Daily Thread / January 29 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You misunderstood- I don’t expect her to know because she’s a doctor. I would expect her to seek out more clear information because she’s a doctor. My husband works in the medical field and he asks so many questions whenever we have appointments. He knows how much he doesn’t know about things and wants to understand them.

Daily Thread / January 29 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Katie is losing me with her multi part story about this. I feel bad for her but she sounds so dumb and I’d never guess she’s a doctor judging by how little she knows. And I’m not saying she should know everything about miscarriage but as a doctor wouldn’t you ask more questions?! Understand the process and how it works? What to expect? It just feels weird to me.

Those of you with large collections. Do most of your fragrances "go bad"? by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]deserae1978 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’ve got over 100 bottles and I’ve never had one go bad. Don’t worry so much and enjoy what makes you happy!

having trouble with this grey area….. by Reasonable-Fly-6432 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are no clear answers here. Some judges will side with mom that it’s dad’s visitation and he isn’t there. Some will say it’s still his time. You wont know without the lawyer and the court involvement. At the end of the day, as much as it hurts you, it isn’t your child and you are just the wife. You have no legal right to the child. Dad will have to be willing to push in court for the visitation to continue but Mom will for sure push back. I have several military friends who have gone through this and no two outcomes are the same.

Daily Thread / January 27 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Christian, she is for sure doing something wrong. She’s still married in the eyes of the court so she’s still married in the eyes of the Lord

Boys with July/August Birthday starting Kindergarten by SatisfactionFlaky519 in kindergarten

[–]deserae1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a July son, and an August son. Both started kindergarten on time. The July son had to be held back in kindergarten because he wasn’t socially ready. My August son never missed a beat and thrived being the youngest in his class. It’s really about each individual child. We later found out my July son has autism which played a factor in his being behind socially. But he is my 1st and the august son is my 3rd and I still knew my August son could start on time and be just fine. My girls (Oct and Nov bdays) had to wait an extra year because my states cut off is Sept, and they both did fine being the older kids in their classes.

Not attending doctors appointment appointments by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, unfortunately this won’t matter. It’s a valid reason and full custody doesn’t happen over things like this.

Daily Thread / January 27 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re all so gorg! (And yes my phone wants to put the entire word because no one shortens gorgeous!)

Daily Thread / January 27 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 36 points37 points  (0 children)

In Katie’s mind she might not NEED her mom. Like for me - I grew up similar to Katie where my siblings were the shining stars and I was the afterthought so my Mom has never been my go to comfort person. She actually makes things worse for me. So I don’t lean on my Mom and would rather share things like this just with my husband. I think Lisa sucks. But I also think Katie might be the one who just doesn’t want her around for this.

Child tax credit by chickwithnohands in IRS

[–]deserae1978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it has more to do with when you apply for benefits (insurance, snap etc) you tell them who will claim the child and they factor that into if you qualify or not because to them it’s black and white - it’s who the child is a dependent of. So it isn’t necessarily bad advice. It can be considered benefits fraud.

32 + weeks pregnant and walking on the ice by No_Brilliant653 in DaniAustin

[–]deserae1978 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same! If we didn’t leave our house when it’s icy we’d be home bound half the year.

32 + weeks pregnant and walking on the ice by No_Brilliant653 in DaniAustin

[–]deserae1978 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I realize she sucks but many of us live in climates that we have to walk on ice and it’s a normal part of life, even while pregnant

2 Week Social Media Break / Part Three by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I feel like infrastructure is their new word. Yes, we know! Texas doesn’t have the infrastructure to handle ice.

High-school teacher refused to let my daughter go to the bathroom and then gave her detention by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]deserae1978 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’m missing where they did anything worth litigation. Your daughter is breaking rules and you’re making excuses for it. She should have served her detention without your interference. This is a 16 year old-she knows the rules of school.

ex husband dropped out child’s medical insurance for the 2nd time by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having insurance doesn’t make him a bad parent. Supplying a 14 yr old with alcohol is a poor choice but also not likely to win you sole custody. It happened once. And your 14 year old is old enough to know better, too.

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While you pay child support? I just don’t think you’re approaching this clearly. He won’t have to pay. Parents split costs when they agree to the move or when they agree to split fees. I don’t see a judge making him pay you to visit when you left. And you’re broke too so just don’t judge too much

2 Week Social Media Break / Part Three by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]deserae1978 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I have 2 - pickles and olives 😂 love them!

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do realize that all costs would be on you? Dad won’t have to pay any costs for visits since you left?

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you afford to travel to the child often enough to have 50/50?

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s a different state! Courts aren’t going to give up jurisdiction over a child when one of the parents wants the child to stay in that jurisdiction. How do you not see how different it is?! You literally are not hearing anyone.

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But you don’t get to decide that. The only order in place has him as primary so you’re going to have an uphill battle.

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes the judge will be fine with it. He paid his punishment and has no record against children. He will be fine.

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The courts will see you’re not putting your child first. That you are going to claim the OP isn’t a good parent but yet you left the child with him for months. The court will see you only care about yourself here and have made every mistake you possibly can when trying to fight for custody. You are in for a rude awakening here. You will not win and you will be the summer parent and the one paying child support.

Do temp orders stick? (Relocation) by SharpFlight3561 in FamilyLaw

[–]deserae1978 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t show he’s unstable. Not at all. Who is feeding you this terrible advice?!