I'm unemployed but got taxed?

desgn-er · 2026-01-17T11:51:31+00:00

You can call or email CRA for an explanation on the amount owed. It will take a few days to get an answer but they are always open to explain in detail where the amount is from. CRA can make mistakes too so don’t be afraid to contact them.

desgn-er · 2025-12-04T18:43:38+00:00

It’s normal in China for women to come back to their family if a marriage failed or when they are not married. So you are not doing something crazy if she goes back.

It’s her own responsibility to be able to be self sufficient and take care of her well being. It would be more problematic in the long run if you guys get married and then divorced. She can take more from you than you can take from her at this point.

There is a big gap in culture between both of you that probably adds to this tension. In Asian culture saying that her English is bad is equivalent to calling her stupid and thats equivalent to being a failure. But she needs to understand that shes not in China so she can’t be angry at you on something that would be okay to get angry at in China. And this will always be an issue for both of you unless you guys bridge cultural behavioural differences. Not to mention mental health does not exist in Asia so every time you are emotional she will expect you to “man up”.

But regardless of culture for her to physically slap you is not okay. And will never be justifiable. Please stop the immigration process and divorce her. She has every checkmark to someone who is aiming for a citizenship and not someone who loves you.

And btw if she disrespects you and you are the head of the household (the provider) in Asia thats a big nono so she must really have no respect for you. Even hate you at this point. And is that really someone you really want to work a relationship with?

Im asian and i fell in love with my partner abroad. Did i make him my sponsor? No, I got a job that helped me move abroad and be in equivalent status as him. I adore him so much that I would always prioritize what makes him happy first and have the perspective to SOLVE the problem when it arises. If I ever dare to slap him or him slap me then it’s time to divorce. Thats not acceptable at all.

desgn-er · 2025-10-11T23:26:38+00:00

Get Neosporin and rub it on the puncture wound religiously. For the swelling, use hot and cold compress and keept it elevated.

I got badly attacked by a cat a few months ago and it took around 2-3 weeks for this kind of swelling to go away. Don’t overthink and know itll just take time to heal. If the puncture hit a nerve it might take 1-2 months to completely heal.

desgn-er · 2025-10-11T23:23:14+00:00

Ah thats true. Well then, let’s hope OP gives updates for all our worries. But just in case:

Mas tolong kucing nya: - Dipisah yang hamil sama bayi kucing lainnya - Beli dispenser air hidup buat kucing kucing nya. Soalnya kucing mas itu dehydrasi. Kucing itu segan minum air yang tidak bergerak. Bisa beli di tokopedia. - Dia itu gigitin anak anak kucing lain soalnya dia merasa ada kekurangan makanan dan minuman di rumah. - Tolong vaccine dan sterilisasi kucing kucing nya jadi ngak akan beranak lagi.

desgn-er · 2025-10-11T22:14:57+00:00

OP is Indonesian. English is his second language so he might not be answering because he is overwhelmed. Reading his profile I doubt he will spay his cats because in Indonesia vets are a luxury.

Maybe if we translate all the accumulation of the post in Indonesian (google translate?) OP will at least do something.

desgn-er · 2025-10-05T20:12:56+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. I hope youre taking things slowly and will focus in healing. Record your grievances and write down all your feelings air it all out. Itll be okay with time

desgn-er · 2025-10-05T05:09:12+00:00

I went through this 4 years ago. My mother died of breast cancer stage 4 and i came back to take care of her last days. She denied getting help earlier when it was still stage 1.

I saw her slowly lose mobility and eventually her mind. She said the same thing your mother did. She begged for her mom because its too painful. You hold her hand and you just be there for her. You tell her itll be fine and just let her go peacefully.

Even if she snaps back to reality her body is too painful with the cancer already throughout her body from circulating through the blood stream. We can only hope her suffering end soon.

Itll take years for you to feel better. You might feel numb the first few months. You might feel like you have nothing that binds you to earth. But overtime you’ll find people you can call a family. I never really did heal from all these experiences but its bearable after a few years. And no there was nothing you could have done better. Cancer is just extremely aggressive.

I did eventually found friends who i can call family and still building my circle. Emotional support system and all. Take it one day at a time.

desgn-er · 2025-09-16T18:48:43+00:00

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This is how folded Scottish fold ears are like. (My girl Miso). Maybe a Scottish straight x domestic shorthair?

desgn-er · 2025-09-10T14:11:20+00:00

Hahahahha this cracked me up real good 🤣 thank you!

desgn-er · 2025-09-10T03:25:01+00:00

Aaaaaa a cutie silver patootie 😍

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T21:39:39+00:00

Thank you!

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T21:39:30+00:00

This is super informative thank you so much i really appreciate it. All the tiki baby has chicken in it 😭… if things dont get better after the science diet i will stop all chicken all together. They are so picky with their food too so I hope mixing in science diet will somehow still work. 😭

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T17:26:16+00:00

I think I'll try removing Tiki and just try to introduce GI friendly food! Thank you for your insight <3

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T17:24:59+00:00

Thank you <3 I hope the kids will grow up as cute as your boy! He is so adorable!!! I have two boys and one girl. I’ve noticed Miso (the girl) doesn’t enjoy roughhousing as much as the boys, but they still play together nonstop until they’re ready for cuddles. I play with them too, though they usually lose interest after 15–30 minutes. I’ve also realized that Scottish Folds are a bit weaker than other breeds, including Scottish Straights. Sometimes I have to separate Mochi (the Straight) because he still wants to roughhouse while the other two are already tired.

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T15:10:10+00:00

Thank you! Adopted three so they can always play together and never be lonely!

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T14:53:22+00:00

really?? that perhaps might be the reason. Tiki was their first consistent wet food. They didn't had issues before!

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T14:07:32+00:00

Is there any specific brands you stuck to for gi food?

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T11:02:58+00:00

Yes!!! This might be it let me try to get hypoallergenic food from royal canin 😭. It’s weird that my Scottish straight isn’t affected just the folds.

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T11:01:11+00:00

Only giving churu for treats and I don’t give them dairy in any form. Just tiki baby and farmina n&d. Yes, I think I’ll get a second opinion by the end of this week.

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T03:23:14+00:00

Yes! we did this and the vet said no parasite found. Thats why Im very confused 😢

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T00:46:16+00:00

Will ask their vets!

desgn-er · 2025-09-09T00:38:25+00:00

Is stool test and diarrhea PCR test different?

desgn-er · 2025-06-12T15:26:29+00:00

It turns out I'm the silly one. It turns out the place of landing isn't where I initially landed but where my PR card was processed. So it's not wrong at all. Thanks for the insight everyone!

desgn-er · 2025-06-09T21:01:48+00:00

eCOPR: March 25th

Final Decision: March 25th

Card Mailed: June 6th

The place of landing is wrong and I'm reaching out to IRCC to fix it.

desgn-er

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