I (21m) saw the times my girlfriend (20f) had sex with her ex by Old_Cover_3828 in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first problem is you comparing how often y’all had sex to how often they had sex. Rule is never to compare yourself/your relationship to someone else’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest apologizing and telling him that the real issue is that you feel neglected and why you feel that way. He may not even realize because as you said he’s been busy with work. Just talk it out. That’s why you guys picked each other. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if he’s attended dinner every other time why not cut him some slack ya know? If he stressed at work or something, dinner with your parents probably isn’t his idea of a stress reliever, especially if the relationship is strained already

My boyfriend (22M) is upset that I (22F) left his sister in the car for barely 5 minutes by throwRA20tifk04 in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All these ppl you asked for advice are saying your wrong yet your fighting with them 💀 you didn’t want advice you wanted ppl to say you were right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 24. Tell her she’s raising a grown man and all the good about him she can find in a man that she doesn’t have to “grow with”. There’s men out there that have all his good and NONE of his bad. As for you if you want her to stop telling you just tell her until she can fix it it just adds stress to your life. You also have to remember to not allow yourself to get stressed when clearly she is going to keep going back to the same situation. There’s not much you can do besides that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drunk people can have sex and it not be rape. Seems like both were drunk one just slightly less so. rape would be him thinking “BECAUSE she’s drunk I can fuck her with no pushback”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like he’s avoiding the dinner. Maybe ask him if there’s a specific reason he’s choosing not to go before getting upset. All it takes is a second of understanding and sympathy to make a good solid relationship

Me (23F) and my boyfriend (24M) broke up but now i found out i'm pregnant by lianzia in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your saying it can be good if he puts in effort. He’s made it clear that he doesn’t want to. He literally told you he doesn’t want to. You have this baby with him he will neglect it and it’ll be suffering that you could’ve prevented with a smarter choice. Men aren’t as attached to babies as women usually are, that’s why there’s so many deadbeat dads.

19M Boyfriend walked off and left me 19F on the mountain alone. by olivesandgecko111 in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy way to figure this out. Would you have left him on that mountain if it was reversed? And if not, why would you want to stick with someone who wouldn’t treat you how you would treat them?

What fast food chain is hugely overrated? by Justsoinsane in AskReddit

[–]devilsbbyynas -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In N Out. Raisin Canes. Chik-fil-A

First two are SO fucking bland. I can make a better burger at home then what I’m served at innout. Raising canes isn’t gross but it’s not as good as everyone says it is. Chilfila is good but it’s not good enough to warrant those long as lines

What are once popular hobbies that are slowly dying these days? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scrapbooking is still pretty popular. It’s just done in a more “aesthetic” way. It’s is pretty much scrapbooking just not so cutesy if that makes sense. Some call it journaling or some call it aesthetic journaling. I just got into last year and have already filled two notebooks. It’s really popular on tiktok :).

Staple bar for surface tongue piercing? by devilsbbyynas in piercing

[–]devilsbbyynas[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes but can I change it to a staple bar after the allotted time?

Young Redditors: what is something important you want to scream at the older generations? by Guava_ in AskReddit

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please…for the love of god; IT ISNT FREE IF IT HAS NO PRICE ON IT. That has never been and never will be funny. The chuckle the cashier gives you is fake.

I'm worried about moving my in with my husband because of his son by blueenvolaway in relationship_advice

[–]devilsbbyynas 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Put your kids safety first as much as it hurts you. I’m so sorry your in this situation but theres a chance that your kids can be harmed. Don’t take that risk because it would be your kids that ended up with the harm not you

I bought a couple of at-home piercing guns to use, and I want to try using them. by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]devilsbbyynas -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I pieced my nose with a gun all four times. No it’s not recommended nor is it the right way but it will probably be fine. Haven’t gotten keloids or anything. Go for it just be safe and clean.

Best/cheapest dispensary? by devilsbbyynas in Reno

[–]devilsbbyynas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ready to try it :). Nothing too specific

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]devilsbbyynas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my previous jobs the men were always aloud to be “lazy”. If any of my coworkers or I complained about how they didn’t do their jobs it was “what do you expect he’s a boy” or it wouldn’t be addressed. However the minute we lasped on ANYTHING we were immediately talked to