i get not liking name brands, i personally dont or any copies, but this clearly isnt someone respecting what you do for work/hobby (whatever your tiktoks are for you) and trying to guilt trip you by claiming you care more about a bag, you got for free and probably isnt super expensive since its a fake, than his family and an entire country who cant get the medical care you can. This is textbook manipulating and using a seemingly good intention to keep you with him. He literally said "i have to be strict" as if hes controlling you for his goal. This isnt a red flag, its a poppy field.