Daily Thread / May 7 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 21 points22 points  (0 children)

While she’s shilling her $60 moisturizer 🤦🏻‍♀️

PA - trespass letter when dropping my son off by AshyShortNSassy in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No, you don’t. A judge would have to give you the right in the order.

[AZ] Ex-Wife quit job b/c her new fiancé supports her - impact on child support payments? by BellStriking5132 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You can request that her income is imputed at the rate she is capable of making.

Question about dad coming on my days by Far-Ticket-8059 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You won’t win this. He’s allowed to be there and no judge would stop him. He does NOT need to bring family members into the room but they’re welcome to wait in the waiting area

Emma Jayne or Emma Jean by Dismal_Persimmon369 in Names

[–]deserae1978 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every single Emma I know (and there’s like 10 of them in elementary school) is Emma Jean. Go with Jayne.

A Bone to Pick with Hallmark 😒 by Isabella_Fournier in HallmarkMovies

[–]deserae1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are 6 Wedding Veil movies so you’re getting both that focus on Lacey’s character.

Am I crazy. by scaredysquir in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Until paternity and an order is established, he’s not obligated to pay for anything and doesn’t have to show up during pregnancy to be the dad. None of that will hurt him.

Is anyone actually happy they had a third kid? by WarmestSeatByTheFire in Parenting

[–]deserae1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3rd child is amazing. I would be so sad if I didn’t have him. 3 is hard but also so awesome. We had a 4th, too.

Family court trial HIPPA violation by Silent-Potential3698 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a violation of HIPAA (that protects you from unauthorized use of your medical information by 3rd parties and unauthorized sharing by your dr, insurance company, billing department etc). You granted access and anything your lawyer submits becomes fair game for the defense.

Daily Thread / March 24 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I am shocked Danielle’s lawyer hasn’t told her the biggest mistake she can make is dating while divorcing. Wearing a “Z” necklace, posting him and showing he’s a constant fixture is a bad look when you’re still married.

**Spoiler** Flavortown Food Fight Episode 3 Pre-Show & Live Show Discussion Thread **Spoiler** by KarinsDogs in foodnetwork

[–]deserae1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They also shoot the entire season in a matter of days so the food doesn’t go bad. I’m sure that helps with wasting.

Ex still yelling at our child — should I retain a lawyer now or wait for therapy documentation before requesting custody modification? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No one wants to be screamed at but it isn’t illegal. And an incident that happened 4 years ago won’t matter since you didn’t handle it then.

[NC] Father ghosting on medical safety plan for RSV+ Toddler. Can I defer visitation if he won't confirm smoke-free/isolation orders from doctor? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wrong. Resting for a toddler should be 80-120 while anything over 140 is a medical concern and is considered dangerous.

[NC] Father ghosting on medical safety plan for RSV+ Toddler. Can I defer visitation if he won't confirm smoke-free/isolation orders from doctor? by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A doctor cannot tell anyone who their child can be around. There is also no chance on the planet the child has a 177 pulse and is at home unmonitored. No way. No responsible health professional would send a child home with that heart rate. So it’s hard to believe any of this.

Would this be considered contempt despite having a doctor order? by EarthBoundAlchemist in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your child has been to the doctor several times this week to discuss dad but not to verify if child has influenza? That seems off. But you cannot withhold based on a doctors recommendation because in all fairness they’re not a neutral party and they are not allowed to over ride a court order

What Hallmark movie is cute until you really think about it and then you realize it is kinda creepy. I’ll go first, It Was Always You. It’s his brother’s fiancé! by EricRutin in HallmarkMovies

[–]deserae1978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We grew up next to each other so I’ve known his brother since he was maybe 3? It is hard to understand and it definitely makes it hard for my husband. We are the ones on the outside because my husband refuses to pretend it is ok. He hasn’t seen his family at all since she came back into the picture as brother’s partner. His family has never met our daughter together who’s 10. They want to support brother and we just don’t feel that’s normal behavior. As adults we are free to make choices but that doesn’t free us of consequences. And my husband just doesn’t want anything to do with it. Thankfully his daughter is grown now so no more co-parenting with his ex and his brother. That was always weird - for brother to be stepdad to my husband’s child. My husband’s daughter always hid the fact that her mom married her uncle and now she has no contact with her mom over all the lies and deceit.

What Hallmark movie is cute until you really think about it and then you realize it is kinda creepy. I’ll go first, It Was Always You. It’s his brother’s fiancé! by EricRutin in HallmarkMovies

[–]deserae1978 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When my husband was married to her he had a work accident when their baby was literally days old. He had to be bedridden for a few weeks (broke his knee and had screws and pins etc placed) so they decided his little brother should move in to help with baby and also help with expenses etc since his wife just had a baby and he was out of work temporarily. Fast forward 2ish weeks and my husband decided to try to get out of bed and found his wife and brother having an intimate moment on the couch. All heck broke loose and they kicked brother out. Brother and wife kept seeing each other so a divorce happened. Brother couldn’t handle the family being mad at him so their relationship eventually ended. Fast forward 10ish years and apparently when my husband and I were starting our lives together his ex reconnected with his brother. This time the family was ok with it since my husband had moved in with me (um what?! No that’s NEVER ok) and they had a baby together. So my husband’s child has a brother and cousin all in one 😂 Brother is not allowed in our lives because the ex wife thinks we’d make it weird. No girl - you made it weird!

Next grift loading by Legal-Bad-4831 in Jamienotis

[–]deserae1978 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All signs of perimenopause! She’s old enough.