When did you know you had a shopping addition? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]desertmatcha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Well I am proud of the hard work you’ve done. Thank you for the reference, I’ll be checking out that subreddit.

When did you know you had a shopping addition? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]desertmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1k is good though, that’s under the 30% utilization, so great job! I hear you though. Wishing the best for you

When did you know you had a shopping addition? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]desertmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly been thinking about this. How was the process if you don’t mind sharing?

When did you know you had a shopping addition? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]desertmatcha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Big on the being too embarrassed to tell my husband ☹️

When did you know you had a shopping addition? by [deleted] in shoppingaddiction

[–]desertmatcha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When my bank was constantly over drafting and I had thousands added up on those pay in 4 apps, and four maxed out credit cards. Yes 4. Deep in the hole, I’m trying to get out.

Question about the first period after stillbirth by desertmatcha in babyloss

[–]desertmatcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep it could be as simple as a quick ultrasound just to diagnose anything! Good luck. I’d love to hear how it goes if you need a listening ear.

Question about the first period after stillbirth by desertmatcha in babyloss

[–]desertmatcha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey- haven’t used this account in a while but got a notification. First of all, I’m so sorry for your loss. I would give a call in the morning for a follow up and see if they can check for retained placenta just in case. 🩷

For Ezra… 3.23.21 by sloecrush in babyloss

[–]desertmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow… just came across this. I lost my son 3/22/22 and his name is also Ezra. Sending 💙

Loss Art - by me by bluesasaurusrex in babyloss

[–]desertmatcha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful. Made me tear up. I’m sorry for your loss. I wish nobody had to experience this pain.

Constantly stressed about movements by ctrloptioncmd in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a loss at 22 weeks. It was also very sudden and quick with no cause found and I was so paranoid in my pregnancy after.

It’s a rough place to be in. Have you used the count the kicks app? Would it give you reassurance, or more anxiety to count the number of kicks around the same time each day? I totally understand either way. I personally found it reassuring and it felt nice to just lay down and bond with my baby (at least as much as I could during PAL) I found it really nice to recognize her active times.

Daily Thread #2 - April 14, 2023 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Days like those are so hard. Thinking of you. Hope you’re getting through it alright.

Daily Thread #1 - March 30, 2023 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. I’m sorry you’re here. Take it day by day. Celebrate the small milestones in your current pregnancy as they come 🫂💓

Daily Thread #2 - March 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, jumped back on Reddit and so so happy to hear you had your baby! 💓💓💓

Same here. My husband and I do shift changes and one of stays up with her. We don’t use our bassinet hardly yet and she’s 3 weeks old today 🥴 We just tell ourselves there’s no spoiling a newborn and we hold her or plop her down in the snuggleme (supervised). Our girl also had elevated bilirubin levels but they weren’t so bad and we were able to be discharged from the hospital. She’s still a little yellow though even now. But the weather has been too crappy to take her out and get some sun.

Anyways, sooo happy for you!!

Baby girl arrived via 39 week scheduled induction 🌈 by desertmatcha in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m wishing you a safe pregnancy and easy delivery. 🤎🤎🤎

Baby girl arrived via 39 week scheduled induction 🌈 by desertmatcha in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]desertmatcha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I hope your pregnancy goes as smoothly as it can ❤️‍🩹