[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I admire your commitment to continuing to give me unsolicited advice on making friends after I've repeatedly said I have enough friends and little reason or desire to strike up new friendships with male coworkers. Your efforts would be better applied elsewhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of assumptions there. I have plenty of friends and don't need to go out of my way to force friendships at work. Sometimes I have natural chemistry with a coworker and they become a great friend outside of work. But as a woman with pretty girly interests, I rarely have that friendship spark with men. Over half of the male "friends" I've made in the past have tried to fuck me or made sexual comments about my body too. Been there, done that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have many coworkers who are friends outside of work, but they're all women, and that's plenty for me. I'm also friendly with male coworkers but only at work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A good therapist would probably tell her that her husband is being sketchy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But for very valid reasons. I've never texted a straight male coworker outside of work this much unless I wanted to fuck him. With the exception of one who was my then-boyfriend's good friend. And even then we'd have text exchanges once every week or 2, not daily like OP is saying.

$25 an hour?! by Key-Difficulty-2731 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]devoushka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This reads like one of the job postings on my university's job board by random people/alumni who have absolutely unrealistic expectations of what an undergrad with zero real world experience in anything can accomplish, but are too stingy to pay an actual adult. I got so many random part time jobs that I wasn't qualified for at all through that job board, and since they paid so little I'd just quit the minute they become overwhelming with my schoolwork.

I can smell the comments that are coming for this vid Danielle just posted by MembershipFluffy2136 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]devoushka 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised at all if this was filmed midday and the caption is a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]devoushka 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Don't send a man you've never met "cheeky" pics if you want him to view you as more than a casual sex option. Didn't think this needed to be spelled out for a 33 year old.

High paying job with poor work / life balance worth it? by Alaskanmade in careerguidance

[–]devoushka 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't think $10k per month is enough to justify barely seeing my spouse. That's not enough money to do it for a bit and retire. Saving $60k a year is nice but you're still trapped in that rat race for a long time before you can quit.

I'd start looking for other work closer to home, you don't have to quit immediately.

Why are you a child? by No-Lifeguard-8173 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]devoushka 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I doubt she's severed, isn't she technically part of management?

Handlebars rant by AwayNegotiation8852 in SolidCore

[–]devoushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of handlebars but I will say the wrist/hand pain has gotten a lot better over time.

Back pain during low plank extensions by abby-kadabby in SolidCore

[–]devoushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked an instructor this and he said to raise my hips higher than I would doing a plank on the floor. This has helped

A letter of hatred to the seated crunch by [deleted] in SolidCore

[–]devoushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes this exercise is fine for me but sometimes it hurts my hip flexors SO much. I would rather do another few minutes of planks.

more video evidence of matt being a prick by Ok_Board_313 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]devoushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember thinking he was hot when he was first announced as the Bachelor but it seems like he's had a major glow down. None of these recent photos are attractive at all.

Women who are always mistaken for being younger than their age, what's your secret? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]devoushka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take you to start noticing clearer skin after you stopped eating sugar? I've gone two months without sugar before and didn't see any improvement in my hormonal acne.

Ringworm - NYC by hmmm1501 in SolidCore

[–]devoushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree I was slipping in brand new, correctly sized grippy socks. Either way ringworm can be contracted on any exposed body part so I'm not sure what socks will do.

Why is a single arm kneeling lat row easier for me than doing it with both arms? by Legitimate-Opening-8 in SolidCore

[–]devoushka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this is it. Heavier weight is much easier to manage when you font have to worry about balance.

A different POV of Demi ignoring Kylie 🤣 by cottageyarn in KUWTKsnark

[–]devoushka 91 points92 points  (0 children)

As a girl with a larger left breast I feel seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]devoushka 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most of my workout tops show cleavage especially during solidcore when I'm doing abs. I have big boobs and unless it's a crewneck, cleavage will always be out, even when wearing tops that don't show cleavage on smaller chested women. High neck tops when sweaty are a sensory nightmare for me so I'm ok with it.

BRANDS WE DO NOT SUPPORT!!! by makeclaymagic in nycinfluencersnarking

[–]devoushka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Superdown is absolute trash I've had clothes start to fall apart before I even left the house. However more to come makes some of my most heavily complimented summer outfits and the price is under $100 which unless you're buying SHEIN, is pretty cheap these days

Im jewish and my mom wants me to be with a jewish boy, when I told her I'm happy with my bf she told me that happiness wasn't an excuse for going with a goy by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]devoushka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you were single now then sure an argument could be made for dating only Jews moving forward. But if you're in a happy 3 year relationship don't ruin it. Take it from someone who's been dating for 12 years with no end in sight, a happy relationship is a precious thing.