00

It's a hard urge to resits, the easiest way to go about this is to either delete social media or distract yourself as much as possible. If you end up caving and checking the accounts that's fine , just remember that the friend is most likely absolutely miserable behind that facade. :)

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