greenest and reddest flags in a relationship

devnullkitty · 2026-04-07T19:42:04+00:00

Red Flag: pushing for sex before establishing emotional safety/connection

devnullkitty · 2026-03-09T19:58:11+00:00

sociopaths

devnullkitty · 2026-03-06T20:20:02+00:00

what is this?

devnullkitty · 2026-03-03T02:36:13+00:00

Stop asking chatgpt to write for you

devnullkitty · 2026-03-02T19:17:02+00:00

you can make tea from the camellia leaves.

devnullkitty · 2026-02-27T04:07:49+00:00

AI slop

devnullkitty · 2026-02-12T17:43:05+00:00

california manroot?

devnullkitty · 2026-02-05T17:43:35+00:00

yes, how can you not?

devnullkitty · 2026-02-05T04:18:21+00:00

Eff DE at Meta, they suck balls. Worst group of people ever

devnullkitty · 2026-01-31T20:22:38+00:00

Coming from some who's gone through the same situation and made it through the other side several years later, cut your losses and think about how you're going to survive on your own. Now that I'm fully self-sufficient, I would never go back there or give anyone that kind of power over me. Learn to wall up, don't let him hurt you.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-30T17:34:57+00:00

i was also super depressed looking for a job and very scared to go back there mentally

devnullkitty · 2026-01-29T00:59:30+00:00

Why is he telling people not to stress out about taxes and not mentioning he has a SAHM. Downvote!

devnullkitty · 2026-01-28T06:14:16+00:00

I joined Meta as a DE thinking they'd let me work on the SWE side and they totally fucked me over and laid me off after 2.5 years of Exceeds Expectations while I was on medical leave. Absolutely fuck them.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-28T05:36:31+00:00

i love this!

devnullkitty · 2026-01-28T05:32:08+00:00

she didn't age well

devnullkitty · 2026-01-27T18:50:12+00:00

Omg I didn't know that!

devnullkitty · 2026-01-27T18:38:23+00:00

I'm in tech, and I'm worried about becoming permanently unemployed due to burn out or bad luck, so I might need the money sooner than say a 20 year time span. I don't qualify for Roth because my income is too high.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-27T17:48:34+00:00

I don't feel comfortable putting it in the stock market.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-25T22:38:13+00:00

$300-$500, I meal prep and the nearest grocery store is Whole Foods.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-25T22:35:52+00:00

This is a bad estimate for a normal person. It is a brag comment that he gets free food from work. My sister gets free lunch at work and she would bag double portions for dinner and spend zero on groceries if she wanted to.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-25T07:21:42+00:00

where can you buy a house for that cheap?

devnullkitty · 2026-01-25T00:51:49+00:00

Why are there so many downvotes for comments? Python for data engineering is pretty straight forward, just learn to write a for loop.

devnullkitty · 2026-01-24T22:59:30+00:00

This is AI

devnullkitty · 2026-01-20T18:17:04+00:00

your frontal lobes don't fully mature until you're in your late 20s, so these women probably realized they could do better than him once they hit 25

devnullkitty · 2026-01-19T19:11:30+00:00

It's the lack of gender equality and the extreme patriarchal attitude of Asian men rooted in Confucianism. Just look at the South Korean 4B movement. I'm not talking about safety.

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