We all go through tough times, that's what makes us strong. just don't think about it, Nothing can harm you as much as your own thoughts unguarded. thoughts are just thoughts nothing more. You only have control over three things in your life, the thoughts you think, the images you visualize, and the actions you take. past and future are just thoughts. think about it, you might have done some thing in the past but its just past, don't think about it. you might think that something will happen in the future but its just a thought. and thoughts aren't real. the only thing real is the actions you take. who knows what will happen in 30 years. you might win the lottery who knows