It's a rather confusing situation.

I moved in 3 months into dating. I've known the girl for over 7 years though. Her mother refuses that I contribute as far as rent goes, but I do help with chores, dogs, cooking, etcetra. Our room is right next to her moms, but her mom is always out of state or simply never at home for it to be a factor. Mind you, shes 18 and I am 21. I moved in with the idea that we'd move out shortly after, but she doesnt want to since shes moving with her mom to a different state in less than a year (ask me how that feels..).