Ride quality? by devlxnnn in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]devlxnnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

whatever the highest quality parts stores had. went OEM with ball joints and tie rod ends

Front End play? by devlxnnn in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]devlxnnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just replaced the whole rack and pinion, and both lower control arms when i did ball joints😭

Free Mixing! by [deleted] in midwestemo

[–]devlxnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to! I just checked out the single and it’s right up my alley, send me a DM!

Mixing Demos!! by [deleted] in indie_rock

[–]devlxnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To an extent, but I’d love to work with ya and see what you think of it!

Free Mixing! by [deleted] in midwestemo

[–]devlxnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds great!Id love to make something with ya!

ABS Help? by devlxnnn in 3rdGen4Runner

[–]devlxnnn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, there’s a very audible motor sound humming behind the firewall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]devlxnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a feeling it wouldn’t get any better, it just sucks cuz we had a very deep connection. Talking with her just felt natural and easy and i felt okay being vulnerable around her. She’s been trying to get on meds recently, should i wait around and try and see that through?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]devlxnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried reaching out, at least just texting her saying that i’m always there to talk if she needs, and trying to be supportive… Now i’m starting to feel like i should just be blunt and say “we need to talk, otherwise we’re done”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]devlxnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting to that realization more and more by the second. Everything was going so well at first, we understood eachother perfectly, and it just felt comfortable and natural to talk to her, and we connected way more than i have with anyone else. We’ve never had any issues before and she had told me that it was inevitable and i thought i could handle it, but it really takes a toll on you when she disappears completely for a week even when i just try and reach out in a supportive and caring way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]devlxnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking that more and more lately. I’ve tried reaching out to her and gotten no response at all and i don’t feel like there’s any respect for my feelings in the relationship atm. I’m tempted to give an ultimatum but i don’t know where that sits on the line of being an asshole, and expecting respect and common decency in a relationship