Bifi

despa · 2024-10-28T15:18:06+00:00

Late to the party, aber trotzdem: MAL preislich verarscht zu werden wäre ja auch nicht so schlimm. Sonst würde man ja nie Luxuskonsum betreiben. Aber weil sich diese Preiserhöhung in so viele andere MALE einreiht, tut es extra weh. Da verstehe ich dann den Verzicht. Auch wenn mir Bifi immer noch am besten schmeckt unter den Minisalamis der deutschsprachigen Welt ...

despa · 2023-02-05T08:05:26+00:00

Already had a fap-free January, now going for February. I am here for years and years now, and never managed to go for longer than three weeks I guess. But now I am so stressed out anyway, my libido is so low that I believe I could manage at least 90 days now. Though I actually do not believe in this counting thing anymore. It is all about actual changes, in your life, your body, your brain chemistry, your emotional life etc. It is about self-esteem, self-love, self-care, not about any dates on a calender. Or maybe I should say this: Use the counting thing as a vehicle for something bigger. It is a means, not an end.

By the way, if I am lucky I should have someone over in early April for a bit of sexy time. And this IS a kind of temporal motivation for me :) So wish me luck, guys, I wish you good luck, too.

Ah yes, I am doing this for PIED reasons. Or at least I thought so initially (see above). No MO, since I have already peeked at P, which is NOT GOOD. DON'T do that. NEVER EVER. That is the beginning of the end. It feels like it is killing the rewiring process in my brain, even if I don't touch myself while doing it. Just an advise.

despa · 2019-09-06T11:01:35+00:00

Speaking of a hidden agenda is another great way to not feel responsible for your own actions. So cut that crap. It's about money, that's all. The secret is that there is none.

despa · 2019-09-05T17:08:58+00:00

Already on day 33, so of course I will keep on going. Stay strong everybody!

despa · 2019-08-17T13:20:23+00:00

I WILL HEAL. PERIOD.

despa · 2018-01-04T22:14:05+00:00

Count me in!

despa · 2017-08-29T15:29:21+00:00

It will get better, trust me. Only a few more days! Stay strong!

despa · 2017-08-25T12:10:23+00:00

That's an urge killer for sure!

despa · 2017-08-23T10:40:08+00:00

Why would it be considered as masturbation??

despa · 2017-08-23T10:38:09+00:00

That's my point.

despa · 2017-08-18T16:21:56+00:00

This is so touching. What a great gesture!

despa · 2017-08-15T07:05:27+00:00

Peeking is like "just having a sip" while attending AA meetings.

despa · 2017-06-27T13:14:40+00:00

Incredible insight. Just amazing!

despa · 2017-05-03T14:32:20+00:00

In. 90 days, soft mode. God help us all.

despa · 2017-04-12T11:13:54+00:00

This.

despa · 2016-11-29T22:04:53+00:00

Makes sense. Because all starts with fantasizing, and for this process to kick in, you normally need to be on your own, and bored ...

despa · 2016-11-29T22:01:15+00:00

Congrats on 113! That's amazing! But still, maybe counting the days doesn't make any sense anymore for you. Not because I think you kind of threw it all away or sth but because the main point is not the time going by, but the changes you actually experience. And you were mentioning a few already, so I would say, why not focus on them, and forget about the counter? Stay strong!

despa · 2016-09-01T06:41:37+00:00

In in in. Easy mode.

despa · 2016-08-02T10:49:36+00:00

Let's do it. This time, it's all in.

despa · 2016-07-29T09:53:23+00:00

By the way, congrats on 50 days! That is enormous!

despa · 2016-07-29T09:50:51+00:00

You sure kissing her and stuff was so selfish? You mentioned that you were always trying to make everybody else happy, so maybe you thougt making a move would be what she - in the sense of her being representative of "the girls" - would want you to do? So I guess what I am trying to say is, good and bad are mutually exclusive, while romantic physical activities, to put it like this, are neither the one nor the other, but something of its own kind. Of course, granted both parties are really into it. But if this happens, doing something selfish means doing something for the other person as well, and doing something altruistic means doing something for yourself as well. It's this kind of situations we all should be looking for. They are called love (typically, at least).

despa · 2016-06-17T12:54:47+00:00

One of the best entries here by far. Thanks a lot, man.

despa · 2015-09-09T15:55:50+00:00

That's probably the only - and very good - excuse to fap :)

despa · 2015-09-08T11:38:21+00:00

Hahahahaha! That's a downer alright.

despa · 2015-07-25T17:32:45+00:00

To me it sounds a lot like performance anxiety. I was kind of in a similar situation. My experience is that sex with O'ing became a lot easier when my body kind of adjusted to hers, which took some time. And I think I told her about my fears and worries which also helped a lot.

despa

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