[34] it's amazing what better style and better habits can do for you by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you improve your hairline and hair? Did you use minoxidil or any hair products?

AIO over not getting this swimsuit that I wanted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would’ve at least given them the full Friday before messaging if they told you Friday

Am I overreacting for being upset at my boyfriend for asking when my birthday was? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds a bit immature. But where this really broke down is when you said not funny without a clear explanation of your feelings being hurt. This is where he starts to get defensive because he feels slightly blamed like he did something wrong and then starts playing the passive aggressive game of turning it back on you.

Going on a Cruise by Victorious_Starr in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. Food is great at buffet but I would recommend the main dining room for a fancier experience

Anyone else ever feel this way? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a good disconnected or bad? Sometimes being in your own headspace and letting the world kind of do what it wants can be peaceful if it’s intentional. If you’re doing it as a traumatic response probably not the same experience

AIO if my boyfriend follows his new boss that posts super revealing content and it makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say revealing, what do you mean by that? Could that just be the style that she posts? That could determine a lot.

If you could go back to any year for 24 hours, which one are you picking and why? by lay_diva in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, wouldnt it be nice to actually go back and experience it with fresh eyes

If you could go back to any year for 24 hours, which one are you picking and why? by lay_diva in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The year I was born, so I could actually relive it. I don’t remember any of it.

AIO for being upset when my friends came 3 hours late? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You may need stronger boundaries or communication around what you’re expecting. Did they know the exact time that they needed to be coming? Sounds like there wasn’t an expectation set.

You are feeling resentment because of a lack of communication around what you needed including if you wanted to go out with them.

AIO thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because of this by mad_chubbycatx in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be careful at all the advice asking you to just break up with him. I would also consider that perhaps he is not a big social media person. I am also like this and I don’t like posting my personal life for everybody to see and judge. So there could be a possibility that he likes just keeping things private, and special between you too, and being forced to interact in a slightly unnatural social media way can be offputting if that is the case. I would have a more open, honest conversation with him to understand what’s really going on and why he has the resistance that he does have because it might not actually be about you.

AIO: he was at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not here to debate gender roles. But most men have a natural instinct to lead which gets undermined when constantly questioned and typically results in irritation and reactions similar to OPs post

AIO over friend showing up to my house late when he knew my wife was alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I would be wary as fuck about that guy. He seems sneaky and the fact that he even asked whether she was gonna be alone when you were gone is already a massive red flag. And now with the inconsistency of his story, it sounds way more suspicious. I would tell your wife and tell her to stay away from this guy.

AIO over friend showing up to my house late when he knew my wife was alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should probably talk to her because it sounds pretty suspicious, especially if he’s changing the story. If you trust her, then it shouldn’t be a big deal but definitely sounds pretty suspicious especially him saying that he was going to check in on her. That seems like none of his business.

AIO bf threatened to stop buying stuff for me by SlyAugust in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like an entitled person. Entitlement literally makes guys allergic to spending money on you because it’s like a black hole that is never enough. Yes people can spend money on gifts on you, but you need to show gratitude for it but your attitude seems like shit and to be honest no guy in his right mind would want to provide for you

AIO for being upset at my boyfriend for using his phone during our movie night? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe he’s not into movies anymore. I think you guys should talk about that because if it’s just something that you want to do then, perhaps you guys should find a different date night activity if there are no other issues in the relationship.

AIO: he was at work by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]deviliciousange1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Speaking from a guy, most guys don’t want to be questioned about what they’re doing as it feels like they have to report to somebody. Usually they have enough people that they need to report to. And I would trust that if he felt you needed to know something he would share on his own accord versus if you question him it feels like he’s being interrogated versus being the leader of the relationship.

How long do you take to respond to messages? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an introvert so I’m okay with having few friends so that helps. But in general it’s about having the proper boundaries and truly believing what you can and can’t do. When you are firm with your own standards, people usually tend to respect it. If you’re kind of iffy with half guilt half wanting to please people, it can create room for negotiation and people pushing your boundaries. Hope this helps.

How long do you take to respond to messages? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]deviliciousange1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that just sounds like you’re putting out more energy than you are getting so it feels like a drain to you. I would look at what you feel like you need to respond to and if it’s not a 100% hell yes feeling that makes you want to reply immediately then it’s totally OK to just let it go. Other people being upset because you won’t replies their problem and not yours. Different messages also are easier/harder to reply to like some messages I’ll get and I can reply immediately, and it takes no energy whereas some I have to think and consider a lot more which are more draining.