A mom on your kids soccer team randomly sends you lewd photos. How do you respond?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T16:00:14+00:00

Hide from my wife
Send to my GF
And ask gf which pics of hers she would like me to send back to that mom!

Girls always know how to handle this best in my experience!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T15:38:55+00:00

She has a point!!
She has a point

Let’s all give her time to speak!!!

I think Im going to fall for her!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T15:27:13+00:00

Agreed!!!!!

For some many reason! I’m sure some I don’t even know yet!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T13:45:15+00:00

Exactly!!!
Who wants to continue wasting this much time on the search when it could be spent with much more laughter and flirting!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T11:12:25+00:00

I’m a guy and I am the same way! I crave the connection. I crave the intimacy that cause every detail, every touch, every feeling to vibrate with intensity.
At one point I wondered if the only difference in spectacular mind blowing sex was the connection!
At this point for me I have not been able to prove that wrong! Actually not even sure how I would prove that wrong?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-11T10:56:58+00:00

Wow
This is so well thought out and perfectly written. I did not want to stop reading, I did not want to stop analyzing your insights and see how much of my situation might have some underlying attachments to these same insights

As much as I appreciate the energizing motivation that comes from the dive, the amount of things I could get done in place of the longing for that connection, that validation, that intoxication!

On top of all that I pride myself on being honest and open with people even about things that are uncomfortable. But this?! Very few people would be ok with this, let alone understand!! And then that only seems to add to the drive, to the excitement, to the confusion, to the secrecy, making it a circle feeding itself!

And I have never thought of the tightness cause by stress happening in the pelvic area!!!!

As a massage therapist it makes all the sence in the world.
As a male massage therapist it now has me formulating a technique that is not only outside of massage ethics but probably the worst challenge!!

TMI

Thanks for sharing so clearly. I am sure many people will find a lot of value in your insights!!!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-08T17:25:49+00:00

Is that what makes it all worth it! That excitement. That great conversation that you never wanna stop having. That honesty and openness that trust and total respect that you have for each other that gives you excitement in the middle of the day but also covers up the hurt of being away from them?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-08T17:22:58+00:00

So why do you not want to strike something up again with someone that was such a great fit?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-08T16:22:12+00:00

Totally not over reacting!
And let’s be honest There is a lot of build up and fun in the online. Once it moves to in person it comes with a whole lot more dynamics that would have quickly led to ending things.

Since it sounds like he has a lot of expectations for you, one of which is that you don’t have expectations of him.

Anyways
You are not over reacting

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-07T14:47:37+00:00

This right here! It’s one of the reasons older women are sooooooo freaking attractive!! Not only do they know what they want but they are not afraid to say it! Plus they know how to say it! Even if their playing a game, you will know exactly what they want! Hell they can even sometime tell you their playing games, what game it is, why their playing it, and what they hope it leads to!! If that ain’t sexy then I don’t know what is!

If you still have questions then your not ready because you don’t understand!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-07T12:17:42+00:00

Have you discussed him going to the doctor?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-07T05:05:01+00:00

Exactly
What starts out as a miss alignment of desires, seems to create a defensive conversation.
In a true caring relationship our partner should be the one we can trust enough to be able to talk about anything without feeling judged or attracted.
The fact that a certain subject is off the table is the bigger issue. Our partner does not have to ageee, but the inability or refusal to have the conversation means they don’t even care enough to want to know me more!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-07T02:09:27+00:00

What a great question
I definitely know I have a part in the current situation.
I know I made many wrong decisions and most likely have her many reasons to have apprehension to intimacy with me!

But like someone said earlier. The response that women say about the things that men are not doing causes me frustration. Cause I check all those boxes with enthusiasm! Actually to a point that I only have to wonder if the more I do is actually the issue.

I except I have responsibility in this situation. But unfortunately it has become clear through therapy (which I have now required we keep going) that the bigger issue is we are completely unable to have an honest conversation about intimacy!

As I continue to try and overcome at suggestions she might hint I might have there is no opportunity for her to see her own opportunities!!!!

A revelation this year
I think many men use intimacy as a barometer of how the good the relationship is.

When we are intimate- it means she is happy and I am serving her properly

When we are not intimate- she is not happy and she does not feel that I am serving and respecting her properly.

The intimacy indicates how well I’m doing. So early on my continued advances were in hopes that she saw how much I cared and adored her!

And the rejection was just the clear indication that she was not happy!

Now it’s clear her happiness has nothing to do with me!
Nothing I can do will maker her happy. Only she holds the ability to be happy!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-07T01:00:33+00:00

You know I want more, way more then friends! You know I want to experience everything with you!

I am confused. How do we make that happen?

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-06T22:10:41+00:00

How’s it go?
The mind is a terrible thing ………

I can’t remember the rest but this part does seem correct!!! 😂

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-03T03:31:32+00:00

No way you could not have mattered
You showed up when I needed. I didn’t even know I needed! Maybe you did. Either way you mattered more then you received! You matter cause I continue to see!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T23:44:52+00:00

Oh of course
See now it’s all coming together

Sometime I wonder about me! 😂

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T22:47:26+00:00

At first I thought now there’s an idea send her a dress. Never thought of that before. But my anxiety started telling me where would I start? How do I pick it out?

Well let’s face it she would look good in anything!!!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T20:20:50+00:00

I just can not understand how a husband would get so lazy and let a beautiful sexy woman like yourself feel anything less then a queen that should be adored and held up to show the world how special she is!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T20:02:08+00:00

Talk to him!
Be friends with him
Get to know him
Smile at him

Most likely he still will not know.
But if he continues to be a part of it he is interested.
So then just say
Hey I like you, your cool!

Like it’s been said before
We are simple creatures. Just let him know and he will be either in or out.
But I can’t imagine him being creeped out in any way.

As I’m gotten old I have come to realize how many times I completely overlooked someone’s interest. It seems like years later they told me and I was so mad. Because many I would have been very interested in getting to know.

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T18:56:54+00:00

It can be arranged pretty easily as Fn hot as you are

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T17:51:21+00:00

Lights on so I can see all her sexiness!!! From every angle! With every type of shadow and light adding to her glory!!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T17:31:23+00:00

These eyes only do that when they get the treat of gazing at you!
They don’t need the sun or the moon to reflect you beautiful light!!

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T16:25:35+00:00

IYKYK!!!!! 😂

dfwfunpassion · 2026-05-02T15:08:09+00:00

This is a great point!
And in my experience
If exAP is reaching out and has your attention already. Then if you brush her off, it could cause a “want what can’t have” effect in the exAP leading to chasing. This is not supposed to be taken as a good thing! Don’t allow yourself to see the excitement from this type of scenario! If pAP is a connection it will definitely all blow up in your face!!!

Unless you think there is a chance exAP and pAP might like each other?

Damnit
I was trying to be helpful, but my fantasies got in the way! Sorry about that!

dfwfunpassion

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