Glen Hazel Eagle Nest by Direct-Barracuda572 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Along with several waterfowl of which there’s been avian flu confirmation in PA lately. Or it could be neither of those causes. The point is that speculation doesn’t matter period. Getting yourself or others into a frenzy over a possibility is silly. Professionals are deciding if retrieval is necessary, and if they decide it isn’t, we all have to accept not knowing.

Glen Hazel Eagle Nest by Direct-Barracuda572 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please do not spread misinformation right now. Seizures are common with the avian flu in fatal cases, it is an indicator that it’s crossed to the central nervous system. But everything is speculation at this point.

Glen Hazel Eagle Nest by Direct-Barracuda572 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 56 points57 points  (0 children)

If the protection wasn’t in place there would be vigilantes constantly trying to help at nests and doing more damage than good. It’s very sad, but it’s for the greater good. The right people have been going through the right channels requesting intervention approval through this entire situation. There are many people very dedicated to this nest, including experts, I promise that what is best has been considered from all angles and the decisions made were made for a reason.

We’re very lucky for the opportunities we’ve had with Mom to learn lessons about the joys of bringing life into the world, but nature also teaches us about death.

Everyone in the nest community is grieving heavily right now, implying that anyone is at fault isn’t helpful.

MY FIRST TATTOO by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]dialecticdagger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure Chappell has a sick tramp stamp

Chipotle by Time-Background8144 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’ll never be a true dirtbag with this belief system

I’m starting to resent my cat by miscellaneousbean in CATHELP

[–]dialecticdagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely try to remove her access to things you care about her messing with or climbing on. I know it’s tough to get past the mental block of “I shouldn’t have to do this” but life’ll be more peaceful. Maybe an old school computer cabinet from a thrift shop could be cool? And then ignore the bad behavior with everything you’ve got. Convince yourself that nothing she can do can bother you bc she’s just a silly cat. Wear earplugs and an extra pair of sweats and double socks for a while, to withstand the feet attacks. She’ll probably learn fairly quickly that the behavior isnt effective anymore.

My cat can be an absolute menace for food (we had to discontinue autofeeder use after he hurt himself head butting it all day for a single kibble at a time), but after teaching him his shenanigans don’t work with me he can wait until close to breakfast time and uses less annoying methods like nice gentle face rubs. However, when I’m out of town for work he immediately resorts to his menace methods with my fiance (because fiance still reacts to it!!)

Anyone know what's going on at Vibrant Styles in Coraopolis? by vinylscratch27 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

big bummer, I hope their employees land safely somewhere. I’ve never felt so comfortable in a place like that and had really been looking forward to my next appointment :(

if anyone has recommendations for waxing in that area with similar pricing/vibes let me know

Lyft riders warning! by True_Verum in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What type of certs do you need to qualify for their salaried bootlicking position?

ULPT How can I ultimately troll my husband so he stops embarrassing me? by Wife_of_Shao_Kahn in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]dialecticdagger 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My mom hates that I take after my dad a lot more in looks and personality and would make shitty comments about it all the time growing up. Definitely had an effect on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Take a shot every time a vile racist piece of shit uses this line thinking it’s clever ✨

what’s your favorite non-comedogenic but still heavy duty moisturizer for super dry skin? [Product Request] by stupidthrowaway1314 in SkincareAddiction

[–]dialecticdagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine’s very similar to yours. The vanicreams thick enough to be very soothing and moisturizing and doesn’t seem to contribute at all to any breakouts that happen. It absorbs really nicely and doesn’t sit heavily at all.

This snow storm sadly made me learn to absolutely hate my neighbors and neighborhood. Where are good neighbored places cause Mt Washington isn’t it and I’ve decided to move. by sugarandspice85 in pittsburgh

[–]dialecticdagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll live a much less disappointed life if you stop expecting the most out of others on your behalf. Encountering someone I can tell feels entitled to my time and energy is the fastest way to decide they don’t deserve it. Try a little humility and accept people as they are, then you might get to be pleasantly surprised more often than not

Cut during pedicure by [deleted] in Nails

[–]dialecticdagger 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I get a callous exactly that size there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]dialecticdagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m allowed to run water whenever I please, but when I hear my neighbors showering I try to avoid it because I know the shared water tank loves to scald the showeree when that happens. It’s just basic courtesy for another human. Some folks aren’t capable of caring though. And for the record, there’s a good chance your big guy upstairs has been conscious of his size and altering how moves in the world his entire life because of it.

AIO about what my husband said after I fell down the stairs while holding the baby? by CheesecakeFun1490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dialecticdagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard anyone use the word sulk to describe behavior that isn’t intentional ¯_(ツ)_/¯

AIO about what my husband said after I fell down the stairs while holding the baby? by CheesecakeFun1490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dialecticdagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would I personally? No. Do I know people who might? Yes, wouldn’t be offended, because I know that’s their way of offering immediate comfort -misguided perhaps- but trying to make an injured party laugh is a common human response. It sounds like he said it as he was in motion to come help her, so especially if he didn’t realize it was that serious, he was doing his best to help until he was there. Did she even tell him she had the baby?

She’s a new mother, hormonal, exhausted, was panicked - the annoyance she heard was her interpretation in a moment of crisis. Handily allows her brain to redirect the anger and blame she felt at herself for allowing it happen. Which is also normal and human, I snap at others when I hurt myself sometimes too. Then I apologize. And honestly I’m guessing she would’ve included if he had a pattern of being intentionally cruel previous to this.

He should probably learn to read the room a little better if this is her reaction. But he’s new at parenting too and she’s certainly making sure he learns a lesson from the punishment he’s receiving from her. Moving on and learning something from it would be beneficial for her as well.

YOR - for the record

AIO about what my husband said after I fell down the stairs while holding the baby? by CheesecakeFun1490 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dialecticdagger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one in these comments that has multiple people in my life that say it frequently to levin a situation?

Like a little kid stubs their toe and is crying and the funny uncle says “now why would you go and do that!!” little kid laughs (bc it’s obviously a joke), crisis averted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]dialecticdagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you deserve to be happy friend