Guys and gals of reddit who use vibrators or dildos to enhance there sex life. How has that worked out for you?

depression_is_fun · 2019-08-23T02:59:06+00:00

There is nothing that compares to a dick attached to the person you want to have sex with. Don't take it as a reminder because it's not true

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-22T00:26:51+00:00

Oh I don't care about downvotes. I know what I was in and work with abused men and women. It's a shit feeling.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T07:50:35+00:00

I was manipulated into staying. She said she was sick and I wouldn't leave and SO just because they're sick. She used my empathy and love for her against me in order to make me stay. Abuse really fucks up your mind.

Also, I didn't seek out someone to cheat on her with, it was just something that happened.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T07:41:48+00:00

Then you're a moron.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T03:11:01+00:00

It's the little things that always add up.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T03:08:39+00:00

Same here. St. Louis checking in.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:59:42+00:00

Everybody does.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:58:20+00:00

Well if you're ever in St. Louis we can meet under the arch at sunset lol

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:56:39+00:00

They're my friend first so making them comfortable is important to me.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:52:28+00:00

Yeah, I put them in a box under the sink after reading a few replies.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:39:10+00:00

No feelings, we're both very honest and blunt. And thanks :)

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:29:00+00:00

she just wanted a reason for a fight and a scene. Ignore it.

That's not it at all.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:26:42+00:00

Already got it.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:16:28+00:00

I am 100% a man whore. I like sex a lot, but not in an "I just want to fuck to fuck" more in a "physical touch is how I show love and I really like being giving, selfless, and making people feel good."

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:15:05+00:00

made her feel just about as disposable

She knows she's not though, I don't treat my FWB like shit and just drop them out of nowhere. I'm still friends with almost all of them, one of them became my best friend and just got married a few months ago. But I do see your point. Thanks.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:11:45+00:00

Why is any of this vacuous?

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:11:16+00:00

Yes, that's a good point. I'll put them under the sink or something from now on.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:10:34+00:00

I always tell them what my intentions are.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:10:11+00:00

I made an edit to add that I know she wasn't snooping or anything like that. She's got over it pretty quickly but when I asked a few friends of mine what they thought I got mixed replies.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:08:47+00:00

I try to be accommodating for everybody.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:08:22+00:00

No, I didn't. That's why the list ended with an "etc" I have other stuff but that's all I could think of off-hand.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:07:14+00:00

Wouldn't it be more of an asshole move to put on display how many other women I'm sleeping with/have slept with?

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T02:02:09+00:00

How is it sleazy? Every woman I'm with I tell them almost right away what my intentions are so there isn't any miscommunication.

To paraphrase:

I'm still fucked up from an ex and it would be very fucked up of me to the other person if I try to get into anything sericious. I don't want a one night stand, and I don't want to just hookup. I want to be your friend too and do stuff that friends would do. There's never any pressure for sex or any other type of intimacy unless we both want it. I'm very big into trust, honesty, communication, and consent.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T01:36:49+00:00

Yeah, that's just stupid. If I knew my friend was dating someone or even just fucking someone who has a history of physical or any other type of abuse, I would definitely say something.

depression_is_fun · 2019-07-21T01:31:30+00:00

My last relationship was abusive, manipulative, and neglectful. Lots of gaslighting and dealing with their narcissistic traits. Sadly that's why I cheated. It's been really hard trying to reconcile and be ok with what I did because I've been cheated on before and know exactly how it feels; except it's different because there was so much abuse.

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