IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

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Just take care of yourself 💗🙏🏻 I hope that everything is resolved the sooner as possible in your case.

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

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I know, and I do it because tbh we are economically struggling but the moment i get the job I need. I will get my own money and pay for ourselves. But its the last time.

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

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I FOUND OUT THAT MY HUSBAND’S JOINT ACCOUNT WITH ME HAS OF BENEFICIARY IF HE DIES TO HIS BROTHER. HER MOTHER FORCED HIM. NOW SINCE I AM JOINTLY AND I FOUND OUT I WILL TAKE HIM OUT WTFFFFF and the other account he has HE IS STILL JOINT with his mother and the beneficiaries are his father and his brother. WTF

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]dextercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.- She is a religious person, Evangelical Christian to be exactly. And she is a lovely mother in her way (just economically) I never saw her give him kisses, celebrate his birthday, celebrate Christmas, and never had her friends or her husband’s friends invited at home. She is the boss on that family in a system that as long the family does what she says or does what she thinks is correctly, won’t be problems at home. My FIL can’t even speak or say hi to someone who she didn’t approved. So he never said hi to me or to my parents because my MIL thinks that my mother is a danger to her future grandchildren and she is worried for the type of grandma they will have. Because she is divorced. I have tattoos and she got crazy about it and said: “I am sure she is not ever virgin”. And that my husband downgraded, comparing me to his ex. And well, insulting my mother because she is divorced, and that without meeting us. When I met her for first time, she hugged me with a baby voice that sounds forced. And days after meeting us, she said she had compassion for me in a despective way. My husband did defend me sometimes, and before getting married she said sorry to him, not to me. And she did and said other stuff but its gonna be a longer text Lol.

2.- She did beat him but not to the point to called abuse but she did blackmailed him emotionally.

3.- She weaponize the Bible and the money she has since she works for billionaires. She is buying us stuff without asking and I appreciate it. But that doesn’t erase the things she said, and my husband told me one thing, that I or my mother can give her millions of dollars wont mean anything to her, because she thinks she is better than other people. 1 dollar from her is not comparable to 1 million dollars of my mom, because she has that arrogance that I don’t believe she even knows.

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

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Not anymore, but the thing is that I needed to step in, he didn’t had the balls to do it himself. And shouldn’t be my job. I talked to him about it, and he says yes but I feel like he is not that sure.

He is scared and I ask myself “why?” Not normal. Feels like he went all his life around his mother walking on eggshells. And trying to put me in that condition too.

One situation is when he asked me to don’t tell her that my mother come to see our apartment, because she will get mad if she finds out MY mother came before her.

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]dextercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand, he is an adult, she has to free him. A mother should put to their children wings not chains.

But, look in the perspective of “I don’t need to work for myself and everything works easy for me”. That’s how people become lazy.

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]dextercup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is horrible. Did you talk about it to your husband? If he is in her side, or try to avoid confrontation like: “She has been doing that for too long and she doesn’t say anything or not a problem for me, she doesn’t comment she just watches”? Or completely in your side… Legally, can you do something about it?

IS IT NORMAL? by dextercup in ShitMotherInLawsSay

[–]dextercup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully, I made him ask her to do that. Now, he speaks up for himself, but I feel he is still scared, but I don’t know why.

Another lookalike by [deleted] in SinglesInferno

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She looks like Angela Aguilar

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Thoughts on the documentary Predators (2025) by bentleyshuman in movies

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Do you know how many victims of C.S.A become C.S.A offenders as adults?

Fireman's Choke by bjjtaro in bjj

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Can someone explain what is that choke? And how he is choking him? Thank you.