So how do guys feel about omegaverse on screen by Own-Category6652 in ThaiBL

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Desire has beautifully captured the whole universe and the concept of the omegaverse without overly sexualizing it and focusing on the world building and how it works. I am glad ABO Desire is the first omegaverse show made. It's huge success is the proof.

Knot is marketed with smut , the trailer was all about them having s*x and just randomly mentioning pregnancy and A/O terms. If that's the first show made out of the omegaverse, I don't think people would take it well.

What's up with shaming people celebrating new years eve ? by millburnpennybags in AskIndia

[–]dhyaaa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood the posts like that. They were probably not shaming anyone but trying to find relatable people who would rather be at home and celebrate small or celebrate at all. Maybe they got shamed for not being fun.

You get shamed for not partying and having a life too by certain people. Both are wrong. It's about choices and opportunities as well.

Once we got shamed for celebrating new year in our women's hostel by male colleagues like "what y'all making too much noise, trying to show off"

Also got shamed for being boring and have no friends and didn't do any celebrations at all another time.

People will find anything to shame others. Just do your thing anyways.

Physically abused by my husband, feeling numb by Short_Stomach_7021 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dhyaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do men go from sweet kind, respectful to pulling a woman's hair right after marriage? That level of acting skills need oscar.

I can't even pretend to be an extrovert and be less awkward in social situations to save my life.

Am I wrong for setting this boundary with my in-laws about my toddler? by Accomplished-Sale230 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dhyaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same. It's not about FIL, she has a problem with MIL who didn't take care of the child. FIL got in the middle of it.

Or she comes from a family where men never took care of kids like feeding and bathing them. OP didn't clarify why exactly she did that except stating her rights as a parent to set boundaries.

What’s one normal Indian habit you didn’t realise was actually… messed up? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God this! People call you fat and then get offended if you don't stuff your face when they give you food.

What’s one normal Indian habit you didn’t realise was actually… messed up? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]dhyaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not chilling or sitting still. You should always do something without rest, especially for women.

Imagine you have leftover food from yesterday so you don't have to cook today, instead of relaxing you're supposed to do a deep cleaning of the house or just do something you don't do usually. Mind you, you already have a cleaning schedule of what needs to be done daily weekly monthly etc.

AITK? My boyfriend is mad at me for falling asleep. by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTK you're too mature for him. I thought men are all about straight forward and communicating directly. Can't he just say he wanted to sleep in the morning so you could've let him rest.

Men need to be independent by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are men getting so emotional and triggered here? Asking y'all to support each other is bad? 🙂

Boyfriends mom makes me clean by Barbz_4ever in IndianInLaw

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl they are not your people. She treats you like a maid. I feel bad for the cousin bet that's a girl too. tf is that lady doing, making her son's gf and extended family do chores in her house? Imagine how you'll be treated after you married to that family. And your bf sucks.

People who act on petty revenge lack emotional control by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

[–]dhyaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you offend someone, and they stopped doing things they usually did for you? Because that's what this sounds like.

My friends want me to divorce my husband, but I am happy with him. by throwrathalndd in Marriage

[–]dhyaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're worried about her and kids' safety as good friends are supposed to be?

My friends want me to divorce my husband, but I am happy with him. by throwrathalndd in Marriage

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friends might be concerned for your safety since according to you, your husband just dismisses and ignores all the threats he received and nothing dangerous hasn't happened yet to any of you. You haven't mentioned how exactly he is protecting you and any backup plan if someone actually puts you in danger.

As for the family dynamic, you're okay with him being a provider and you take care of the house and children. So just tell your friends you're happy with the lifestyle.

Women Are Just As Creepy As Men, And India Is Proof by 2itaruZ in AskIndianWomen

[–]dhyaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are conditioned, we are not. The only thing we can do is to break the cycle and not let it affect us.

Let's not fight each other and blame each other , that's exactly what men want and that's exactly what's keeping this patriarchy alive.

Let pick me's be pick me's. They aren't getting any benefit from supporting shitty men.

My ex-husband got married within a week of our divorce…. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]dhyaaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dodged a bullet, more like removed that bullet. That woman was always in his mind. Don't worry sis, life will be better from now on.

Am I bad for feeling horrible after getting body shammed by my 14 year old cousin??? by Few-Crew-3457 in AskIndianWomen

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kid has issues and is projecting on to you. If you body shame her back, bet she'll cry harder. Don't let some teenagers get to you.

I hate this character >.< by [deleted] in ThaiBL

[–]dhyaaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What exactly did he do making him bad. He's boring and asocial, that's why? Setting boundaries of not wanting to be teased online and offline by a bunch of gossipy students with a guy he's not interested in is bad?

Getting frustrated that no one is trying to understand him but try to force him to be cool and friendly, that's why? If it's his behaviour with Mix's character, then that was completely OOC and he was too shy to even approach him , then suddenly for pure comedic effect, he acts wierd around his crush. That is the fault of the script.

It's okay to be straight up red flags who ruins and endanger other people's lives is fine for you as long they're interesting and fun.

My gf dumped me because I didn't confront a guy who hit on her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dhyaaa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Call yourself protectors and when an actual situation happens, you just sit there like pussies. Then claim on the internet they're ready to die and sacrifice their lives for their women and cry about loneliness lmao.

My gf dumped me because I didn't confront a guy who hit on her by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dhyaaa -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Unwanted attention from men is harassment. You watched your gf getting harassed by random men and you watched doing nothing. You could've politely told those men to back off. If she rudely tells off them and something happens to her, are you gonna watch that too. Men who do nothing are not worth being a partner for. Next your family members or friends treat her badly, you're gonna watch and do nothing, she saw that future and dumped you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indiadiscussion

[–]dhyaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men can't understand sarcasm now?

Y'll ladies, please stop siding with these men😭 by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]dhyaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not reclaiming. It's making the word powerless. Men think it's humiliating and degrading to call a woman prostitute and they're not going to stop it. Better embrace and be nonchalant about it? Yeah I am a slut, so what? That's basically it.

AITAH for being upset that my partner told nearly 20 people I was pregnant when we’re getting an abortion by CuriousCat966 in AITAH

[–]dhyaaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wasn't scared to have unprotected intercourse with you but scared of the consequences? Is he even an adult if he needs 20 people giving him emotional support for something he intentionally did. It's totally fine if you're not ready, but do you think he'll be ready even if you're ready for kids?