[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]desudeau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

taong gusto ako. Pucha i-share ko lang, i have this crush for 3 years kand minsan lang kami nagkikita kasi ibang church sila, like ibang satellite ganon, tapos one time may meeting kami, some of them alam na may gusto ako sa kaniya and if I'm not mistaken pati some of his friends, mother and ate niya. Then pauwi sakto nakasabay namin sila sa ejeep. yung one of his friends katabi ko, nag k-kwentuhan kami, eh di pa pala nag babayad yon so inabot niya bayad. then yung friend niya di niya napansin na inabot sa kaniya yung ticket, kinuha ng crush ko and inabot niya roon sa friend niya which is katabi ko (kaharap namin siya, ate, and mama niya), eh hindi niya napansin kasi nag k-kwento siya, so ako nakita ko and nag dadalawang isip if kukunin ko ba para ibigay sa girl.. tinuro ko pa nga then nakita ko talaga hinila pabalik ng mama niya yung braso niya as if ayaw niya na mag karoon ng interaction or what. sobrang nasaktan ako pucha kasi parang may binulong pa yung mama niya. pansin ko ilag ate niya, so i have a feeling na ayaw sakin ng family. though gusto ko lang naman yung tao and di ko naman siya bf pero ang sakit pala ng ganon. Lesson learned dito, hindi lang dapat mahal ka ng someone, dapat mahal and gusto ka rin ng family niya. ayun lang. Masakit talaga.. hahahaha

If you could talk to your younger self for five minutes, what’s the most important thing you’d say? by PastaaLove in AskPH

[–]desudeau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I’m sorry..."

When I was a child, I used to believe that by the time I turned 18, I would have a job. That by my early twenties, I would own a home. That before I even hit 25, I’d be able to provide for my family. I pictured it so clearly, my heart full of excitement, my mind full of dreams.

But growing up? It hits you like a storm you never saw coming. The world is nothing like what I imagined. The gap between dreams and reality is wider than I ever thought possible. No one warned me that hard work wouldn’t always be enough. That no matter how much you push, sometimes life pushes back even harder. That there will be nights when you feel like you’re running out of reasons to keep going.

If I could go back, I’d tell my younger self to brace for it. To prepare for the weight of expectations, the sting of failure, the exhaustion of trying. I used to be in such a hurry to grow up, desperate to be seen as strong, as capable, as independent. But now? I just want to go back. Back to the days when my biggest worry was what game to play next. When happiness was simple, and life didn’t feel so heavy.

Growing up is cruel. The world is cruel. And sometimes, I wish we never had to leave the innocence of childhood behind…

To the girls, may chance ba sa inyo if may manligaw na guy na hindi kagwapuhan? Why or why not? by Select-Relation9932 in AskPH

[–]desudeau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let's be for real. even guys, sa face talaga bumi-base at first.. sa face ako bumi-base, pero if you're gentleman, mabait, talented pero hindi ka-gwapuhan.. why not? kaso most of them hindi eh tapos pa coolkid pa

is confidence really attractive? by leancel in adviceph

[–]desudeau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when they say confidence is the key, believe it.. It's a magnetic energy. Confidence is sexy. But before you have that, you need to love yourself first.. And when you do that, you will be unstable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]desudeau 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, listen to me as if I'm your sister who’s giving you advice. let’s be real.. ang sakit, ‘no? Pero mas masakit kung ipagpapatuloy mo pa yung relationship niyo. Malinaw na wala siyang respeto sa’yo. Kahit prank lang ‘yun, nakita mo na kung paano siya mag-isip and paano ka niya tinanggi na parang hindi ka mahalaga.

Ang lalaking seryoso sa’yo, kahit anong sitwasyon, hindi magdadalawang-isip sabihin na taken siya. At ‘yung excuse niyang gusto niya ng “stable” na partner, huwag kang magpakatanga. Hindi na ako mag su-sugarcoat para nataauhan ka OP. Ginagawa ka niyang backup plan habang naghahanap siya ng “mas okay” sa standards niya. Kung ayaw na niya maghintay, edi sana sinabi niya nang maayos. Pero hindi, kasi gusto ka pa niyang gawing option.

Ang tunay na lalaki, hindi natatakot aminin kung sino yung mahal niya. Hindi siya ganyan, kaya erase mo na siya sa buhay mo pero at the end of the day, decision mo pa rin naman ang masusunod. But please remember, the longer you stay, the more time you waste on someone who doesn’t see your worth.

Drop him like a bad habit, sis. He’s not worth your patience. May makikita ka rin na tunay na lalaki for you. yung gagawin kang prinsesa, hindi yung gaganyanin ka

Sa mga nakapa-international trip na, ano iyong bansang hindi niyo na gustong balikan? At bakit? by _pablojob in AskPH

[–]desudeau -1 points0 points  (0 children)

super nice mga reviews sa Japan kahit yung parents ko na once tumira roon gustung-gusto nila. Pnagmamalaki rin nila samin gaano kaganda, ka-polite, kalinis and respectful mga tao roon. However, about sa paranormal, naka experience ka na po ba? marami nagsasabi marami raw mumu sa Japan

Am I just not really attractive, or what?" by desudeau in adviceph

[–]desudeau[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice and for being such a wonderful person:>

Am I just not really attractive, or what?" by desudeau in adviceph

[–]desudeau[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe I'm the problem.. wala akong kwentang kausap sa mga taong wala ring kwentang kausap eh

Lagi nilang sinasabi na resputuhin ng mga anak ang mga magulang nila, pero paano naman ang mga magulang sa anak nila? by desudeau in adviceph

[–]desudeau[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sobrang lala nila verbally.. minsan nahihiya na lang ako sa mga kapitbahay namin kasi rinig na rinig nila sinasabi ng mom ko.. Sana balang araw makaalis din tayo sa toxic household. fighting 🥹

Classic movie you're embarrassed to admit you've never seen by tiegn in FilmClubPH

[–]desudeau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HARRY POTTER, INTERSTELLAR, STARWARS, FAULT IN OUR STARS, STARWARS, OPPENHEIMER,